I don't want to add to the bickering of the previous thread,
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=133054
Instead I want to add to Jackie's list staying on topic to what makes a good GFE:
DATY (goes with being sqeeky clean everywhere)
Greek and anal play may help, giving and receiving. If you don't like that, then maybe learn prostate massage as that helps the older guys who may have ED.
Learn to get wet naturally and quickly. It is a turn-on for guys to know the woman is ready, or at least physically turned on. If you can't, then maybe put some KY in before he gets there, and make him think you are just wet for him. It is a turn on for guys to put our fingers down there and feel that you are wet and ready.
If you find a guy gross or repulsive, let the guy know what he needs to do for you to provide GFE to him instead of taking his money and short changing him on service. If he needs to shower or body wax, let him know that is what it takes for you to offer him GFE. If you just want to take his money, then tell him you are in a rush, but can offer him a quicky instead of GFE for half the price. If the guy is beyond you offering GFE, then refer him to someone else who might offer him GFE. We might get pissed at first, but we at least appreciate the truth and you not taking our hard earned money.
Always clean up the guy after he cums. Don't just give him a wet towel. How you clean up can be GFE as well. I had one provider who was on her period so she BBBJ and then HJ cumming all over my belly and chest. She then started to lick some cum off my body and went to the bathroom to spit it out when she went to get a wet towel. She then came back and told me to eat more fruit as that will give my cum a citrus flavor, and she will swallow for me then. I then went on a week-long straight fruit diet, breakfast, lunch and dinner. Then next time, we did the same thing and instead of licking, she slurped up my cum off my belly and chest slowly and smacking with her tongue with my cum in her mouth before swallowing. That got me so hot, that I got up again, and she BBBJ again, but this time, BBBJCIMNQNS.
Some guys may differ on this, but after cumming and being cleaned up, and when the nerves die back down, I enjoy a wet noodle bbbj. It always gets out a few extra drops. Play with the sleeping penis sensually with your mouth like it is your precious little gem, and not rush it like hurry up and get it up again before the time runs out, or demanding a stiffy like you haven't cummed yet, and he owes you one. For other guys to get up again, it may be a quick nap or just some cuddle time. If it wakes up again, great. If not, then having a GF making the penis feel precious is real GFE.
If you have an overnight customer, let the guy know he can stick it in you if you are sleeping. One overnight provider, I pumped her 3 times at night all the time she was asleep, mostly from behind. I was the one getting up and running back and forth to the bathroom pulling off/putting on the condom to clean up while she slept thru like a baby. If you wake up first, then go down on him. Nothing like waking up to a BBBJ.
And as mentioned in a previous post, after the guy cums, don't kiss unless the guy initiates it.
These are my addendum to Jackie's list of what makes a good GFE.
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Jackie S original list:
OK:
Return Calls
Never pull a NCNS
Show up on time for session
Be squeeky clean, everywhere
If the guy wants to take a shower with you, do it. Hell, he can get"I just did my hair" in the civilian world
Do NOT wear any perfumes
After you are sure every thing is legit, greet the guy with a big FK and hug
Turn your phone off
Make the client as comfortable as possible with your demenoir
When you ask him to get comfortable, help him
Let him do the same with you
Hone your BBBJ skills. CBJ is not part of the GFE
If not CIM take it as long as you can
Keep in mind, you are not just screwing, you are making love
If he ask for something you do not do, learn to be as polite as possible in your refusal.
DFK is part of GFE. If you don't do this, then do not advertise GFE
Learn your clients capabilities, if he needs 20 minutes to recover, help him have an enjoyable 20 minutes
Understand that MPOG are part of GFE if they are within your alloted time.
Don't watch the clock, if you give him that extra ten minutes to finally get that second time, then you will probably see him again. And the review will be great.
Treat him like he is a good lover. Remember, you are fullfilling a fantasy with the GFE. If he just wants to fuck or get his dick sucked, there are plenty of providers who will do just that.
Never do an upsell. State in your ad what you do, for a set fee.
When the session is over, treat the guy like a friend. He will remember that final hug and kiss as much as he did anything.
Most of all, be nice and enjoy the experience. If you don't like your job, go do something else. Most men, especially the older ones, like pleasing a woman as much as he likes her pleasing him.
And finally, hone your acting skills.
GFE requirement
