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Brooke Cumsalot · 07-08-2011, 01:58 AM

[b] I have been out of the hobby for a good while and can honestly say it has been a little pleasant vacation. I just recently checked my email to see if maybe people were still trying to set up appointments with me.... I was a little hurt when only spam, local pet searches, and upcoming event invitations where all I had. I could not be too hurt considering I have no been putting effort in on my part, due to me wanting to retire.

Well today I received an appointment request from a traveling man soon to be in Dallas, and in the email he had really made my day. Just by quoting previous posts I had made and over all the interest he showed amazed me.

I ended up having a session with him after phone tag and numerous texts. Honestly, it was one of the most inspiring sessions that I have come in counter with in a long time. I did not have to post an ad and stay online all day for weeks and honestly.... he found me.

THAT IS HOW IT SHOULD BE. If it is meant to be, it will find its' way, and we should not stress on sessions and not force it work out. The one who truly thinks you matter will find their way to you, nothing stopping them.

So many times I have found myself looking for the appointments instead of letting them find me. Booking appointments non nonchalantly usually means a half-ass session.

So from here on out, Brookie is looking outside the box and is going to allow the true gentleman to reach out to me and I will embrace them

. If he believes I am worth it, then by gahleee, he is worth the time proving it to him... and to myself

Which hopefully always will end amazingly for the both of us.

Just thought I would share my viewpoint. Sorry If not care not to hear. (BROOKTALKSALOT)

I just really hope more women let the right clients find them, instead of searching for them.

STAY SAFE LADIES..

& I miss you guys

LOVE BROOKIE

pyramider · 07-08-2011, 05:24 AM

Gee and all this time I thought it was the small and quick were provider favorites.

Brooke Cumsalot · 07-08-2011, 05:37 AM

Everybody is different. But it always is awesome when somebody takes the time out of their day to research you, and then follow through... ya know? maybe its just me..

bigdog0311 · 07-08-2011, 05:57 AM

You are exactly right, Brookie, it should be that you do not have to "work" as far as spending all day online, texting or chatting on the phone for one appointment, that may or may not happen. Consequently, neither should the client waiting for a response to set an appointment, after all, the client is the one paying for your time, show him some respect for his time and effort he put in to "inquire" about you. You do have the "right" to wait to see when/if a potential client "reaches out" to you and tries to set with you, and if that is who you feel a "good" client, then that is great, I hope that works out for you, of course, unless you are working 24/7, then maybe about 25% or higher, of the guys who contact you, especially the ones who are trying to see you for the first time, will get turned down or get no response as they may request to see you "outside your working hours".

Brooke Cumsalot · 07-08-2011, 06:34 AM

very true. I am just saying that we as providers need to pay more attention to the clients who seem to have had their eye on them for a while and not over look such things we often do. I guess it is always hard to get across the meaning of this post in a way that reaches out to each and every reader the way I intended. But I do know that sometimes the clients who put that little extra effort and make a woman feel as if she is the special one he has his eyes on, instead of just another random provider he emailed in Dallas before his trip, might be well worth the time. Hope I am making it a little clearer.. sorry ;( lol

bigdog0311 · 07-08-2011, 07:58 AM

I do alot of research before I even contact a provider to set an appointment, so, yes, I understand what you are saying, you want to feel as though you are more than just a "provider", who all a hobbyist may see is a pic or two in a showcase, but an actual person who is special and has feelings.

Same can be said on the other hand too........I want to feel like I am not just a wallet, but a man, who could choose ANY provider out there, but actually chose you to contact and set up an appointment with, so how about some love thrown my way? if only for an hour!

Brooke Cumsalot · 07-08-2011, 08:16 AM

well just let me know when u need some loving mister

~Ynot~ · 07-08-2011, 08:30 AM

just a quick note. I have very rarely seen a provider before doing some research and talking with them first to make sure we click. There is nothing worse than seeing someone that ya dont feel some passion with, Being I live in a somewhat isolated area I do often have to rely on girls that travel. Moral of this story is please advertise where you are travelling to so us rural guys can catch up to ya when you are close. AM out.

TexRich · 07-08-2011, 09:45 AM

very interesting, thinking outside the box. or perhaps the new paradigm for escorting.

Guest022315 · 07-08-2011, 09:59 AM

TexRich has a point. Not trying to speak for any provider imho the best client is the person that pays and is respectful to the provider. on side note nice to see your back

Putanna Di Classe · 07-08-2011, 11:57 AM

Brook I TOTALLY know where you are coming from. It is nice when a man approaches you as a whole and not a hole.

It is refreshing when the opening line of his e-mail is, "I see you like Rudi Wiest Rhein River Riesling, would it be possible for you to join me over a glass or two in my room at Xhotel at Xday&time as I will be in town on business?" Instead of, "hey wassup, i saw that review from may where you did that incredibly low priced special, can i get me some of that? oh yeah baby and can u b ready in 15 min?"

Moral of the story you catch more providers with honey than lack of tact and common sense.

I am truly glad that a nice man found you at a time when you were obviously needing something refreshing and fun to happen!

We as providers definitely need to advertise and get ourselves out there so the guys can find us, but you are correct that chasing the guys is only one way to get business. You could do zero chasing and still have some quality guys contact you. And those are the best clients!!!

Guest020720 · 07-09-2011, 04:35 PM

welcome back brooke...
What you are realizing is something I've been doing for years and years.

Honestly - posting ads is nerve wracking for me. I feel that they half ass read them anyways, as well as anything you post in the ads getting thrown onto page 5 in less than half a day. (I also don't like being lumped into the masses of hearts, waves, circles, squares and all that other foo foo crap that gets put on the title line of ads).

I've been very lucky that so many of my clients seem to "know" me or "get" me - and sometimes I know this before we even get to our appointment.

I've been very flattered recently with a new client - who I kid you not - remembered stuff I had said from back before I left. (In '07)
He also had my favorite drink there at the hotel - and I was apologizing for my hair not being as sexy as my pics (ran out of mousse)...and he had taken note that in nearly all my pics - my hair is different every time. (except when straight...heck, straight is straight. right?)

To me - it made me feel even more genuine during our time together - because I am what I put out there. (well, except when I get cranky, snide, snippy or bitchy....that just comes out on here from time to time. ha ha) And I was sure he would appreciate that I am who I say, and what others say I am.

I might just seem to be rambling - but it's very nice and refreshing.

But I also see nothing wrong with being the dirty little whore who has specific parameters to stick to when meeting a client as well. (and he may know very little about me. as long as they don't ask me to do the things on my "don't" list - we are allllll good.)

Wordsmith · 07-09-2011, 06:26 PM

FYI - It's GOLLY.

Guest021213 · 07-09-2011, 07:51 PM

Welcome back Brookie

Guest041913 · 07-10-2011, 12:30 AM

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Originally Posted by Brooke Cumsalot

THAT IS HOW IT SHOULD BE. If it is meant to be, it will find its' way, and we should not stress on sessions and not force it work out. The one who truly thinks you matter will find their way to you, nothing stopping them.

Thanks for sharing Brooke! I recently had this same experience from a newbie!
He text me over and over, not giving up! That was so sweet!
He turned out to be a real gentleman and someone I would like to see again and again!
There are so many great guys out there, each one stands out in his own unique way! I appreciate all of you guys!
Hugs and Kisses,
Maria of DFW