Question for providers

[tang101]

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Have you ever considered giving just a little better TCB to a specific demographic of hobbyist ,that being...
Regular, 55+ , single , no kids and a shit ton of money.
By better TCB i mean honoring his hhr session when someone wants a last minute hr session or making that outcall when you would rather stay at your incall and make a little extra TODAY.

He might live to 100 and send flowers to your funeral or he might cough blood next week and told he has a year to hand out a million bucks. There's no guarantee to this approach with the hobby being very fluid but at that very least it's good business.

One last thing , if you hit an epic patch of bad luck who can you call upon for help ? The married guy, the single guy with kids in college, or the older dude with money that has a soft spot in his heart for you.
You never know you might hit the jackpot.

[Treetop78759]

lol

[Cap'n Crunch]

Ladies, go see this man outcall and honor him, dag nab it!

[Tequila Rose]

I think in a nut shell the question is do we favor some clients over others. Simple answer is yes. If someone books me ahead of time that spot is yours. It's first come first served. If there was a situation where two people wanted a certain time and was asking at the same time I would give priority to a regular. (not likely that this would happen like that) We don't expect tips but damn they are nice to get and we do take mental note of those who tip and those who don't. Every provider is different on who they will move to the front of the line. Some ladies TCB is good no matter what and some ladies TCB is non existent. From conversations and things I have read the things that will get a lady to not want to see you is these things.

Riding the clock- please don't book a half hour then talk about how you don't like to feel rushed. Or extend the visit out to an hour. Most ladies do not mind a session going a little over but when it becomes a habit it's not cool. We feel like you do not respect our time when someone does this.

Bad hygiene- This is a no brainer I think. But if you are not freshly showered, teeth brushed, and trimmed below we don't like seeing you. (ok some ladies don't mind bush but I prefer to not floss when I suck cock) You expect a lady to be on point and at her best when she sees you please do the same. Most ladies even have a shower you can use if you need be. Hell I will shower with you!!

Haggling- Price haggling once again is a no brainer. This comes in all forms. Some haggling is good. Lawyer and Escort trade of service is good. However dropping that you are available for a FWB thing not a good trade. We know every guy wants to be taken off the books. If a girl is interested in taking you off the books she will let you know I promise. We tend to avoid guys who make it clear they don't think they should pay the reg donation or at all.

Every lady will have her own way of prioritizing and every situation is different. I in no way speak for everyone.

[Tequila Rose]

Originally Posted by tang101

One last thing , if you hit an epic patch of bad luck who can you call upon for help ? The married guy, the single guy with kids in college, or the older dude with money that has a soft spot in his heart for you. You never know you might hit the jackpot.

I would call my family or friends for help. I realize not everyone may have that option but hobby and personal are separate for me. If I am having difficulties in my personal life its not something I want to share in hobby. The lines get blurred since business and pleasure go hand in hand here. However for me personally there are still lines between the two. Also I make enough here to set aside a good cushion in savings so I don't have to ask for help.

[tang101]

I book days ahead, shower 30 minutes before and always pay the going rate. My post was about regular clients who get thrown under the bus over hh vs hr or incall vs outcall just so a provider can have an easier/more profitable DAY with no regard for the future.

[Grubermctoober]

A SHIT TON OF MONEY should suffice

[The Infamous One]

Some girls only live one day at a time. Some, moment to moment. Some have been through so much in their life they are merely surviving. To think that far away, is hard sometimes when you are selling your body err time for money. We aren't running a tv repair shop. Some days we don't feel like being touched by anyone. Some days that hh appointment might just a push a bitch over the edge. Be thankful they say no sometimes. It's a blessing in disguise. Just my 2 cents.

[The Infamous One]

Originally Posted by tang101

I book days ahead, shower 30 minutes before and always pay the going rate. My post was about regular clients who get thrown under the bus over hh vs hr or incall vs outcall just so a provider can have an easier/more profitable DAY with no regard for the future.

If everyone was a client like you, girls wouldn't get burned out and act like that, in my opinion. Sadly, a lot of clients are not. They are here for one thing & one thing only... To smash, use the girls up before they are jaded and get the best bang for their buck.

That's just the way it is sometimes. That's why I raise my rates high as fuck. We don't just sell our time... We sell our souls & that is worth more than that hh appointment some days.

[The Infamous One]

What I mean by sell our souls is that a lot of girls go out of their way. They provide nice safe places, emotional energy, our time, our bodies, our skills, our beauty, essence, keep secrets, act as therapists, bar tenders, and ya get to fuck us & we go away. Providers are like sexual genie's... If more men appreciated what we did, we wouldn't act like that sometimes. I'm speaking for myself only.

[Tequila Rose]

Originally Posted by tang101

I book days ahead, shower 30 minutes before and always pay the going rate. My post was about regular clients who get thrown under the bus over hh vs hr or incall vs outcall just so a provider can have an easier/more profitable DAY with no regard for the future.

Got it. I personally have never canceled one appointment to take a different one. However to be perfectly honest I've never been put in that situation. Only times I have canceled were because I was sick or because something came up real world I couldn't put off.

I honestly don't think there is a black and white answer to your question. Every girl runs her business differently. Honestly all we can do is whats best for each of us. Cause at the end of the day we can't please everyone. If a girl doesn't conduct herself in a way you like there are plenty others who are willing to try to make you happy. Just have to find a lady who is the right fit for you.

[Samcro84]

The trials and tribulations of hobby life.

OP what you gonna do when your fav regular ATF texts you to come see her and you got a date with a lady you have never seen before? You gonna ditch her for the tried and true.

Oh not me yea right!

Sam

[Parsifal]

It goes both ways… While I am fortunate to have consistent hobby funds, those funds are not endless.

Therefore, I'm sticking to my tried-and-true regulars that always honor their appointments and provide amazing sessions. As such, I feel like I have a deeper connection with these women and the sessions are just better all around.

If the provider shows that she can't handle her business, is always canceling or rescheduling appointments, etc I will quickly come to the conclusion that she is no longer a good fit for me.

I don't expect her to share her deepest, darkest secrets with me and I do not pry into their personal lives. Sometimes, however my regulars want to talk about real-world issues, and I'm happy to listen and offer my opinions, make suggestions or just listen if they just want someone to talk to. They have earned my trust, and I trust them as well to keep what is said in our appointments between us.

It goes without saying that I want the session to be enjoyable and sensual for the both of us… I realize that's not always possible but I would rather a provider not schedule the session with me that day if she's not feeling up to providing at the highest level.

All I ask is a provider communicate consistently with me in setting up our appointments, showing up on time, and providing a solid session. I don't hold it against a provider if she's unavailable or can't meet me, but I will not be happy if she flakes out and/or provides a subpar session.

[lizshue81]

Originally Posted by tang101

*** Forever lurker breaking radio silence ***

Have you ever considered giving just a little better TCB to a specific demographic of hobbyist ,that being...
Regular, 55+ , single , no kids and a shit ton of money.
By better TCB i mean honoring his hhr session when someone wants a last minute hr session or making that outcall when you would rather stay at your incall and make a little extra TODAY.

He might live to 100 and send flowers to your funeral or he might cough blood next week and told he has a year to hand out a million bucks. There's no guarantee to this approach with the hobby being very fluid but at that very least it's good business.

One last thing , if you hit an epic patch of bad luck who can you call upon for help ? The married guy, the single guy with kids in college, or the older dude with money that has a soft spot in his heart for you.
You never know you might hit the jackpot.

You lost me at hhr session

Lol

But my TCB is on point.

[russellevans]

Originally Posted by The Infamous One

They are here for one thing & one thing only... To smash, use the girls up before they are jaded

This got me lifted