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Old 12-05-2018, 06:19 PM   #1
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Default Masturbate before seeing provider?

I have a date next Tuesday morning and am wondering if I should hold off on cumming at all between now and then. Any downsides to “holding it”? Will my loads be any bigger since I’m letting it “build up”?

My goal is to have 2 rounds with my partner. Not sure if that means I should or shouldn’t have my daily jack off sessions before our date.

Any thoughts?
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Old 12-05-2018, 06:39 PM   #2
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Hey Tim, I'll weigh in.

How long is the scheduled date? If only 30 min., that may present a problem grinding out two shots. Your age may be an issue. If you're a healthy 35-40 y.o. stud, two in an hour probably won't be an issue. I'm a bit older and need a little extra time if I'm going for two (usually 90 min to 120 min). That said, if a provider is truly turning me on and into the session, 60 minutes could probably work in my case.

I'd consider leaving little willie alone for 2-3 days before the date.

Just my $02.
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Old 12-05-2018, 07:12 PM   #3
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The longer i hold off the bigger the loads. Give me a week and its peter north time
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Old 12-05-2018, 07:15 PM   #4
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I would suggest that you not do that. Willie is a muscle and the more you use him the stonger he gets.

You may want to refrain from masterbation for a day or two, but it won't matter beyond a day.

Instead get plenty of sleep. Nothing kills a boner more than lack of sleep.
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Old 12-05-2018, 07:52 PM   #5
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Thx for the info. Frizley, that muscle gets worked almost daily. He’s strong, lol. When I hold out, my loads seem bigger and the orgasm seems more intense. I’ve also noticed that I drip A LOT more pre-cum if I hadn’t cum for a while. I like the feeling of my cock leaking pre-cum.

I’m going to pop my prostate massage cherry then as well. I hope it’s all I’ve read about. I’m looking forward to a new way to cum.

It’s going to be hard (no pun intended) but I’m going to hold out until next Tuesday morning.
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Old 12-06-2018, 02:16 PM   #6
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I'm just in it to feel good and feel some nice chicks private parts.
If I get a nut, I'm not getting it up for a couple weeks. Being old sucks.
Don't fuck it up, just go and have fun. Don't worry about before and after, worry about while youre with her.
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Old 12-06-2018, 02:43 PM   #7
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Not trying to be an asshole, but you don’t know what your own body can handle and do by now? Every guy is different, and even though as we get older things change, but I think most guys know what they are capable of for hourly/daily/weekly sex.
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Old 12-06-2018, 03:02 PM   #8
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Please please don't be holding off for a week when your body is use to cumming daily.. I for one don't care to be trying to swallow your cottage cheese....I enjoy the fresh sweet cream Thank You Very Much
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Old 12-06-2018, 06:20 PM   #9
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Please please don't be holding off for a week when your body is use to cumming daily.. I for one don't care to be trying to swallow your cottage cheese....I enjoy the fresh sweet cream Thank You Very Much
Quote of the month right there!! Haha
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Old 12-06-2018, 08:06 PM   #10
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Please please don't be holding off for a week when your body is use to cumming daily.. I for one don't care to be trying to swallow your cottage cheese....I enjoy the fresh sweet cream Thank You Very Much
Ok. You sold me. Oh, and after taking a look at your pics, Ms. Athena, I’m going to use them for a nice jack off session.
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Old 12-07-2018, 07:24 AM   #11
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Ok. You sold me. Oh, and after taking a look at your pics, Ms. Athena, I’m going to use them for a nice jack off session.

Lol Go for it. That's what they are there for. Now Cum in my name slut....
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Old 12-07-2018, 07:55 AM   #12
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If you’re doing an hour, I say hold it. The first pop should be quick, and large (might as well pull out and glaze her ass or something).

After a recharge, you can go again at a more relaxed pace and enjoy the ride.
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Old 12-07-2018, 08:29 AM   #13
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what Jugglover said.. you should know better than any of us.

for me, the sweet spot is 36-52 hours break.. roughly. if I go 72 hours or more, the orgasm wants to take longer to cum, and it's not as intense.. sort of like popping a bubble, and it oozes out, instead of spewing out. if I don't wait long enough, it sort of rips out, the intensity overwhelms the pleasure.
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Old 12-07-2018, 02:22 PM   #14
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I used to have a lady friend that liked big loads. A couple of days before I saw her I would watch porn and jack off to the point of nearly cumming, but I wouldn't let my self cum. I would do this about 3 times. When we met up the first load was usually a very good one.
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Old 12-08-2018, 12:49 PM   #15
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Only you know what your body can/can not handle. If you please yourself that morning, is it possible to go twice again? I've not seen that very often, and the exception are usually 20 somethings.

I'm surprised that nobody has touched on becoming too complacent with your hand. I see this all too often; guys jack off daily or twice daily, whatever.... and now they can only come with their hands. They can't cum the more conventional ways. It can become very frustrating for the provider and you. Who wants to work and work with no real end result?

So I suggest you evaluate your particular situation, and also analyze if this is a lady you might like to see again. In other words, if you're asking a provider to perform a miracle... she may see you as a pain.

Hope you have fun, and enjoy!
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