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Johnny4455 · 02-22-2015, 12:09 PM

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?...post1056410494

Made arrangements to see her this morning. Everything seemed good, including two responsive texts while I was on the way. Got there about 5 minutes before time. texted her from the car 4 times over the next 30 minutes no reply. Texted her two hours later and she replied saying "I never got those texts". I replied with; If you were expecting me at x time from your text 25 minutes ago, Why didn't you text me asking me where I was"? no response to that other than , she got pissy with me and told me I was "playing games".

When a guy takes off a sunday morning and comes to see you and you don't connect, even if it wasn't your fault, don't tell him he is "playing games".

She sounds like a hot young lady, who will do very well at this, but the dealing with 21 year olds who don't understand how to treat what could be a valuable customer - is getting really old.

Guest013121 · 02-22-2015, 12:17 PM

I didn't even know ppl still used the not getting the texts excuse. Damn Johnny that sucks you wasted your time. Would you be willing to let her make it up to you if she so desired to??

Johnny4455 · 02-22-2015, 12:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Gemma34

I didn't even know ppl still used the not getting the texts excuse. Damn Johnny that sucks you wasted your time. Would you be willing to let her make it up to you if she so desired to??

When young new providers make mistakes (and I have had lots of experiences of that nature) I always take a patient "i forgive you" Approach, mostly because I know they will be eager to make it up to me.it can be as hot as make up sex with your lover after an argument. But, sometimes, like here, where she responds to me with "you're playing games"... then no, I would not see her again.

What do you do gemma, as an experienced pro, when u make a mistake with a good client?

Guest013121 · 02-22-2015, 12:50 PM

That is why I asked. I have had to make up an excuse to cx appts before and, YES, I've ncns'd a guy or 2 in my time. I either dbl booked or I was just embarrassed to call after I was already late and stressing. But I do reach out in private and try to 'make it right.' I don't try to reverse the blame onto the guy though so I think that's fucked up of her. Just by the story she probably scheduled 2 of you and whoever showed up first or whatever, WON her time! Eh hehe. But she could've at least had the decency to not blame you for it. So maybe she will offer you the time of your life to not think bad of her anymore. You'll have to let us know! Lol

royamcr · 02-22-2015, 02:24 PM

Lots of dicks, and few chicks. Wishing I was in Dallas. lol

Madison Ville · 02-22-2015, 03:48 PM

i did not ncns i sat and waited on u it was only until after i called to ask were u still coming did u say u text me and if u drove all the way here and got no response from me then why didnt u call? i called you bc of no response from u

KCAsianDude · 02-22-2015, 04:09 PM

Sounds like a kiss and make up session is in order.

Johnny4455 · 02-22-2015, 04:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Madison Ville

i did not ncns i sat and waited on u it was only until after i called to ask were u still coming did u say u text me and if u drove all the way here and got no response from me then why didnt u call? i called you bc of no response from u

We've never spoken on the phone. You never tried to call me. You did not text me to say "where are you? I texted you 4 times in the parking lot. You say you never got those texts, but you did get 2 texts from me when I was on the way.

You'd be better off of you wouldn't try to blame this on me.

BigDeal · 02-22-2015, 04:26 PM

Sorry but I would take Johnny's side on this one...he has been around way too long at this stuff.
She sounds immature..... Madison just keep on going back to where ever you came from.... Johnny the next bus is right around the corner!

Audrey Astor · 02-22-2015, 05:55 PM

Johnny has a decent reputation, and I would be willing to bet Gemma's take on it is correct. Sorry that happened Johnny. What a way to mess up a Sunday.

Guest123017 · 02-22-2015, 06:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Holly Love

Johnny has a decent reputation, and I would be willing to bet Gemma's take on it is correct. Sorry that happened Johnny. What a way to mess up a Sunday.

too true - +1...

Gotta side with Johnny and hope she takes the high road and makes it up to him...

and Gemma - if only they could all be like you and 'make it right' - but alas in this biz there are many types and sadly too many of them like this chick find resolve in projecting blame rather than accepting blame, apologize, and rock his world for the make up review that would just get more guys a callin'...

Madison Ville · 02-23-2015, 10:45 AM

i dnt want to start off on the wrong foot. i even contacted u after u left a short while after our scheduled meeting time and u said u didnt want to turn around. im not a ncns girl. i did not have another appointment or intentionally blow anyone off. if u txt me and theres no response please call me. i use google voice so i get all my txts which is why i said "playing games" bad choice of words i know but the fact that i didnt get ur txts and u didnt want to come up had me thinking there wre games played. srry for the misunderstanding. yall have a great day.

Guest013121 · 02-23-2015, 10:54 AM

What a nice response. I think you should give her a second chance Johnny! Look how well-composed she is with us fuckers. Awesome post Madison! Good luck. We all make mistakes, at least you are a big girl about yours. Speaks volumes.

Gem

algrace · 02-23-2015, 03:53 PM

About that make-up, pix or it didn't happen - Lol

BigDeal · 02-23-2015, 08:33 PM

Alright Im sorry as well for my go away post...dammit Gemma you had to start it

I agree she should make nice with you Johnny....can we get a follow up review?