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Jessica Jade · 06-10-2014, 01:35 PM

Ladies and gents, what would you do if someone was VERY persistent in wanting to date you (RW) but you were not wanting to date at the time? What if this person was very attractive and when you talked to each other it's as if you've known each other forever. You happen to run into this person everywhere you go, and you end up talking and laughing for hours. Do you move forward to see where it goes (or is already going), or do you try to stay away (maybe a stalker lol...wait, maybe

) ????

Barrymccockinner · 06-10-2014, 01:54 PM

Tell him you're a provider. I'm guessing that will turn off 2/3 of guys in the RW.

In all seriousness, it sounds like there's a lot of things that attract you to the guy based on your description of the issue. What holds you back from moving forward and seeing where it leads?

Jessica Jade · 06-10-2014, 01:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Barrymccockinner

Tell him you're a provider. I'm guessing that will turn off 2/3 of guys in the RW.

In all seriousness, it sounds like there's a lot of things that attract you to the guy based on your description of the issue. What holds you back from moving forward and seeing where it leads?

Lol actually you'd be surprised. Anyways, his sister and ex fiancé were in the biz so he totally understands it. But hey, again, may be just a stalker. Js. Thanks for the input tho

nosweat · 06-10-2014, 02:05 PM

Tell him you are already my girlfriend.. Let's fuck, make a video and we can show him- then see if he is still interested..

Chung Tran · 06-10-2014, 02:16 PM

4th thread to confuse me today.. sounds like it's not a matter of your not wanting to date at this time, but that you think he might be a stalker? anybody could be, but do you have a specific reason to think he is more likely?

Jessica Jade · 06-10-2014, 02:27 PM

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Originally Posted by nosweat

Tell him you are already my girlfriend.. Let's fuck, make a video and we can show him- then see if he is still interested..

Lol interesting. Hmmmm. May take you up on that

Jessica Jade · 06-10-2014, 02:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Chung Tran

4th thread to confuse me today.. sounds like it's not a matter of your not wanting to date at this time, but that you think he might be a stalker? anybody could be, but do you have a specific reason to think he is more likely?

Ugh. No I'm kind of joking about the stalker thing bcuz I seem to run into him almost everywhere I go. Sorry didn't think I was being confusing on this one. My bad.

Barrymccockinner · 06-10-2014, 03:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Jessica Jade

Ugh. No I'm kind of joking about the stalker thing bcuz I seem to run into him almost everywhere I go. Sorry didn't think I was being confusing on this one. My bad.

Maybe it's fate. Or maybe . . . He's a stalker. Really, it's 50 / 50.

I really don't see the issue. You seem to like him. He knows your profession, heck his sister and ex were providers so you should have a guy who understands. He's good looking. If he's rich with a 10 inch dick it's just not fair. You started the thread so I'll be nosy and ask. What's preventing you from pursuing it?

Jessica Jade · 06-10-2014, 03:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Barrymccockinner

Maybe it's fate. Or maybe . . . He's a stalker. Really, it's 50 / 50.

I really don't see the issue. You seem to like him. He knows your profession, heck his sister and ex were providers so you should have a guy who understands. He's good looking. If he's rich with a 10 inch dick it's just not fair. You started the thread so I'll be nosy and ask. What's preventing you from pursuing it?

I have a lot going on and really need to just focus on me for the time being. (Good one about rich and 10 inch dick. No he's on welfare with a 1 inch dick

)

ibupro01 · 06-10-2014, 03:48 PM

Don't over think it. If it happens it happens. The more you guys hangout, the more you will want to see him or avoid him. The problem will fix itself. If you really start to like him you will want to focus less on yourself and more on him. If you are not ready to focus on someone else you will start to avoid him. If you want to make the story hotter, change the word "him" to "her".

Jessica Jade · 06-10-2014, 03:55 PM

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Originally Posted by ibupro01

Don't over think it. If it happens it happens. The more you guys hangout, the more you will want to see him or avoid him. The problem will fix itself. If you really start to like him you will want to focus less on yourself and more on him. If you are not ready to focus on someone else you will start to avoid him. If you want to make the story hotter, change the word "him" to "her".

Oh I have a "her" story for you. Remind me next time I see you.

Guests021916 · 06-10-2014, 04:19 PM

Wait!!! what's wrong with a 1 inch dick???

Jessica Jade · 06-10-2014, 04:28 PM

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Originally Posted by diddleman

Wait!!! what's wrong with a 1 inch dick???

Nothing as long as you can use that tongue.

(And not on welfare)

spankmaster · 06-10-2014, 05:01 PM

Maybe the Matrix is real and he's just part of your program. Take the blue pill.

ElisabethWhispers · 06-10-2014, 05:16 PM

No guts. No glory. I kindof like that philosophy.

However, if he lives fairly close to you, you'll have to weigh in the "stalker" issue (which I think that I understand) and the whole "we run into each other all of the time" issue in case this relationship, or whatever it is right now, goes way South.

Or just go for it. Then have a REALLY good Plan B in case the friendship goes awry.

Good luck. He sounds like he makes you feel a bit tingly. Or something else rather wonderful. Seems a shame to not explore the possibilities.