Newbies & Occasional Hobbyist

[xomissmiab]

If you have No or just a few posts, No Reviews & No references but have been on here for a while , your eccie profile does not help with screening so please do not PM for appt request. I say this because When someone PMs me the first thing I do is look at posts & Reviews to get an idea of who you are so if there’s nothing there , it’s pretty much a waste of time for me & honestly puts my antennas up . Same goes for Newbies. If you wish to see me but have a dormant(or new) eccie account please just text or call me first to be screened

Thank You! Have fun & Hobby Safe ❤️

[bigryan2222]

You might want to put that in your showcase. It's probably not going to do you much good as a random thread that will get lost.

[xomissmiab]

Originally Posted by bigryan2222

You might want to put that in your showcase. It's probably not going to do you much good as a random thread that will get lost.

I did lol but You’d be amazed by the amount of folks who pay more attention to threads & ignore things that are listed on showcases ☺️

[bigryan2222]

I guess I think there would be confusion by saying interactive profile. I read your showcase and didn't understand what you meant before I posted.

I think your requirements are very reasonable, but I think your phrasing is both a bit off and too far down in your showcase. Just my opinion.

[xomissmiab]

Originally Posted by bigryan2222

I guess I think there would be confusion by saying interactive profile. I read your showcase and didn't understand what you meant before I posted.

I think your requirements are very reasonable, but I think your phrasing is both a bit off and too far down in your showcase. Just my opinion.

Good idea . Will definitely move that up & find different ways to get that point across . Thank you

[Wizard of Ahhhhs]

Ohhhh, that reminds me...! I need to see Mia again SOON!!

Tick tock...

[xomissmiab]

Originally Posted by Wizard of Ahhhhs

Ohhhh, that reminds me...! I need to see Mia again SOON!!

Tick tock...

Always down for the Challenge 😁✨

[Grace Preston]

People are actually not great at reading profiles/Showcases. I have people who will PM me here and ask what my rates are... when its listed on literally every ad, and in my Showcase. Silliness.

[Enchanterlingum]

Good to know.

[KCManlet]

I've always been curious about what "not newbie friendly" means to the provider.

I definitely fall under the category of occasional hobbyist. I read up on the forums but don't usually offer a whole lot to conversations.

[Passerby]

Originally Posted by KCManlet

I've always been curious about what "not newbie friendly" means to the provider.

I definitely fall under the category of occasional hobbyist. I read up on the forums but don't usually offer a whole lot to conversations.

My guess is "newbie" really means "without references".

[Tempstress Tiff]

This tends to happen more often than it should. Just today I had a gent request an appt with no posts or reviews. He sent a very vague pm with no information that could help with screening.

As a provider we get hit with emails, texts, and calls daily. Men that want to be seen immediately sometimes. To expedite your request the fastest make it a note to: send as much info as you can about yourself & your hobbying experiences.

Not viewing a ladies showcase (@the very least) is simply lazy. Majority of the bios lay out: services provided, HOW TO BOOK, rates, etc. Giving you everything you need to decide if we're the provider for you.
I realized a long time ago to make it short and sweet. I'll do the wowing in the session.

I chuckle when I see a provider with 4-6 big paragraphs. Good luck! You can't get most men to successfully read a bp ad, which is lest than a 180 characters (@ one time)

Xomissmiab is stated something all providers go through during one time or another. Putting it in your bio doesn't guarantee that you won't receive those emails, just as posting it here won't guarantee it either. There will always be a newbie with no reviews and absolutely no clue on proper etiquette for booking a session. I've learned patience is always key.

[xomissmiab]

Originally Posted by Tempstress Tiff

As a provider we get hit with emails, texts, and calls daily. Men that want to be seen immediately sometimes. To expedite your request the fastest make it a note to: send as much info as you can about yourself & your hobbying experiences.

Definitely helps a lot !

[Guest013121]

This has become the new norm for guys actually. I remember when guys used to contact me with all screening info ready before I even had to ask for it! Now I get the...”hey are you available right now?” Or “are you in kc?” Or “what are your rates?” type of emails. Or I love it when they send me..”Britney” for a reference and expect me to search for a fucking Britney.

Maybe we need to post a proper etiquette thread for the newer (or clueless) guys to refer to. And Tiff is right, not reading our showcases is just lazy. Which is sad cause that’s where us ladies list a lot of useful info about ourselves and our services...Not to mention..PICTURES!!

To the guys that do got it together though, you have no clue how much that means to us!

[BigDeal]

My belief is the new breed of hobbyist who stray from BP and other sites and have no idea what they are doing.