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HeatherTheMilf · 12-20-2011, 12:14 PM

Ladies don't fall for this guy claims to be a sugar daddy, and wants to pay your bills, and he will ...EXCEPT its with closed account checks, I called to verify the payments went through, and the companies said they cleared.. He claims he paid with a Credit Card , But it was a check by phone on a closed account...

Well about 8-10 days went by and now I am screwed, because the payments were NOT cleared & I was charged alot of new charges one bill was $292.00 now its almost $420.00 & my car note, was paid amount of $399.00 and I paid the other 200 in cash, well the 399 portion was ...of corse... NOT cleared & now I owe 450 in stead, & they want to come repo my car....

He is so full of bull, just be careful, he told me he moved here from Cali about 3 years ago, He owns a staffing company here, and he lives off of Tollway & Keller Springs area .. He is Bald, Bright blue eyes ... Number is a 214-810-xx92...

Just don't fall for this like I did!!! I have never had this happen!!! I'm so embarrassed, I should have known better!!! NOW I'M in a bad bad jam & don't know what I'm going to do ...to get out of it, I spent my bill money I had saved, on Christmas for the kiddo's Because the companies told me the payments cleared .... So NOW I'm so screwed!!! Just be careful of him!! & once he knew I found out they did NOT clear, he will NOT call me or anything!! What a ass hole ............ I just don't know what to do!!! with out my car I have NO way to even get my son to 1st grade.... his school is just barley under the 2 mile mark, so he can not catch the bus & I can NOT walk almost 2 miles to get him to school, everyday!!! OMG ....

b2pop · 12-20-2011, 02:48 PM

Sorry to hear this happened to you. What's up with all the scamming a-holes... I just don't understand.

trynagetlaid · 12-21-2011, 05:19 AM

I don't understand. You spent some time with a guy who wanted to be your sugar daddy. He had an appointment, or several appointments, but instead of taking cash you handed him a stack of your bills which he promised to pay. He paid them, you verified the payments, then it turns out he paid them with checks from a closed account.

I've read stories where the guys shorted the envelope, or left without paying, or paid with counterfeit bills, all involving cash transactions. But I've never heard of this happening. I'm sorry this happened to you but it should be a valuable lesson going forward - never accept anything but cold hard cash for your services.

HeatherTheMilf · 12-21-2011, 09:52 AM

Trynagetlaid= It was a lesson ... learned the hard way, I will never do it again!!! I have had sugar daddies in the past and never had this problem!! NEVER, but this is a lesson learned!! NOTHING but cash from here on out!!!

B2POP= yes there is alot of scams going on now, WHO can you trust these days!! Its too much, I just don't know what to say anymore... But I am in a very bad bind, I dont even know what to do, I am paying for these bills slowly, but it is very hard & money is tight, dont even know if I'm going to be able to afford to go out of town for X-Mas with my family, because of this!!! But Hopefully it will all work out and I will be able to leave the 24th to go!!!! I still owe 350 on my car, and 300 on my other bill!!! But I will knock them down slowly!!! Thanks ya'll and remember ......... this as a lesson for you guys too....ONE for the team (lmao)

motocrossman39 · 12-21-2011, 09:57 AM

Sorry to hear that Heather, very very sorry for you dear-

Moto

jceeman · 12-21-2011, 07:17 PM

Heather, passing bad checks in Texas is taken as a serious matter by the authorities. See if you can get the people he wrote bad checks to to turn them and this idiot over to the DA.

TurboFan · 12-22-2011, 08:43 AM

Too bad this happened. Next time I'm in Dallas I will look you up. And I pay cash.

Duke of G · 12-23-2011, 08:08 AM

Gals, I want to raise some awareness here. Many threads are being posted in Alerts that are not classified as "alerts." The forum is for SAFETY issues. NOT bad business experiences, misunderstandings, no-shows, etc.

There is a forum for these kinds of posts:

Infoshare/Problem Client Reports-Dallas

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This PRIVATE forum is for local Verified Providers to share sensitive information, which includes documenting dangerous or problem clients, or other hazards within the local community. You are free to share and discuss any topics relevant to safety and security for the ladies. We at ECCIE want the ladies to share a safe work environment, so let's all help each other in promoting that. Proper and thorough screening is PRIORITY #1. This forum is just one tool, among many, to aid with that process. Access to this forum is limited to Verified Providers only and moderation duties will be shared by the local staff for your city along with help from the female moderators. This is to ensure that any matters which may require immediate staff attention can be handled as promptly and responsibly as possible.

While it is only open to Verified Providers, it's the right choice for threads like this. It also cuts down on the "pile on" comments and "I'm sorry to hear that" posts that don't add anything to what should be a serious situation.

BarebackLover · 12-23-2011, 11:27 AM

This is an escort site (read what the "E" stands for in Eccie at the top of the page).

You have stated that this was a sugardaddy. You did not even mention any sexual services.

So you're pissed because some guy said he would pay your bills. Is he even a member here? Is he even a hobbyist?? Did you even tell him you were an escort???

Hey maybe I should post an alert because my mother didn't get me anything for Christmas.

b2pop - how did he scam her?? He didn't steal any time or services from her from what we have been told.

From the sugardaddy relationships I have had and have experienced, the sugarbaby wants someone to pay her bills while she does as little as possible. Most of what is provided is a phone call, a hug, and a thank you.

Heather, if your car note is $600 a month, I don't feel sorry for you. Get a cheaper car and live within your means if your escorting business does not cover your bills.

Jasser · 12-27-2011, 07:23 AM

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Originally Posted by BarebackLover

This is an escort site (read what the "E" stands for in Eccie at the top of the page).

You have stated that this was a sugardaddy. You did not even mention any sexual services.

So you're pissed because some guy said he would pay your bills. Is he even a member here? Is he even a hobbyist?? Did you even tell him you were an escort???

Hey maybe I should post an alert because my mother didn't get me anything for Christmas.

b2pop - how did he scam her?? He didn't steal any time or services from her from what we have been told.

From the sugardaddy relationships I have had and have experienced, the sugarbaby wants someone to pay her bills while she does as little as possible. Most of what is provided is a phone call, a hug, and a thank you.

Heather, if your car note is $600 a month, I don't feel sorry for you. Get a cheaper car and live within your means if your escorting business does not cover your bills.

....and now you know, and knowing is half the battle! LOL, funny stuff.

Melissa Madyson · 12-27-2011, 08:20 AM

I feel sorry for you heather. I wish I could be the one to help you get out of this mess but, as a provider myself, I have to live within my means. I was /am lucky to have the good clients I see regularly, and as I gain good reviews, hopefully more will come, but that doesn't mean I can go out and buy a porsche or some other luxury vehicle. I have to live within my means. Some car is better than no car. I am blessed to see what income I have comming in as I lost my job March 31st. I think we as providers think that the money will always be there, and we have to think rationally. With the economy being what it is, we must try and build a nest egg for times like these. Lesson learned, never let someone pay your bills for you. Get cash in hand and pay your own bills. You don't need a sugar daddy, you just need to have good , providing experience , with a good reputation, and the money will come to you. Go to Mr. Bills Motors, and see Mr. Lawrence or Mr. Kieth, and tell them Melissa sent you, they will most likely get you in a car..I have a good rep. there. Paid my car off last year cash, and I have helped a few people get a car. Again I am sorry, for your loss, please don't think I am bashing you, just reminding you what you already know...Melissa012

HeatherTheMilf · 12-27-2011, 10:16 AM

BAREBACK LOVER..................... MY CAR NOTE IS NOT 600...A MONTH ITS 399.OO AND ITS ALMOST 6 NOW BECAUSE OF RETURNED CHECK FEE AND LATE FEES.... AND I DO NOT HAVE TO POST WHAT I DID WITH HIM, THAT'S NOT YOUR BUSINESS, THIS WAS FOR THE LADIES SO THEY DON'T GET INTO, WHAT I DID, WITH HIM, AND GET SCREWED AROUND AND END UP BEHIND ON THEIR BILLS.... SO STFU ... I GOT IT ALL CAUGHT UP.... BUT I DON'T WANT ANOTHER LADY TO FALL FOR HIS SHIT, HE COULD HAVE CAUSED ME TO LOSE ALOT.... BY PLAYING GAMES!!!

HeatherTheMilf · 12-27-2011, 10:23 AM

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Originally Posted by melissa012

I feel sorry for you heather. I wish I could be the one to help you get out of this mess but, as a provider myself, I have to live within my means. I was /am lucky to have the good clients I see regularly, and as I gain good reviews, hopefully more will come, but that doesn't mean I can go out and buy a porsche or some other luxury vehicle. I have to live within my means. Some car is better than no car. I am blessed to see what income I have comming in as I lost my job March 31st. I think we as providers think that the money will always be there, and we have to think rationally. With the economy being what it is, we must try and build a nest egg for times like these. Lesson learned, never let someone pay your bills for you. Get cash in hand and pay your own bills. You don't need a sugar daddy, you just need to have good , providing experience , with a good reputation, and the money will come to you. Go to Mr. Bills Motors, and see Mr. Lawrence or Mr. Kieth, and tell them Melissa sent you, they will most likely get you in a car..I have a good rep. there. Paid my car off last year cash, and I have helped a few people get a car. Again I am sorry, for your loss, please don't think I am bashing you, just reminding you what you already know...Melissa012

(LMAO) DON'T FEEL SORRY FOR ME I'M GOOD & WHAT EVER I WANT TO DRIVE I WILL, ITS NO WORSE THAN THESE CUSTOMERS WHO PULL UP IN A BRAND NEW 60,000 DOLLAR CARS AND WANT TO SPEND 50 BUCKS...BECAUSE THEIR CAR NOTE & INSURANCE IS KILLING THEM, AND THEY GIVE US A HARD TIME ABOUT IT CAUSE THEY THINK WE SHOULD CARE.... THEY NEED TO GET A CHEAPER CAR, AND THEN BRING US WHAT WE ASK FOR, JUST LIKE THEY WANT US TO GIVE THEM WHAT THEY ASK FOR!!!! BUT I'M GOOD.....AND STILL HAVE MY CAR ...JUST HAD TO WORK MY ASS OFF FOR IT(LOL) JUST LOOK OUT FOR HIM... THATS ALL I WAS SAYING!!!!

Melissa Madyson · 12-27-2011, 10:48 AM

I am glad you got it all worked out..I wasn't trying to make you feel bad or bash you, I was just thinking you were really gonna loose your car (by what you posted). I was merely being helpful(so I thought). Yes guys do the same things, and you may drive what ever you choose, I was merely trying to help you in case you needed a car fast. I am not feeling sorry for you, merely your situation. I have learned on this site, guys don't want to hear our woes, and they could care less about our personal problems, all they care about is good service. The same as us ladies don't care to hear about their personal (straight) life problems. All we care about is the all mighty dollar and keeping the client happy. one hand washes the other, so to speak. So by you posting exactly the way you did it makes some guys question your motives for posting...Again I am sorry you got stiffed. I will be on the lookout for him or his kind. Melissa012

JDNorthface · 12-27-2011, 11:35 AM

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Originally Posted by melissa012

...I have learned on this site, guys don't want to hear our woes, and they could care less about our personal problems, all they care about is good service. ...

This is a good post but I don't know that I agree with this. In any social situation where there is any degree of relationship at all, you'll find some modicum of care and compassion. So it is here.

I didn't read her post as either a cry for help, a call for advice, or a plea for sympathy. I read what she said, which was "others, beware...". But if she did come forward with a personal problem, I do think you'll find many here on the board who will commiserate with her. Those folks aren't always the most vocal because they've learned that anyone showing care and compassion gets labeled pretty quickly around here as a WK. Ridiculous, really, that we can't vent from time to time and get a little support from a group of like-minded individuals with being branded as either a whiner or a superficial idiot with ulterior motives. But such has been social interaction from the dawn of time.

I don't know the OP at all. In fact, I've never until today read one of her posts. She may be a chronic whiner for all I know. But what I also know is that her post just seemed like a warning. That's all. Those who offered advice are probably appreciated by her and those who offered judgments pitied.

That "all we care about is good service" may be true in some situations but I think as a whole you'll find that most hobbyists can be caring individuals who really do have the capacity to give without expecting something in return.

Good post.