How to become a client's favorite escort!

[MrGiz]

- Have good , consistent , communication skills
- Don't EVER , EVER , pull a NSNC (or NCNS)
- Appear in person, "at least" as well as your photos indicate
- Be on time , whether it's incall or outcall
- If incall , don't let it be a dump
- If outcall to a hotel (even though we might love it) , please don't dress too slutty ;-)~
- Of course, always be fresh and clean
- Whatever services you agree to provide, be consistent
- Don't talk shit behind our back , or to our face, about other girls or clients
- Please be "consistently , reference-friendly"
- If you're pimped , don't let us know about it
- Smile and try to provide a believable Illusion of Passion... or, just have fun along with us, if you might be genuinely enjoying the date
- Please have your own supply of condoms (I will always bring at least a couple, as well) , just in case
- Please provide MSOG , if things are going well
- Please provide some level of kissing
- Please provide a DAMNED good blowjob
- Please be able to provide all reasonable fucking positions

- If we become return regulars , please try to make us feel a bit more special... most experienced hobby guys will tip beyond your rate, if we "feel" something "extra"

It's a shame we only have an hour to edit, 'cause I'm sure I'll think of a lot more

Looking forward to criticism

[BabyDallass]

Love how I make threads and everyone has to copy me...I'm such a trend starter and I'm so flattered ))

[BabyDallass]

& the don't talk shit to clients one you said....you need to run that one by your little lady that you push on people all the time, coach your own before you try to coach us lol...smh

[Vannah]

The amount of time and money you gentlemen spend with us ladies, one would think that this would be the basic standard of service in the hobby.

[MrGiz]

One would think... many don't.... some talk shit, everywhere.

[Guest080719]

I've found lately having a supply bag gets you lots of loving. I have a bag a different types of condoms and lubes, and (disposable) rings, I've recently added some toys. Some guys can't get stuff on their own due to wives, so a few have loved that I had plenty of things for us to explore each other with.

[Guest110920]

Originally Posted by Vannah

The amount of time and money you gentlemen spend with us ladies, one would think that this would be the basic standard of service in the hobby.

I agree Vannah, and if everyone had the same high standards as you, what a wonderful hobby world it would be! To be fair, I've been fortunate that most of the ladies I've seen here in NWA do live up to this.

As for my personal list, it's probably not so different than already stated.

• #1 is attitude, for sure. My companion acting like she wants to be there is paramount. Smiling, laughing, engaging in friendly conversation all add so much to the experience for me.

• I am all about my companion having a good experience too, so willingness to let go and genuinely enjoy herself really adds to my own enjoyment.

• Kissing. So important to me. I generally won't return if a lady doesn't. And LFK / (preferably) DFK, or at least open mouth - I don't really count touching lips with her mouth tightly closed as kissing in this context.

• BBBJ. I might see a lady that only does CBJ sometimes, but can't imagine considering anyone that only does CBJ a favorite.

• Eye contact. Not everyone is comfortable with it, but for those that are - wow, does it ever enhance the experience. Especially during BBBJ.

• Allowing (and hopefully enjoying) DATY. At least being able to convince me that she's enjoying it. One thing I really love - when I'm not doing something quite right and she gives me verbal guidance or helps guide me to the right spot. Why? Because it shows that she isn't just going through the motions and actually wants to get something out of it herself.

• Genuine responses. I'm put off by over-the-top, obviously fake pornstar-style screaming and moaning. I'd much prefer my companion respond in a way that is as natural to her as possible - whether that means getting loud or being quieter (just not dead silent) doesn't matter, as long as it seems natural to her and not an obvious acting job.

• Excellent hygiene. Should be a given, just like it should be for gents.

• I personally enjoy spending time with ladies who are willing to have a little bit of connection outside the session. I realize that can be a slippery slope for a provider and I'm not looking to waste anyone's time, but little things like interaction on the forum or on Twitter, sharing an occasional joke on email, PM, etc. are all much appreciated.

• TCB. When coordinating an appointment, timely and unambiguous communications are essential. Nothing worse than getting an ambiguous message, asking for clarification and getting silence on the other end.

• I know cancellations are unavoidable sometimes. They are always disappointing, but far less so if communicated with adequate lead time rather than say, when I'm driving down the street to the location of the appointment. Regular cancellations are especially problematic. I typically have limited windows of opportunity and so cancellations don't just prevent me from seeing the lady I scheduled with, often times they prevent me from partaking at all. Frustrating indeed.

• Allowing me to stay the full time, and being unhurried. I try to be very conscientious about not overstaying, but I do truly enjoy some cuddling and pillow talk afterward. Nothing worse than a "get in, get off, get out" mentality. To be fair I've only experienced that a few times, and not with anyone that would likely to be reading this board.

• Security and discretion. I want to know that my companion is as concerned about her safety as I am about my own.

• Being non-judgmental. I am no prime physical specimen and am well aware of it. No need to remind me. This also goes for special requests/fetishes - it's OK for my companion to turn them down if they aren't comfortable with it, of course. Just with some tact where I don't feel embarrassed for having asked.

[cR7]

One more thing, if you have a kid or kids, don't let us know about them. It's a huge turn off

[Guest110920]

Originally Posted by cR7

One more thing, if you have a kid or kids, don't let us know about them. It's a huge turn off

Hmm. I really don't mind it. But I can understand how some would prefer not to know.

[tuckahoe]

Originally Posted by cR7

One more thing, if you have a kid or kids, don't let us know about them. It's a huge turn off

A lady having children is not a turn off to me. Most of the ladies who have given me the most wonderful times of my life have been mothers.
Having children does not make a lady any less beautiful or any less lovable.
It seems those who care for their children may be more understanding towards my needs.

[notequiteatroll]

Originally Posted by SpankyJ

Hmm. I really don't mind it. But I can understand how some would prefer not to know.

Yep, this Mr spanky.

I'm an old softy and actually like to be aware..

[Nukeman69]

Spanky, you and I have exactly the same ideas. It's all about the total experience.

[Riverseeker]

I like women who have kids and I like hearing them talk about their kids. You can tell a lot about someone when they talk about their kids, especially a woman. I like a woman when you can tell she really loves and cares for her kids. That shows that she can care about someone other than herself. Not saying that a woman without kids can't care for anyone other than herself. I guess it's the whole nurturing thing. That's attractive to me.

[SweetlyBlended80]

Originally Posted by Vannah

The amount of time and money you gentlemen spend with us ladies, one would think that this would be the basic standard of service in the hobby.

I was about to say the same thing. Everything we should be doing anyways.

[DallasRain]

Great post!!
quote-- Please provide MSOG , if things are going well
MY MOTTO--pop till ya drop!!

I like to think that doing special lil things for my gents makes them come back again & again!

I have a gent I have seen over 9 years...he lives in Louisiana so when i visit,I KNOW he is gonna book an appt with me! I will introduce him to new gals and we have a helluva good three hour playt5ime..................... ....I like making him feel special,so i decorate the room up with a theme and put out snacks.......once the gal & I dressed in hula skirts and I had the room set up like a hawaaiin tiki bar atmospher.e