So i've been known for my Assult on ECCIE

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To be honest

it has nothing to do with ECCIE the site it self lol

its alot of the people who seem to be proactive on it.

i received a few e-mails from ladies

both sides of the scale, one in particular caught my attention and got me thinking...

(her name will be secret)

CJ, why would you continue with the fire against eccie? isn't t hurting your income? are you not afraid of getting banned again? you are making alot of enemies? I couldn't never risk my livelihood for the sake of my pride.....


and i hit me right there....

I'm saying alot of the things alot of females think but don't want to put a bad image out....

most ladies, thrive to be the "Perfect" dream girl, no drama for the Johns, only visions of the beautiful mistress that they see on the side. Some girls are the Dominating Mistress that will make you bend to their whim but treat you like a king.

so my question to ladies and gents,

ladies what are you in this hobby, what are your goals?

Gents what is it you look for in a lady of the hour? what kind of personalities scare oyu away, and what gets you to rush back for more

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it's just a theory but i believe most people may not but truly honest because they want to preserve the image

[SweaterPuppies]

Stop making threads, it's getting redundant and old.

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Originally Posted by SweaterPuppies

Stop making threads, it's getting redundant and old.

sorry not a valid response ^.^

[SweaterPuppies]

Emphasis on redundant and old.

[Prolongus]

I love wackos.

[NearHauteRed]

Originally Posted by Wulf_Princess

.....

most ladies, thrive to be the "Perfect" dream girl, no drama for the Johns, only visions of the beautiful mistress that they see on the side. Some girls are the Dominating Mistress that will make you bend to their whim but treat you like a king.............

Which providers are those? I would like to meet them..........most of the ones I have had interactions with are just the opposite!

[bojulay]

I think most guys like a girl that gives her full attention to them
when they are together. Treats the guy like he is the only one
she is seeing for the whole month would be a good description
and does it in a genuine way not fake or forced but with a natural flow.

Some try and be like this but it comes across as scripted and that
just feels kind of fake. It has to have a quality of real about it.

And you have to remember that every guy is an individual so
a one size fits all attitude doesn't work very well, everyone
likes to be treated as a unique individual.

I would say this applies to guys that act like gentlemen and show
respect to a girl. If the guy proves to be a jerk then I say send him
on his way without an invitation to return.

Mutual respect is what works, or at least that is the starting point
just a simple code of etiquette, and just plain old fashioned manners.

Clients and providers shouldn't just look at each other as objects to be used.
Neither party will end up happy if that is their attitude.

This kind of relationship will have a guy returning to see a girl again.

PS.
I think your cool and I like your sense of humor.
I like a girl that is real and tough and not just a fakey suckup

[!VI!]

Originally Posted by bojulay

I think most guys like a girl that gives her full attention to them
when they are together. Treats the guy like he is the only one
she is seeing for the whole month would be a good description
and does it in a genuine way not fake or forced but with a natural flow.

Some try and be like this but it comes across as scripted and that
just feels kind of fake. It has to have a quality of real about it.

And you have to remember that every guy is an individual so
a one size fits all attitude doesn't work very well, everyone
likes to be treated as a unique individual.

I would say this applies to guys that act like gentlemen and show
respect to a girl. If the guy proves to be a jerk then I say send him
on his way without an invitation to return.

Mutual respect is what works, or at least that is the starting point
just a simple code of etiquette, and just plain old fashioned manners.

Clients and providers shouldn't just look at each other as objects to be used.
Neither party will end up happy if that is their attitude.

This kind of relationship will have a guy returning to see a girl again.

PS.
I think your cool and I like your sense of humor.

i love your responses

[bojulay]

Originally Posted by Wulf_Princess

i love your responses

I like your honesty and rough edge, not boring girl, to me boring is the worst.

I also say good for you telling those guys that are trying to get something
for nothing to take a hike.

[JohnnyYanks]

Originally Posted by bojulay

... I like your honesty ...

Wasn't she banned for dishonesty?

[JohnnyYanks]

Originally Posted by Wulf_Princess

... what kind of personalities scare oyu (you) away ...

Dull and insistent.

[bojulay]

Originally Posted by JohnnyYanks

Wasn't she banned for dishonesty?

She is asking questions like she genuinely wants an honest answer from someone
In my book that is being honest, also not being afraid to ask.

One of the more honest things I've seen around here in a while.
She has some rough edges but she also has heart.

If you can't try and help a person out like that, who then.

She hasn't done anything to me except ask some honest questions.
I don't give a flying F about some bann

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you are defending an eccie villain you might get banned next lol

oh wait you agree with something i said

you must be me in disguise lol

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Originally Posted by JohnnyYanks

Dull and insistent.

boring and narcissistic