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ILuvNips · 09-04-2015, 09:57 AM

Has anyone ever had that feeling that they've been put on a new blacklist site? Past couple of weeks have been crazy. High rate of no shows and several stoppages of communication. Even from a couple of ladies ive met before. Maybe I just caught the plague and havent been told yet...lol

kingwizard · 09-04-2015, 10:43 AM

Ive def had that same exact feeling recently, maybe it's just timing?

windowsidiot · 09-04-2015, 05:05 PM

I even asked with a trusted provider in another area who checked for me. She found nothing???? I still don't understand why someone would advertise and not respond.

husker_do · 09-04-2015, 09:02 PM

Wow, same thing happened to me. Girl I've seen before multiple times and knows I'm safe didn't show.

Girls ... is there something going on that the guys don't know about ???

Guest110923 · 09-04-2015, 09:56 PM

Is is all the same girl ? Or different girls?

Usually if in don't want to see someone i tell them why atleast

Guest022016 · 09-04-2015, 11:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Kay2Day

Is is all the same girl ? Or different girls?

Usually if in don't want to see someone i tell them why atleast

Good question.

I will add...are these BP girls or VP's? I don't mean to be offensive nor am I trying to be but you can't really hold most bp girls to a professional standard.

husker_do · 09-04-2015, 11:50 PM

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Originally Posted by MissSaraXXX

I don't mean to be offensive nor am I trying to be but you can't really hold most bp girls to a professional standard.

Sara, can your doubles partner in Omaha (VP Provider) be held to a professional standard ? I did. Truth is, I feel I owe Wedge Donovan an apology. Look up the history. I expected your partner to show up when she said she would and she didn't.

Don't know who the other dudes are talking about ... but it seems to be a problem. Something new ? That's all we were asking about ... its not about bp wanna-bees. Its about verified ladies we've seen before all of a sudden deciding to treat men like shit, men they've seen before and know are safe. WFT ???

wedge_donovan · 09-05-2015, 12:58 AM

Seems to be a lot of stings going on right now?

Guest022016 · 09-05-2015, 02:11 AM

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Originally Posted by husker_do

Sara, can your doubles partner in Omaha (VP Provider) be held to a professional standard ? I did. Truth is, I feel I owe Wedge Donovan an apology. Look up the history. I expected your partner to show up when she said she would and she didn't.

Don't know who the other dudes are talking about ... but it seems to be a problem. Something new ? That's all we were asking about ... its not about bp wanna-bees. Its about verified ladies we've seen before all of a sudden deciding to treat men like shit, men they've seen before and know are safe. WFT ???

"Hey, Sara, why did you disable your account?"

"Hmmmmm....I have nooooooooo fucking clue!!!"

windowsidiot · 09-05-2015, 03:06 AM

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Originally Posted by MissSaraXXX

Good question.

I will add...are these BP girls or VP's? I don't mean to be offensive nor am I trying to be but you can't really hold most bp girls to a professional standard.

The occurrences I encountered were varied. Most were SipSap some ECCIE one BP I had seen several times before but had become unreliable. 1 I had met briefly but had communicated with her occasionally another responded questioning why I contacted her since she barely advertised.???? 1 no showed, 2 responded a week later and some just never responded. This is an apparent recent change in attitude.

Ms.Lady Y · 09-05-2015, 06:26 AM

If you have called and I have not gotten back to you it is most likely because,

I had an appt when you called and it has been an hour since your call, I do not call people back if it has been a hour since they called me.

I stated in my ad I will be working these hours and you called me outside of them hours.

because you have scheduled and canceled more than twice or you have ncns.

No call no Show has only happened a couple of times and it is usually because I over slept. Not an excuse, but it happens.

I always try and contact everyone if I can not make it and I give them at least a 3 hr notice that I can't do it for whatever reason, unless of course it is a emergency than notice may be shorter.

Spend more time reading the girls ads, most of us state in them hours, way to contact us etc...
My ads say TEXT ONLY but yet people insist on calling and then complain I never get back to them and they left a message. I don't listen to messages and don't ever check to see who has called, Text only means Text only.

Luxie · 09-05-2015, 09:11 AM

And I will absolutely *personally* blacklist someone who calls me after midnight and before 8 am. I have explicitly stated on my website that if you call me during those hours, you get blocked. Of course I tell them and they try and haggle with me which only makes it a million times worse but..

I'm usually pretty good at getting back to most people though. A few slip through the cracks but just shoot me a text or email again and I'll be guaranteed to get back to you.

DallasRain · 09-05-2015, 09:18 AM

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Originally Posted by Ms.Lady Y

If you have called and I have not gotten back to you it is most likely because,

I had an appt when you called and it has been an hour since your call, I do not call people back if it has been a hour since they called me.

I stated in my ad I will be working these hours and you called me outside of them hours.

because you have scheduled and canceled more than twice or you have ncns.

No call no Show has only happened a couple of times and it is usually because I over slept. Not an excuse, but it happens.

I always try and contact everyone if I can not make it and I give them at least a 3 hr notice that I can't do it for whatever reason, unless of course it is a emergency than notice may be shorter.

Spend more time reading the girls ads, most of us state in them hours, way to contact us etc...
My ads say TEXT ONLY but yet people insist on calling and then complain I never get back to them and they left a message. I don't listen to messages and don't ever check to see who has called, Text only means Text only.

ditto!!!!

DesireMeDestiny · 09-05-2015, 09:20 AM

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Originally Posted by AriannaFox

And I will absolutely *personally* blacklist someone who calls me after midnight and before 8 am. I have explicitly stated on my website that if you call me during those hours, you get blocked.

So do you blacklist or block them when the call you when you're "closed"? I would think maybe just turning off your phone when you're not working could be more helpful than using an actual blacklist for that?

I typically only blacklist when something noteworthy happens during an appointment or something weird I discover during screening.

Mike1961 · 09-05-2015, 09:35 AM

I never have ncns with VP's and if there is a problem they are always in contact. BP is just the opposite, a lot of delays or ncns, seems that Omaha is the worst. I've only seen a couple of sipsap girls and they are not as bad as bp but still seems to be delays and a lot of run around to see them the 1st time. I think with the recent stings everyone is being very careful, I am.