May-December Relationships...... Here I've been concerned and what does Hugh do and do?

[Whispers]

http://omg.yahoo.com/news/hugh-hefne...te-24/53006?nc

Hugh (Age 84) is now engaged to his 24yo Girlfriend....

and has children 58, 55, 10 and 9

I'm 31 years younger than him with Grand Kids the age of his Kids....

and concerned if maybe the lady I like spending time with is too young.....

Lets pause and think for a moment........ 30 years from now she will be almost 50... I'll still be younger than Hugh......

Yeah..... Maybe she is right in worrying about getting replaced.... What the heck would I do with a 49yo woman?

May-December Relationships...... What's your take on them...

I had a lady friend in a civilian setting recently ask me how "we" make it work referring to myself and a young lady she knows I see socially..... The age gap between me and the gal she was referring to was way greater than the one she is dealing with.... She's late 20s and her beau is mid/late 40s..... Nothing socially unacceptable in that case... or even difficult to manage.....

I'll admit it's a bit awkward at times walking into a place with a young gal on my arm but it only bothers me what she feels about it.... Personally... I love the attention it generates as well as the envy of other men...

Although I think any gal 18-mid 20s can be a blast BCD it is rare that a gal younger than 26 tends to stimulate more then my physical side.... And if they are younger then 21 it could be a problem taking them with me to some places......

I'm not the only one that goes out with young women on occaision.... How do you guys deal with it?

Ladies? When you socialize with an older man what do you do to keep it manageable?

[thegj]

And I didn't think you worried about anything.... especially involving ladies in the hobby. And of course we are looking forward to the release of "The Key Club Saga-the photo addition." I wonder who could publish this narrative/pictorial tale?

May- December???? Yes, it was my biggest concern in hobby world in the beginning. I have encountered wonderful mature women who are amazingly young at heart and eventually, I also found some wonderfully mature young women who happen to be chronologically quite young. I have found that many in this world care little about your chronological age but have more interest in your attitude, tolerance and emotional demeanor.

You are a lucky man to find someone who meets so many needs in one package. Of course you have been a hard working searcher.

[Whispers]

Originally Posted by thegj

And I didn't think you worried about anything....

Oh gosh.... I am actually quite the worrier...

especially involving ladies in the hobby.

hmmm... I don't worry about much in all honesty when it comes to a lady in the hobby if we are talking about her business unless I take a liking to her.... Then there is one thing that concerns me... That's their "knowing" Whispers..... It's not the most fashionable thing to be a friend of Whispers at times...

There are a few ladies though that I met in the hobby that I have built relationships with outside of the business and yes.. at times... I would admit to worrying about something where they are concerned....

I guess what I am pretty good at is separating the two...

And of course we are looking forward to the release of "The Key Club Saga-the photo addition." I wonder who could publish this narrative/pictorial tale?

That's story that was meant to be previewed in the 2nd quarter of 2011 that got a few teasers released prematurely.....But yes.... there are pictures...... Actually there could even be a musical score put to it as well!


May- December???? Yes, it was my biggest concern in hobby world in the beginning. I have encountered wonderful mature women who are amazingly young at heart and eventually, I also found some wonderfully mature young women who happen to be chronologically quite young.

I have found that many in this world care little about your chronological age but have more interest in your attitude, tolerance and emotional demeanor.

You are a lucky man to find someone who meets so many needs in one package. Of course you have been a hard working searcher.

It's been a lot of years since I found a level of maturity in a woman younger than 25 that surprised me but this year I have found two such ladies. In both cases, the ladies actually made their interests known to me before I explored them further.....

So... although I am always looking... always testing the waters..... in both of these cases I was simply lucky enough to get noticed by them I think....

[RALPHEY BOY]

I can see the 25 year old girls chatting now,,...

" oh boy Suzie did you see that 86 year old at the Hip Replacement Center?, he was hot"

[rCoder]

There are no ugly rich men...
-- Female Proverb

[Guest092815]

ah, rCoder, they were not thinking of Larry Flynt when they said that *(grin)*

I do love his advocacy and work for free speech, he is becoming more of a lone voice, it seems. Even w/o the wheelchair--NO WAY!!

Back to the topic--Hef has a kind nature, and THAT is a sexy quality, even if octagenarian isn't as much.

[Codybeast]

Play, pay and go away I get but marriage?

What is the mindset of an 84 year old frail man who marries a 24 year old?

[rCoder]

Touche m'Lady! The exception that proves the rule.

[RALPHEY BOY]

Originally Posted by Codybeast

What is the mindset of an 84 year old frail man who marries a 24 year old?

84 yr old man: I need to get on FB and Twitter so I can date my Great Grand Daughters friends...

[nuglet]

Originally Posted by Codybeast

Play, pay and go away I get but marriage?

What is the mindset of an 84 year old frail man who marries a 24 year old?

You're missing the plot. The question isn't "HIS" mindset... Ya think, perhaps, SHE has something to gain? nah~~~ She's doing it for LOVE don'cha know?
Just like us old codgers that pay for 24 y.o.'s... They aren't doing it for love are they? Well, with me maybe....

[Codybeast]

Originally Posted by nuglet

You're missing the plot. The question isn't "HIS" mindset... Ya think, perhaps, SHE has something to gain? nah~~~ She's doing it for LOVE don'cha know?
Just like us old codgers that pay for 24 y.o.'s... They aren't doing it for love are they? Well, with me maybe....

We old codgers Play, Pay and go aWay. We aren't 84 (I'm assuming) and certainly aren't marrying them.

Of course her game plan is a given and obvious but the real question is What does he get out of it?

Young and beautiful doesn't give you shit in terms of quality of life or companionship. Certainly not a reason to marry.

Zero in common in terms of life experiences to share and viagra can only do so much for 84 and frail.

I would imagine his knowing why she married him would only serve as a daily reminder of how shallow an existence he's living in his final years.

Hell my gf claims I'm late 20's body fit, no wrinkles, have all my hair and teeth and pushing 50 but even hanging around a 24 year old chica one-on-one for more than a few hours would annoy the hell out of me. Probably annoy the young lady too.

I couldn't even imagine taking one of these young hotties away for a week to some isolated retreat. A Milf I could actually enjoy non bcd as well as bcd.

Indeed I thoroughly enjoy feasting my eyes upon a very young gorgeous 10 for an hour or two bcd. Marriage? Hell no!

[WiLsOn]

It's simple, a poor broke old man is an "old fart." And a rich old man is a "distinguished gentleman."

[Codybeast]

Originally Posted by WiLsOn

It's simple, a poor broke old man is an "old fart." And a rich old man is a "distinguished gentleman."

Yes your stating her motivation for marrying him. That's stating the obvious. I'm still waiting to hear his motivation for and benefit to marrying her.

[WiLsOn]

Originally Posted by Codybeast

Yes your stating her motivation for marrying him. I'm still waiting to hear his motivation for marrying her.

Very Simply, P U S S Y !

[Codybeast]

Originally Posted by WiLsOn

Very Simply, P U S S Y !

Nope. He already has all the young pussy money can buy. No marriage required. Not that a frail 84 year old can do a whole lot with it. Still no reason for marrying a great granddaughter.
She gets to fight his family for his estate after he dies. He already has pussy.