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Originally Posted by New Day
You obviously don't believe it's possible to be a hobbyist or provider and find an actual relationship. Maybe you don't believe YOU can find or are worthy of a real relationship based on love and not what's in it for someone else. So you're being negative towards other hobbyists and providers who might actually find a real relationship. I'm not looking for someone who wants to stay in the hobby. I'm looking for someone looking to retire in the foreseeable future. It wouldn't work longterm if one partner tried to stay in.
Also, you shouldn't concern yourself with sending me a PM until your attitude improves. Good looks don't make up for a bad attitude.
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History has shown the mass majority that these situations do not work out. The number of failed relationships vs. the number of successful relationships is at about a 25:1 or so ratio. I literally know ONE that has worked, and she isn't retired...
If anything, these scenarios tend to actually work a bit better when there is NOT an expectation that one or both parties is going to quit. Quite literally-- every scenario I personally know of where she "retired"... she was back within a year-- more broke than ever from trying to make it work and getting dumped to the curb with a year of lost wages.
What you're doing is asking a woman to intentionally put herself at a disadvantage for you. You may not see it that way-- but that is what it is...