Recurring shemale fantasies

[MrTim2]

I'm a straight guy, who definitely lives ladies, but I've been having these recurring fantasies if being with a shemale. Am I weird? Any other straight guys done this? I'm not interested in getting penetrated, but I certainly would enjoy topping a sexy shemale.

I guess if I were honest with myself, my fantasy involves jacking off a shemale while sucking on her tits. However, there's no way I could ever jack off a regular man. I'm not gay, and am not turned on by men, but something about a truly sexy shemale really gets me hard.

What gives? Has anyone else been in this same boat? What did you do?

[Zoey Zacquery]

Um... Do you mean you're attracted to trans women? "Shemale" is a very offensive term so I don't know why you're using it if you're genuinely wanting to start a conversation. Definitely makes me not want to engage with you on this subject. Sounds like you have some internalized transphobia to work through. Good luck.

[maxhaleys]

Live out your fantasies bro. Thanks for bringing up the topic. There are many just like you. Many!

By the way, I would not worry about using the word shemale. It is used all over to categorize/advertise for your liking of trans women and no it is not offensive to most. I have asked many shemales and they say not at all.

[GroovyDance]

Liking a little dick doesn't make you gay. Also, trans women are women, so again, not gay. Also anal penetration is also not gay, one cause it feels great (not that being gay doesn't feel great) and two as Dan Savage wrote recently a large percentage of gay men don't have anal sex.
Like the post before said, follow your fantasies, hopefully you'll have lots of fun.

[Lion26]

Originally Posted by spicyzoey

Um... Do you mean you're attracted to trans women? "Shemale" is a very offensive term so I don't know why you're using it if you're genuinely wanting to start a conversation. Definitely makes me not want to engage with you on this subject. Sounds like you have some internalized transphobia to work through. Good luck.

It's most likely that the guy didn't know any better but still felt comfortable in coming to this section of the forum to make a post.

Since he sounds somewhat genuinely interested and didn't come off as overly rude, demeaning, or hostile, I'd say to give him the benefit of the doubt.

[bp6570]

I have had the same fantasy for years and have seen a few Trans ladies. Most of my experiences have been okay. A couple have been very good. The difficulty with this "urge" is researching. Most men are reluctant to talk about their experiences with Trans ladies, so it can be a crap shoot as to looks and session experience.

It does not make you gay to be curious about this aspect of the hobby. If you decide to pursue it further, do all you can to make a wise decision about who you see, as this will help make if a better experience.

Good luck!

[stavinChain]

Originally Posted by spicyzoey

"Shemale" is a very offensive term...

Not really. "Shemale", "transsexual", "transgender", "T-girl", "ladyboy" - they're all acceptable terms. Now "faggot" or "whore", those are insults, but I digress. I'd like to hear some opinions from some bona fide transgender ladies on this.

Originally Posted by spicyzoey

Sounds like you have some internalized transphobia to work through. Good luck.

I disagree Dr. Freud. He's simply curious. And he's come to the right place to ask questions. It's a shame that some of us are so judgmental. MrTim, I've heard many times that the majority of Transgender escorts' clients are straight men. Again, I'd welcome the input from some of the TG ladies about this.

In the meantime, ignore the nattering nabobs and explore your fantasy. It may open a door to a whole new world for you. Life is short. Enjoy.

[Zoey Zacquery]

How many transgender women are you actually intimate friends with (not clients of) that's you're basing your claim on? That word is offensive, period. It's not your place as someone who is not a trans woman to assert that it's not.

If the OP really meant no harm then he needs to edit the title of this thread. I don't want to look at a transphobic slur every time I look at this board and I'm sure the transgender women who read this board don't want to have to either.


Links for your own education:

http://www.xojane.com/sex/chelsea-po...-slur-petition

http://trans-faqs.tumblr.com/post/12...male-offensive

http://transwhat.org/allyship/

[alphaturtle]

You need to get that ridiculous chip off your shoulder. Find something important to worry about.

[alphaturtle]

Sorry, that was meant for SpiceyZoey.

[chicagoboy]

Originally Posted by spicyzoey

Um... Do you mean you're attracted to trans women? "Shemale" is a very offensive term so I don't know why you're using it if you're genuinely wanting to start a conversation. Definitely makes me not want to engage with you on this subject. Sounds like you have some internalized transphobia to work through. Good luck.

Ricockulous! Stop hijacking the OP's thread. If you want to harangue members about the purported offensiveness of "shemale", start your own self-promoting threAD.

[Zoey Zacquery]

I think trans women's lives are important. I've said my piece though and won't comment any further unless the OP changes the title of this thread. Trans women are murdered at astonishingly high rates and transphobic slurs contribute to the dangerous conditions they face in our society. I think it is extremely important to speak out against their use.

[Zhivago52]

The attraction is not unusual. I've often thought of watching a TS with my ATF.

[crashkopf]

Heteroflexible>..

[thewayne]

I find myself more and more looking at ts porn online. Maybe because my strap on fetish is getting to be old hat? Either way I feel like if I stay in this hobby too much longer a ts appt will be sooner than later.
The hard part is finding one who is truly attractive to my personal taste. I think for a first time encounter I'd need it to be with someone with an over the top female body, like Pamela falcao, for me to get over my inhibitions. I also think for first session at most I'd probably have it be hj and bj for me and kissing etc. Probably no penetration first time