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MPcatch · 07-28-2010, 01:13 AM

I don't want to waste my time and money fucking ladies to make a name for my self. Why not make a thread especially for newbie friendly providers. Or other simple things like a marker that accompanies a legend. You know red square means newbie provider. Other markers mean diff things. I don't think us as hobbyist should earn the ladies. The providers should work to earn my money.

I bet if u take this suggestion you'll have providers wanting to earn their money instead of having the pick and choose power. Simply put increase in revenue for certain ladies. CAPATILISM

sabre692 · 07-28-2010, 02:03 AM

First off, I'm also a newbie seeking my first plunge but I would have to disagree with you on some items.

1. The newbie-friendly section would be nice but I like using the search function.

2. I like your idea of implementing a legend of sort to categorize our potentials.

3. It's really not a sense of "fucking your way up the fuckchain" to get to the nicer looking ladies. (You all look banging Ladies so don't take that out of context) You are missing the point of newbie friendly. What that means is that these particular Ladies are willing to take a risk of new clientele that could easily be a LE, dipshit, or even possibly a person seeking to do bodily harm. We are UNVERIFIED. Look at it like a safety net for the Ladies.

MPcatch · 07-28-2010, 02:27 AM

It's been harped on before, some sort of legend to categorize ladies. Just a simple idea just like the yahoo messenger icon. Too easy of a fix.

You can't sugar coat it it is a fuck chain of sorts. Kinda funny that way. Well in a way it's awesome cause you get to fuck her friends too. Guess it's a version of TOFTT.

Madison_Gable · 07-28-2010, 02:27 AM

MPCatch - wow.

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Originally Posted by sabre692

3. It's really not a sense of "fucking your way up the fuckchain" to get to the nicer looking ladies. (You all look banging Ladies so don't take that out of context) You are missing the point of newbie friendly. What that means is that these particular Ladies are willing to take a risk of new clientele that could easily be a LE, dipshit, or even possibly a person seeking to do bodily harm. We are UNVERIFIED. Look at it like a safety net for the Ladies.

Also, a lot of ladies are going to read this and then automatically not like you[MPCatch] for your way with words such as, "fucking your way up the fuckchain"... really? We can read that.... and we do read that... and we will think of you worse for that... so mission accomplished- you will have to start posting nice, appropriate things for nicer ladies to like you or want to see you.

Hurrah Sabre, it needed to be said.

MPcatch · 07-28-2010, 03:05 AM

I'm a man I speak my mind I'm not the cowardly lion here. I've never disrespected any woman, nor will I ever. Besides having a GFE plays into manlynessness. Lol. I don't get it , I have to play mind games to get the ladies. Wow. If I play kiss ass I'll get the ladies then I pay them to kiss my ass. GFE.

This thread I made was just an idea of what I would like to see. Besides I'm to handsome to play kiss ass with the ladies. Lol.

anova444 · 07-28-2010, 05:20 AM

Sabre692, it's too bad you are in Houston. I would love to see your moobs...and stuff.

Guest0812112 · 07-28-2010, 07:08 AM

Amazing how quickly some can place theirselves on providers DNS list. What a shame

daty/o · 07-28-2010, 10:00 AM

I guess in hobby lingo that would be "open mouth, insert dick"?

Guest0812112 · 07-28-2010, 10:28 AM

esteve, me thinks you hit the nail square on the head. lol

sabre692 · 07-28-2010, 11:42 AM

If I did offend anyone about my post, I do apologize. I am a true gentleman when it comes to women and wouldn't want to sully my image as such. I respect the system in place of providers to screen. It gives them heads up on what to expect of the guest they meet and probably prepare accordingly on what works best for them. Deflate your big head a bit MP.

Guest091010-2 · 07-28-2010, 12:38 PM

Lmao. If my DNS list gets much longer I'm going to starve to death...and I'd honestly prefer it to spending time with jackasses like MPcatch.

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Originally Posted by MPcatch

I'm a man I speak my mind I'm not the cowardly lion here. I've never disrespected any woman, nor will I ever. Besides having a GFE plays into manlynessness. Lol. I don't get it , I have to play mind games to get the ladies. Wow. If I play kiss ass I'll get the ladies then I pay them to kiss my ass. GFE.

This thread I made was just an idea of what I would like to see. Besides I'm to handsome to play kiss ass with the ladies. Lol.

Mr. Smith111 · 07-28-2010, 12:49 PM

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Originally Posted by MPcatch

I don't want to waste my time and money fucking ladies to make a name for my self. Why not make a thread especially for newbie friendly providers. Or other simple things like a marker that accompanies a legend. You know red square means newbie provider. Other markers mean diff things. I don't think us as hobbyist should earn the ladies. The providers should work to earn my money.

I bet if u take this suggestion you'll have providers wanting to earn their money instead of having the pick and choose power. Simply put increase in revenue for certain ladies. CAPATILISM

It takes a little while to get some good references, but there are a lot of ladies that see newbies. They vary as much as the ladies that don't see newbies. You are not " earning the ladies". Some wont see new guys. Your idea may not be bad, but you need to work on your presentation .

LAVixian · 07-28-2010, 01:24 PM

I agree with Mr.Nasty, idea is good, presentation is bad. My advice? Look through the showcases. Alot of providers ARE newbie friendly and they say so in their posts/ads/whatever. If you're new, Have your employment info and full name/contact work and cell/home number handy. And don't expect last minute appointments cause it won't happen without ref's. If your info doesn't check out and you are rude and/or arrogant towards providers, they will not book. Most of us here, safety is our main concern plus respect. We don't have to be here. We WANT to be here.

Guest0812112 · 07-28-2010, 02:16 PM

The idea has merit, and as a provider who is newbie friendly and spends hours helping guys get started, attitude and respect are a must for me to be wiling to go the extra mile. The guys that take the route of the OP are the ones that make me have second thoughts about taking the extra risk involved, not to mention time and patience required. Joining the ranks of those that say call me after you get references sure sounds good at times.

Laurentius · 07-28-2010, 02:19 PM

Most of the ladies I see have some commonalities and it is not at all unusual, once I put them in touch, for them to become really great friends. So it's almost like being a match maker -- really cool.

The two ladies I see primarily became good friends that way and even do doubles together now and stuff. As they are both really fantastic people, I'm really glad I was able to play some role in that.

What I like to do is sort of "match" a new lady with providers I've seen in the past that I think will be able to relate to them -- if possible. There aren't that many that I would call "current" at any given point in time with me because I'm a repeater.

And -- there is another really really huge benefit.

Some folks will be able to relate to this. How many times have you ladies had a man who was a friend insist on some romantic choice that you absolutely KNEW was a major mistake? And I bet you're predictions were dead on -- weren't they? But he couldn't see it even though it should have been as plain as the nose on his face.

A woman can see things in other women that a man can't see.

A new provider looks at things from the perspective that verification allows other provider to vouch that I am safe. That much is certainly true.

BUT -- in my case, the verification works both ways. That is, the ladies also look at the new provider and give me their honest opinion as to whether or not I should see her and why.

There have been two cases of providers I have not seen because providers I already see alerted me to something being amiss. And I am absolutely certain that in one of those cases I was saved from a world of hurt.

I'm sorry, but that is an incredibly valuable service. Incredibly. Verification requirements give me an opportunity to have women that I know and trust put the potential new girl under a microscope far more discerning than any man's. And I DO take their advice most of the time.

Now for the place where I think "Newbie friendly" really needs to exist: some providers are better than others at easing men into the hobby. I think this is a special skill for which there should be a classification.