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PhillyChik · 05-28-2014, 03:12 PM

I just got a very nasty text from an Eccie gentleman who asked my rate, and asked if I was still in Bham. I said I was on my way there shortly. He didn't make appt but wanted me to let him know when I "get set". I asked him if he wanted to make appt, and he said he didn't know what time I'd be in town.

I told him when he learns how to make an appt to call back--I don't really have time once I'm on the road to be fiddling with bs like that like. His response:

" u people kill me u act like someone special goodbye is right"

Well, straight up garbage, hence, I appreciate those of you who know how to be somewhat civil and professional. He called me, you know? I know I shouldn't worry about it, but when that's the only response I get in the last 4 days (besides peeps 4 hours away), it just rubs me the wrong way.

buffalo9999 · 05-29-2014, 05:49 PM

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Originally Posted by PhillyChik

I just got a very nasty text from an Eccie gentleman who asked my rate, and asked if I was still in Bham. I said I was on my way there shortly. He didn't make appt but wanted me to let him know when I "get set". I asked him if he wanted to make appt, and he said he didn't know what time I'd be in town.

I told him when he learns how to make an appt to call back--I don't really have time once I'm on the road to be fiddling with bs like that like. His response:

" u people kill me u act like someone special goodbye is right"

Well, straight up garbage, hence, I appreciate those of you who know how to be somewhat civil and professional. He called me, you know? I know I shouldn't worry about it, but when that's the only response I get in the last 4 days (besides peeps 4 hours away), it just rubs me the wrong way.

I think a lot of people look at things from their perspective and don't consider the other persons feelings. I don't even think that they think they are being rude.That is part of the business to have to deal with rude people.Hopefully you will have to deal with a whole lot more of nice people than rude ones.Good luck.

Scubasteve85 · 05-29-2014, 06:15 PM

Sorry for the rude people hopefully there are a lot more nice ones than rude ones

ArisRose · 05-29-2014, 06:44 PM

Rude ass fools.

bladtinzu · 05-29-2014, 07:33 PM

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Originally Posted by buffalo9999

I think a lot of people look at things from their perspective and don't consider the other persons feelings. I don't even think that they think they are being rude.That is part of the business to have to deal with rude people.Hopefully you will have to deal with a whole lot more of nice people than rude ones.Good luck.

It is also part of this business to deal with the escorts/hookers/whores/providers who think their time is so much more important than the guys time. Sadly there are a lot of NCNS's happening where as the chick never thinks it is a big deal that the guy took time out of his day to run out and see her and she never lets him know till days later she was not there or just forgot or went shopping with some fool trying to make a hooker into a SB..

The door swings both ways on this what is considered rude behavior..

DakotaSterling · 08-19-2014, 02:11 PM

Meh.. He who holds the gold makes the rules. -my own version of the popular saying lol. Take it with a grain of salt. We are in a customer service business.. The customer is always right.. Getting into pissing matches (pardon my French) never does anything to help a ladies rep. Best thing to do is always be a lady- mind your manners ... Even though it does kinda make a bad day when someone is rude..

Although, to me, this looks like a miscommunication.. I do not believe he was intentionally being rude based on what you said..

JustCause · 08-19-2014, 09:59 PM

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Originally Posted by PhillyChik

I just got a very nasty text from an Eccie gentleman who asked my rate, and asked if I was still in Bham. I said I was on my way there shortly. He didn't make appt but wanted me to let him know when I "get set". I asked him if he wanted to make appt, and he said he didn't know what time I'd be in town.

I told him when he learns how to make an appt to call back--I don't really have time once I'm on the road to be fiddling with bs like that like. His response:

" u people kill me u act like someone special goodbye is right"

Well, straight up garbage, hence, I appreciate those of you who know how to be somewhat civil and professional. He called me, you know? I know I shouldn't worry about it, but when that's the only response I get in the last 4 days (besides peeps 4 hours away), it just rubs me the wrong way.

So, another thread complaining that no one ever calls. And countless others with assorted whines. And the last two threads find you complaining that men are rude and ignorant. Maybe we've found the problem.

PhillyChik · 08-20-2014, 02:22 AM

Sweetie, this thread was 3 months ago, and 4-5 months ago for the other ones you mention. I'm not starving, HARDLY. Go troll somebody else because I'm not not having it.

Ps, you're one of the ones who do it because you have to.

JustCause · 08-20-2014, 06:53 AM

We trust you'll find less rudeness, garbage, ignorance and men who rub you the wrong way in the City of Brotherly Love.

All the best.

PhillyChik · 08-20-2014, 07:14 AM

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Originally Posted by JustCause

We trust you'll find less rudeness, garbage, ignorance and men who rub you the wrong way in the City of Brotherly Love.

All the best.

Good to know you speak for the entire eccie community. If you like banter with me so much you should have just made an appointment

RickForFun · 08-20-2014, 11:58 AM

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Originally Posted by PhillyChik

Ps, you're one of the ones who do it because you have to.

Tacky

PhillyChik · 08-20-2014, 12:07 PM

Look, I don't just sit back and take peoples crap. And I really don't care who likes it or doesn't. This thread was created to vent and also get feedback--not to get harassed by guys who shouldn't even be wasting their time on this. What is your point? Really.

RickForFun · 08-20-2014, 12:14 PM

The point is you are what you are and will probably never change. It will be the same no matter where you live. For my taste, you are one of the hottest ladies around, and I would not see you for free. Too much drama

PhillyChik · 08-20-2014, 12:21 PM

You think I care if Î said something "tacky" to someone who has never contacted me, yet memorized every post I've ever made--then responded to a dead, three month old thread? Like I usually say during times like this: thanks for the exposure, I always get a few new clients this way ;-)

PhillyChik · 08-20-2014, 12:29 PM

What I do or say "off the clock" is irrelevent. I'm a real person. And since i can't exactly discuss hobby issues publicly, I use this and other forums. I will never not be vocal. And, i wîsh it mattered that you don't want to meet me, but it really doesn't.