Wondering.....why order pse when you are looking for gfe???

[DallasRain]

THIS IS NOT A WHINING POST--IT IS A PONDERING QUESTION!!!!!


I have noticed lately that I have been "getting appointment request" from guys who have previously only been with strictly GFE type girls{the slow soft sensual type} ......

but they all had read my reviews & post and knew what type of session I provided....which is clear that I am a fetish/pse kinda girl

This has resulted in a couple of mixed reviews lately.......I am not "every guys cup of tea",and i don't try to be.......

It is not the review that bothers me,it is the fact that his "bad choices" affect my reputatation.....I don't think it's cool to whine or cry over a bad review......I have been in this business over 10 years & have learned to take the good with the bad and learn from it.

so my question is.....why does a client call one type of provider when it is clearly not the kind of provider he is looking for??

{It is kind of like going to a steakhouse and complaining he did not get mexican food}


Thanks for any input

[Outdoorsman]

I cannot answer why anyone acts a certain way. I can only answer for myself. I know there are times when I venture out to try something new, only to learn I am not into that type of thing. New is not always good for me. I was curious about being with a tall lady, I tried it and I had a blast. I was curious about COT, I tried it but really did nothing extra for me. I learned that where my load flies is not so important to me. It was kinda disappointing. Albeit, the lady had nothing to do with my disappointment she was doing for me exactly what I requested. But all in all the experience was disappointing, I realized that she had nothing to do with my feelings so I did not write a bad review. COT, COF, or whatever is just not important to me, but I have learned CIM is very important I cannot stand building up to orgasm and just before I am ready to blow she takes me out of her mouth. Since, I know this about my self I usually research and find out if a lady offers CIM before I call, just me though.

I am also learning I like swallowing as well, because even when there is CIM, some ladies have stopped and just held me in their mouth so as to ensure they do not swallow any. Swallowing in and of itself means nothing to me, I just do not want the lady to stop yet, let me finish. I have rather large orgasms and they can continue for a while, the sensation is still WOW so please do not stop, just me.

[Murf76]

Dee,Nobody can be everything for everybody.I always cite that great philosopher...Ricky Nelson....."You can't please everyone,so you got to please yourself"....from the song "Garden Party"!!!!! You have an amazing,sterling reputation and a few idiots that don't do their research can't detract from it.


So,When you see a bad review on yourself,give them my e-mail address and I'll tell them to STFU

Still patiently waiting for you in St.Louis(So I can add to your amazing,sterling reviews)

[Guest052115-1]

I agree with Murf.

I don't think there is a way that your reputation can be hurt. You have WAY too much history and good will built up. If they are wanting a soft and cuddly session, then they are wasting their time and money with you. Its their loss, not yours. You are so awesome at what you do that they just don't appreciate it. Screw'em!

[Nina Rae]

Honey, I dunno why they do it, but I certainly have experienced the same thing. I'm not a spinner, and never claimed to be. But I've dealt with some comments about how I wasn't what he expected....no clue how he could have gotten confused, these boobs don't come on wafer thin girls.

I say push on and forget 'em. Those who can, read. Those who can't...will live in want.

[TwistedTiger]

It's simply a lack of doing their homework which leads them someone that's not necessarily what they are looking for. It's one thing if you're trying someone new, but 100% their fault with the well reviewed providers. Maybe you ladies haven't noticed but when a guy starts thinking with his little head the decisions are not as well thought out as they should be. Unfortunately it's been that way since the beginning of time and shows no sign of changing. I'm as guilty as the next guy if not even more so.

[Shadowbeast666]

Dee, I have yet to meet you, however, from what I've read it would take a hell of a lot more than someone complaining that they got the PSE instead of the GFE to deter me from calling you or your reputation being tarnished. I mean really, I would think that most guys would be happy that happened. Your analogy is spot on IMO.

[DallasRain]

thanks everyone!

I don't think it's cool to whine or cry over a bad review... I was not trying to be a whiney bitch...I was just curious....lol
...I have been in this business over 10 years & have learned to take the good with the bad and learn from it.



I have noticed that when I announced my Texas tour,the kinky guys came out of the woodwork...lol....all of my appts knew what they were "getting into" so it was an awesome trip!

{one guy even had me a "I SURVIVED DALLAS" tshirt printed up!! lol}

[gimme_that]

Originally Posted by DallasRain

I have noticed lately that I have been "getting appointment request" from guys who have previously only been with strictly GFE type girls{the slow soft sensual type}

They can keep slow and sensual. I mean that's a good appetizer....but give me gfe with a strong side of pse and I'm happy. My girlfriends all fucked like porn stars.

Originally Posted by DallasRain

I have noticed lately that I have been "getting appointment request" from guys who have previously only been with strictly GFE type girls{the slow soft sensual type}

Ahh touche. You assummed they read your reviews. And posts and knew what to expect. On the sametoken it has been said before every session is ymmv, and reviews can be bthe same way. Some ladies highly raved about bin many areas dont measure bup to the hype. This bguy probably offered his experience, and in conjunction with byour record of other reviews he can make a more informed decision.

But in agreeing with you, if I see that a provider offers brown showers, bdsm whips, using dildos on men, and chains type stuff........and she also puts "gfe too" bin her ad........I'm bthinking her version of gfe may be a little less believable.

so my question is.....why does a client call one type of provider when it is clearly not the kind of provider he is looking for??[/QUOTE]

For variety I'm guessing. Maybe he wanted to try pse, but in session preferred gfe once he crossed the line. I tried seeing bbws ladies before......but in session noticed the activities session were session were different from ladies who were smaller and more agile. I nticed spinners really couldn't take a vigorous rump at times like the bbws could.......but I couldn't or wouldn't know unless I tried to see the difference personally.

Maybe he just wanted something different and wasn't pleased with the result. Not your fault necessarily in that case, just merely his opinion.

Originally Posted by Outdoorsman

but I have learned CIM is very important I cannot stand building up to orgasm and just before I am ready to blow she takes me out of her mouth......

I am also learning I like swallowing as well, because even when there is CIM, some ladies have stopped and just held me in their mouth so as to ensure they do not swallow any. Swallowing in and of itself means nothing to me, I just do not want the lady to stop yet, let me finish. I have rather large orgasms and they can continue for a while, the sensation is still WOW so please do not stop, just me.

I highly agree. The worst is when bthey won't cim or swallow the first bload. Or stop their pace that bgot me bto my point bof cuming when its about bto happen. Definitely won't call back after that although id recommend........

[Nicolet]

I agree with Nina, I have never hidden the fact that I have a belly. And Nina and I share the boobage! She's right, won't find tits like ours on a toothpick! Or at least not REAL ones!
I have always wondered exactly what IS pse? Is it just the wild sex, or does it include greek, dirty talk, etc? If greek is part of the definition of PSE, then its NOT me. BUT, if it includes all the OTHER stuff I mentioned, then I am PSE to the max!
Dallas, I'm surprised you haven't gotten one of those t-shirts already! You're a natural born wild child and if anyone has read your reviews and expected anything less than that, then they are too busy rubbing one off while looking at pics and are not truly READING your reviews!

[stavinChain]

Originally Posted by DallasRain

so my question is.....why does a client call one type of provider when it is clearly not the kind of provider he is looking for??

Uuuh, because some guys think with their dick?

[Murf76]

Originally Posted by DallasRain

thanks everyone!

I don't think it's cool to whine or cry over a bad review... I was not trying to be a whiney bitch...I was just curious....lol
...I have been in this business over 10 years & have learned to take the good with the bad and learn from it.



I have noticed that when I announced my Texas tour,the kinky guys came out of the woodwork...lol....all of my appts knew what they were "getting into" so it was an awesome trip!

{one guy even had me a "I SURVIVED DALLAS" tshirt printed up!! lol}

I never took it as whining or crying,it was a legitimate question begging for a legitimate answer.The answer is......To all of those guys who don't really know what they want from a provider....the short bus is here to take you for your therapy!!!!!!!!!LMAO

[DallasRain]

lol--Murf , I luv ya babe!!!

Stavin sweetheart....that is sooooooo true{lol}

thanks to all for the input!

[dilbert firestorm]

gfe vs. pse... its a moving target...

as for guys who weren't getting their due, I think they might be confused by what's considered pse and gfe.

[regulardogwalker]

Dallas I can't imagine how anyone could be with you and not be totally "wow'ed". I think any review that doesn't reflect that says more about the reviewer than it does about you.