I wish I could filter out NBA providers in search criteria.

[goud2geaux]

I have researched online and asked providers first hand about reasons for "NBA" policies. I don't wish to gripe or convince anyone to change. Some of it I totally get, some is total bs. If a woman does not want to see me for any reason, be it race or otherwise, I don't have a problem with that. Neither one of us will have a good time in that situation.
I think it would be helpful if hobbyists could filter out providers with "NBA/No AA" policies. A couple days ago I made arrangements to see a girl. Drove 30 min to the hotel, met her on 18 floor as instructed, and when I saw her she goes, "You're black?" I ask, is everything ok, is there a problem? She states, "I don't do things with black guys." There were some other offensive comments (not by me as I never spoke another word, just walked away) that I'll keep to myself. Now I know better than to take certain things personally, but had she made it clear beforehand (like in her ad or screening), I would never have called her.
I imagine this may not an issue for a large part of the community. Just wondered what the staff and community at large thinks about my filtering idea. We are able to search for providers by their ethnicity so I think we should be able to search by ethnicities accepted/excluded by them.
I'm not sure of the ethnic breakdown hobbying community and suspect that this issue may not affect the majority.
Am I asking too much? Or do I just need to post in requests that I'm looking for an "AA friendly" provider whenever I "get that feeling" lol.

[Dr. Vanity]

I can understand ur frustration... Don't sweat off of it tho... However I did notice maybe ur a newbie :/
But I am someone that can help with ur needs. Come see the doctor feel good lol!

[MOCHAakaMOCHA]

If any anti-minority policy(ies) isn't clear in her ads, site, profiles then be sure upon first contact or some point of booking with her WELL BEFORE confirming that you make what you are clear so your time isn't wasted again. I'm personally a equal opportunity lover when it comes to race, weight, physical handicaps, religion (or lack thereof), politics or gender .

[DestinyInKC]

I love men of all colors I will never understand why a provider wont see an entire race as a whole. Makes no sense at all to me.

[Guest030219]

I really like this thread, thanks G2G for sharing this with us.

[JRLawrence]

Originally Posted by goud2geaux

I have researched online and asked providers first hand about reasons for "NBA" policies. I don't wish to gripe or convince anyone to change. Some of it I totally get, some is total bs. If a woman does not want to see me for any reason, be it race or otherwise, I don't have a problem with that. Neither one of us will have a good time in that situation.
I think it would be helpful if hobbyists could filter out providers with "NBA/No AA" policies. A couple days ago I made arrangements to see a girl. Drove 30 min to the hotel, met her on 18 floor as instructed, and when I saw her she goes, "You're black?" I ask, is everything ok, is there a problem? She states, "I don't do things with black guys." There were some other offensive comments (not by me as I never spoke another word, just walked away) that I'll keep to myself. Now I know better than to take certain things personally, but had she made it clear beforehand (like in her ad or screening), I would never have called her.
I imagine this may not an issue for a large part of the community. Just wondered what the staff and community at large thinks about my filtering idea. We are able to search for providers by their ethnicity so I think we should be able to search by ethnicities accepted/excluded by them.
I'm not sure of the ethnic breakdown hobbying community and suspect that this issue may not affect the majority.
Am I asking too much? Or do I just need to post in requests that I'm looking for an "AA friendly" provider whenever I "get that feeling" lol.

ABOUT REASONS???

I don't believe you are so naive as to really believe that any woman, or man, needs any reason whatsoever to provide anything to you because of your race, or not because of your race.

This is not an equal opportunity game. The service that the ladies provide does not require that they give you a service.

Sorry, but I have had several ladies tell me that they are very proud of the fact that they do not provide service to AA ever, and they say it with pride that they would NEVER FUCK A N***ER?

If they can tell you are AA over the phone, a lot of the girls will not see you. Fucking is still very personal.

That is the way the world is, at least sometimes; don't ask me why.

Do not come back and accuse me of racism. That is an easy out for you. I am talking about the way things really are. There are thing you cannot change.

"Are you asking too much?"
You must be a very young idiot to not know about discrimination, or you are just pulling our leg. Ha, Ha, Ha! Not funny.

By the way I marched for your civil rights in the 1960's. We are not talking about the girls, or my views of AA. We are talking about you pretending not to understand the world as it is.

In 1956, myself and about 16 other kids walked out of a a restaurant that refused service to the one black kid who was with us. I understand the world. Get your head out of your ass, and understand that you have no rights when it comes to anyone accepting you.

Each of us, regardless of race, must each earn our own acceptance from others.

So what else are you doing wrong?

Shall we now talk about how the fat boys receive rejection from some of the ladies?

JR

[noleftturn]

Why not just ask when making the appointment.

[Guest030219]

Now I know better than to take certain things personally, but had she made it clear beforehand (like in her ad or screening), I would never have called her.

I see a lot of "No AA men, Sorry" in BP ads. To each their own, and I assume the 3 ladies in your reviews had no problem with you being an AA man, so just keep asking questions.

[Longermonger]

OP, I like the idea of making the ladies' preferences searchable. I'm sure the ladies would like it too. I'm sure they'd like to filter the guys they see down to David Beckham clones. But the problem that I see is their preferences might change just like their menu sometimes changes. You should talk to them on the phone so they can hear your voice. Then ask them a question like, "You know I'm black, right? You don't have a problem with that do you? Okay, because some girls do. I just wanted to be clear so we don't waste each others' time."

Ladies, wouldn't you like to filter guys under 50, over 6'2", under 220 lbs, no baldies, 6"-8" dick, likes to lick pussy, cums in less than 10 minutes, and makes 7 figures per year?

[Longermonger]

Originally Posted by JRLawrence

ABOUT REASONS???

Shall we now talk about how the fat boys receive rejection from some of the ladies?

They do? I thought there was a "fat boys gotta pay" understanding that went along with the hobby. Or are you talking about really really really BIG fluffy guys? Because that could be dangerous for some of these tiny spinners. They'd get crushed!

[DallasRain]

Ditto--to each his own....
Personally,I like ALL colors in the crayon box! lol

[Emmie]

As long as a man is a gentleman, than I could care less about the color of his skin.

[goud2geaux]

Looks like somebody needs to put his bifocals on and actually read the post since he totally missed the point. I don't care about their reasons nor what you did "back in the day." I'm getting along just fine. I know how to present myself, that incident is the only time it's gone that far. I don't have a problem with her preference, just her professionality, or lack thereof. I'm simply presenting a topic for discussion. If you can't keep up then go read something else.

[Guest090920]

You have just become the next in what has been and will continue to be a long list of Internet tough guys around these parts! And after only 18 posts. Nicely done.

[goud2geaux]

Originally Posted by scorpio31

You have just become the next in what has been and will continue to be a long list of Internet tough guys around these parts! And after only 18 posts. Nicely done.

Tough guy? No, I'm a nice guy. Yet another misses the point lol.