Would you knowingly see a provider who is supposedly being stalked or investigated?

[Whispers]

Would you knowingly see a provider who is supposedly being stalked?

or a Provider concerned with a PI looking at her for some client's indiscretions?

Whether it be by a PI, jilted lover, ex BF wannabe, jealous wife or deranged lunatic.....

If a lady supposedly has concerns she is being stalked, hunted etc.....

Would you have concerns about seeing her?

[runswithscissors]

in a nutshell, the answer is going to be yes, i would have concerns about seeing her. But also keep in mind the hobby world we play in. You at all times must be "security aware" of your surroundings, cars behind you, people sitting in cars or walking aimlessly. I have called a provider from my car when I noticed a guy leaning up against a tree diagonal from her incall. Paranoid? you have to be a little bit.......Now when I call to make an appointment and she tells me she thinks she has a stalker and what do I think? The answer is going to be pretty obvious.........

[ChrisS]

Yep. Don't need the hassle. I could make exceptions but as a rule, life is complicated enough...don't need more.

[Ready2Rock]

Good question. In one case, I continued seeing a lady who I knew had a problem with a client who wanted a real relationship with her, but I didn't consider him a personal risk -- although maybe I should have. In another case, I stayed away from a lady for about 6 months because of a situation that I thought could get ugly. I knew the guy involved was a hot-head and had arrived at her incall unexpectedly on a few occasions. I was hearing conflicting versions of what was supposedly going on from different hobbyists, but the lady insisted everything was under control. My gut feeling told me to lay low, so I did. One lady retired, the other went UTR for a long while.

One of my worst fears in this hobby is to be in mid-session when the front door to the incall is kicked in by an enraged SO. There are enough risks here without getting maimed or killed.

So, the short answer is no. In most cases, I would not see a lady who I knew was being stalked.

[RALPHEY BOY]

yes, and I have numerous times...he was not stalking me..

well I say it again the joys of being single, no kids , no ex-wives and my close friends and family already know I see Proivders

[Guest112113-3]

We have lost a few great young ladies from just as you have mentioned "Stalking and Outing", it happens all the time and to expect that it doesn't apply in your situtation with any escort in the general game, then you are fooling yourself.

I am sure that "Ready2Rock" and I am are thinking of mainly one particular young lady that this happen to recently. It's a fucking shame.

Does it brother me? Yes personally, but I can't blame the ladies thou, its just something that could happen easily in the nature of the game.

I miss that hot little tight Asian..

[LadiesFan]

"Would you knowingly see a provider who is supposedly being stalked or investigated? "

Stalked -- yes, doesn't matter to me. SELF EDIT -- Just read Ready2Rock's post and changed my mind... I don't need this hassle either.

Investigated -- not no, but HELL NO... I don't need the potential hassle.

LF

[jsparrow]

I agree with READY2ROCK. I didn't consider him a risk to me, personally, so I continued to see her. Gotta say...she was pretty naive about the threat.......hoping he would just go away....didn't happen. He outed her to everybody (family, friends, business contacts, etc.....).

I'd STILL see her if I could..... but she's retired.

[Ready2Rock]

The type of stalking that forced the Asian lady referenced above into retirement doesn't pose a threat to the client. But, this type of aberrant behavior has affected two ladies I've seen many, many times.

The MO was the same in both cases:

In the most recent case, the offender, unable to accept the fact that a real relationship wasn't a possibility, first outted the lady to her apartment manager. She had to relocate her incall. Then, as jsparrow stated, he printed out copies of reviews and photos from her web site and mailed them to family members. He's a slender, bald-headed guy in his 40's who works in the telecommunications field. He began attending certain "social" functions early last year, so it's possible several of you have met him. This gutless turd is well known to quite a few of us now, and I hear he's having one helluva tough time getting an appointment nowadays. Go figure.

In an earlier case, this one involving a Houston-based Asian lady who traveled a great deal, the offender suggested she should stop traveling and settle down with him. Having seen the guy for several years, she had become comfortable enough with him to see him non-BCD for lunch occasionally. When he blurted out his proposal, she told him she didn't date clients. In anger, his first move was to leave a message on her voicemail, saying, "You've fucked up my life, and now I'm going to fuck yours up." She theorized that the guy ran her license plate number and got the address where she resided at the time she bought the car. It was the home of her mother, who was having some serious health problems. The lady's mom and sisters received the large envelope containing copies of reviews and photos from her web site. The lady was working here at the time, got a call from home and rushed back to Houston to do a lot of damage control. Fortunately, the envelope didn't find its way to the lady's current address. She said if it had, her marriage would have been over. The offender had no idea she was married, but probably wouldn't have cared. She's retired and thankfully doing very well today.

In this case, the physical description and job of the offender were the same as in the first case. Was it the same person? I'm not sure, but I'd say there's a good possibility. He's evidently used several names and e-mail addresses.

In addition, according to one lady I know, there are about three Austin "gents" involved in this type of stalking right now. Seems to be their little hobby within the hobby.

I think most of us are aware there are some genuine sickos among us. Probably 95 percent of us here are decent people. But it just takes a few to ruin it for everyone.

[Guest030911]

What does she look like and how is her service?

[jsparrow]

Here, Hear! Well said! Thanks.

He does so much peripheral damage to everyone involved in the life of his target.

Last two ladies I've visited know about him. Hope they all do.

[Amrita Lover]

Its such a shame, outing someone, especially a favorite provider. Its like killing the goose that was laying the golden egg. Stupid, stupid, stupid.

[sixxbach]

one word......... NEXT

[greymouse]

Originally Posted by Whispers

Would you knowingly see a provider who is supposedly being stalked?

or a Provider concerned with a PI looking at her for some client's indiscretions?

Whether it be by a PI, jilted lover, ex BF wannabe, jealous wife or deranged lunatic.....

If a lady supposedly has concerns she is being stalked, hunted etc.....

Would you have concerns about seeing her?

You wouldn't have someone particular in mind in asking would you Whispers? Or possibly an agenda?

[Sensual Sophia]

I would, but I would be cautious. I would want to know more about the nature of the stalking to reduce my risk of being harmed by it.