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Originally Posted by LazurusLong
Go send a message to Elizabeth Whispers or if you'd rather another male mod, check with PurplePussyeater. Both play in those areas...
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I'd second Mr Long's suggestion.
Various aspects of BDSM can be a lucrative niche market, if you have what it takes to pull it off. You have the look, which is a great leg-up to start with. But to do well at it you ARE going to have to study it.
I'd suggest that you concentrate on being a top -- a dom not a sub -- but you want to learn how both think. There is equipment and hardware involved, but anyone with decent eye-hand coordination and fine motor skills can master it. What is more difficult is the mental side of the equation. But if you do some exploration it shouldn't be too hard to tell (fairly quickly) if your own psyche encompasses enough sexual curiosity, agility and adventurousness to make this something you might excel at. Those men who seek this kind of eroticism include some who pay very well and don't feel the pinch, but they absolutely require a lot from their partner psychologically -- first their brain, then their body.
As I understand it PPE is a true aficionado and he'd be a good resource. Of course he'll probably want to do kinky things to you in the process.
Elisabeth can clue you in on things from a lady's perspective -- the psychology of it, and the business aspects as well.
In line with what Crossroads mentioned, about your pictures -- no matter what you do you need to work on those. The ones you have are poorly lit, small and grainy...cell phone pics? There are some excellent lensmen on this board (for professional consultation and results), not to mention a plethora of gents who can improve on what you have now, and will do it just for the pleasure. Guys around here are very visually oriented. You should make the most of that.
If I were you and was wanting to branch into a specialized service line, I'd seriously consider having 2 separate websites. Promote yourself (with appropriate pics) on one as Suzie GFE and in the other advertise your niche work, SallyTheSpanker. Advertising on this site (eccie) I'd put ads in with the regular providers that connect to Suzie's web page and ads with a different emphasis in Another Realm, and connect them to Sally's page. As far as I know, however, you may have only one identity on eccie -- so you'd have to think about how to manage your professional persona.
Good luck. Buy me a cup of coffee and some pecan pie and I'll answer all your questions.
Alecia and fetish's
