In real life....yeah it's the rules of attraction. The one or ones you want, want something else...at the same time you are probably playing the same role to someone else....and the cycle repeats. As a species we are exceptionally odd.
Sucks but chin up and keep swimming...
.or don't...on a long enough timeline none of this really matters.
In this "hobby" life...well I will follow suit saying based on online info you seem very fuckable...doubt it gives any glimmer of reassurance on this gloomy cold night but there you have it.
Tomorrow is another day and a new chance to get laid...if that is what you are REALLY looking for.