Sugar babys

[Olivia Belle]

I'm sure there is an online site for this but I wanted to know how common is it. For both men and women, how do you feel about being seen with an older man in public and men how do you think people perceive you with such a younger woman. Are there any sugar baby relationships that are current, anyone care to share their experience good bad money spent?
I understand the concept so I don't need an explanation of that just wanted to maybe hear some stories.

I am thinking about doing this.

[Guest013121]

Well I've had a sd since I can remember. I don't care what ppl think either. Probably what my sd loves most! It's not really something you do, it's something that falls into place. It's something like a relationship with extra added benefits. The online sites are a waste of space to me. Good luck!

[i'va biggen]

I think it is overrated, you are better off with a provider you hit it off with not near the drama.

[Olivia Belle]

Originally Posted by Gemma34

Well I've had a sd since I can remember. I don't care what ppl think either. Probably what my sd loves most! It's not really something you do, it's something that falls into place. It's something like a relationship with extra added benefits. The online sites are a waste of space to me. Good luck!

Did you guys meet through the hobby or was it just a friendship that turned into what it is today?

I used to have a friend that I met in the hobby and he would fly me out but there wasn't a monthly allowance ( or what ever you want to call it. ) It was more he would pay for my time while I was with him and if I needed anything between the time of not seeing him he had me covered. I never asked for much though. lol

[Olivia Belle]

Originally Posted by i'va biggen

I think it is overrated, you are better off with a provider you hit it off with not near the drama.

So how would you say you introduce this topic so such a situation?

[LoveWomen]

They have all failed,

Some failed quietly,

Some were Epic Failures.

Common Theme:

SBs take generosity, affection, and honesty as weakness to be played.

SBs get their allowance, their cars, their apartments, their wardrobe, manicures, tanning, hair styling and somehow forget where it all came from.

I'll probably keep trying.

Someone, someday will appreciate the respect, and the pampering that comes with a balanced arrangement.

[WhiteGentleman]

My experience has been similar to LoveWomen's. Golden pussy syndrome.

[LoveWomen]

God.only knows how many pairs of shoes, cell phones, gym memberships I have bought.

It seems I only hear from SBs when their cell phone bill is due.


PS. A particular peeve is seeing some young punks driving the cars I have bought for my SBs.

Question for Gemma:

What does your SD think of.you continuing to see clients while he is supporting you, or does.he.know?

No.disrespect intended, but is there an "understanding" about your work?

[Nero Wolfe]

An couple of exes and a current one have had SDs.

One ex has kept hers for years and they still have a relationship. He is quite needy and texts her dozens of times a day and wants to hang out with her a couple of times each month. He pays a lot for this. The other ex went through a series of them and none worked out.

The current one had past SDs but neither worked out for her.

I think they hooked up on SB/SD sites

A successful relationship seems to be fairly rare and takes an effort from both sides.

[Savannah Moon]

Still looking for one.. or have I exceeded the age limit!! I would love to unleash all of my NAUGHTY on one PASSIONATELY DESERVING MAN MMMMHMMM

[BigDeal]

Originally Posted by LoveWomen

God.only knows how many pairs of shoes, cell phones, gym memberships I have bought.

It seems I only hear from SBs when their cell phone bill is due.


PS. A particular peeve is seeing some young punks driving the cars I have bought for my SBs.

Question for Gemma:

What does your SD think of.you continuing to see clients while he is supporting you, or does.he.know?

No.disrespect intended, but is there an "understanding" about your work?

Hey LW ...sorry to hear this but Im thinking being in a position to say hey...this aint balanced and Im walking away would be in order.

Try that and see what happens....if they dont care then you were wasting your time anyway.

[Olivia Belle]

Originally Posted by LoveWomen

They have all failed,

Some failed quietly,

Some were Epic Failures.

Common Theme:

SBs take generosity, affection, and honesty as weakness to be played.

SBs get their allowance, their cars, their apartments, their wardrobe, manicures, tanning, hair styling and somehow forget where it all came from.

I'll probably keep trying.

Someone, someday will appreciate the respect, and the pampering that comes with a balanced arrangement.

Did these relationships come from a meeting a provider or from a sb site?
I wonder if age has a role to play in it? Maybe your sb's were too young to value their SD

[Olivia Belle]

Originally Posted by WhiteGentleman

My experience has been similar to LoveWomen's. Golden pussy syndrome.

Is there a way you could have changed that aspect. While we all know pus$# rules lol -- Maybe you could have lessened the allowance since there was a lack of communication of affection. With all relationships you have to be groomed to be what the other person wants. Men leave the toilet seat up all the time, I can't be upset with that in the beginning

[bluetiger]

Just got out from a sd/SB relationship ......it was good while it lasted , we are still friends , I just couldn't deal with her " real " life ....to much drama for me. But I will get back into,another one pretty soon ....one of her friends that know about me already got in touch with me
As long as you know what you get yourself into it can be really fun !

[WhiteGentleman]

Bluetiger, you're going to start up with a girlfriend of your previous SB who was too much drama? That should be interesting. What could possibly go wrong? Keep us informed.