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MsChayse · 06-12-2011, 05:11 PM

So today I had a gent visit me. As things heat up & I proceed to explore his gentiles, I discover gentile warts. At least a half dozen & VERY large & obvious. Out comes the condom, for a CBJ. No complaints. At the end of the session, he picks up the donation & begins counting. I inquire, "what are you doing" His reply, "your website advertises BBBJCIM & I got a CBJ. I should only have to pay 1/2 the donation." I explained that was unacceptable for him to expect me to do anything uncovered when he has gentile warts, & he still owes the full donation. He threw it on the dresser, & said he would not be returning. Fine with me. I would have DNSed him anyway as I am not interested in risking the condom breaking, so on, & so forth.

My question is, was I wrong to refuse a discount? What would other ladies have done under these circumstances? My instincts told me to address the issue immediately, & end the session all together. I didn't want to embarrass him, or make him angry or hurt so I ignored those instincts. Aka: my BFF. Thanks in advance for your input.

charlestudor2005 · 06-12-2011, 05:26 PM

I think you should have turned him away. How dare he risk you & everyone else in hobbying with active warts.

Since you went ahead with the date, he doesn't get a discount. He knows the donation amount when he books. And YMMV is pretty standard. Given the situation, he shouldn't have expect the BBBJ. Covered was the most he should have expected. You could have given him a discount w/ a HJ. LOL

LAVixian · 06-12-2011, 05:30 PM

Hell no, lol. No discount girl! I would of high tailed it outta there as soon as I'd seen it. I'm with Charles, he should be ashamed of himself. Damn.

Britttany_love · 06-12-2011, 05:32 PM

Me personally there is no way in hell I would see him.... cover or not that just not safe. I would have turned him away and put a heads up in the ladies room about the gent. If he has no problem seeing someone with warts present imagine the other stds he could have.

BigBaldBlk · 06-12-2011, 05:33 PM

I think you should have told him that his date would be covered b/c of the warts. Pretty uncomfortable conversation (I know). At least then, it would have been addressed, versus the awkward convo at the end! BTW, dude should have known better!

littlemissk27 · 06-12-2011, 05:48 PM

No discount. Not even close. I'm going to go ahead and assume that the bj lasted more than a few seconds

SO- he had plenty of time to stop you and say hey, I want this uncovered, or something to that effect. He went through with it! If it was really that big of an issue for him, he should have discussed the discount BEFORE he got his rocks off. Even if he HAD said something though, I still wouldn't have given him the discount. I personally wouldn't have even gone through with any activities, but that's just my personal opinion. Too big of a risk for personal safety/cleanliness. Stand your ground girl, there are plenty of other men that will want to spend time with you, that are CLEAN and SAFe

wildwooly1 · 06-12-2011, 05:51 PM

1st off if you have some type of disease or STD you should let any partner know up front before sex is an option and this includes the RW or HOBBY and i would even carry it as far down as a common cold.
If you have any type of problem and it may endanger your partner by contracting it.. from a cold to HIV they should know and it should be common courtesy on small things like a cold or flu that someone knows and it doesnt get passed on.
Who gives a damn about someones feelings when it endangers your health.
This guy should be reported and other providers made aware that he is not participating in safe sex.
not only should he not of gotten any discount he shouldnt of been let in the door!!

JahiaraQ · 06-12-2011, 05:55 PM

You are better than me. I would have cussed him out put him out and posted an alert .He should not be risking people's health and hobbying with stds

kcain1971 · 06-12-2011, 06:04 PM

Ur definately not wrong by demanding full compensation He's lucky you risked an std by offering a cbj. What the hell is he thinking?

BabyDallass · 06-12-2011, 06:12 PM

Sometimes we put up with way too many things in the hobby to try and please, and this was one of them. He is lucky that you even seen him after you seen that, Let alone have enough nerve to ask for a discount. He was wrong for that move, you did the right thing.

ralph lauren · 06-12-2011, 06:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Britttany_love

Me personally there is no way in hell I would see him.... cover or not that just not safe. I would have turned him away and put a heads up in the ladies room about the gent. If he has no problem seeing someone with warts present imagine the other stds he could have.

Exactly!!.. I cant believe u even saw him after the fact, u shouldve kicked him in the nuts!! And told him ralph lauren said get the F**K outta here!!

Sensia · 06-12-2011, 06:15 PM

"Condoms (if used with every sex act, from start to finish) may lower your chances of passing HPV to a partner or developing HPV-related diseases. But HPV can infect areas that are not covered by a condom—so condoms may not fully protect against HPV."

See link for more info http://www.cdc.gov/std/hpv/stdfact-hpv-and-men.htm

I don't understand why some men can't take the time to inspect themselves regularly and go to a doctor if they have any type of abnormal changes with regard to their genitals. The warts can be easily frozen off. It is not painful to do this.

To the OP, put out an alert on providerbuzz.com, and get on other boards like National Blacklist etc and put alerts there too. You can put an alert in the ladies PR area to and let the ladies know who this guy is.

Bobave · 06-12-2011, 06:18 PM

so you guys are all incensed about gentile warts, would you have been so inflamed about Jew warts?

hahaha - sorry, couldn't resist

charlestudor2005 · 06-12-2011, 06:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Bobave

so you guys are all incensed about gentile warts, would you have been so inflamed about Jew warts?

hahaha - sorry, couldn't resist

I'm sure this would have come up sooner had not the topic been so serious.

Still Looking · 06-12-2011, 06:33 PM

Genital warts can be removed. I would never think to see a provider or any one with them. Go to the doctor and get them burned off. Eight weeks later you’re back in business. Then stay away from the dam source! Discount shit, how about hazard pay and or your a dumb ass, gratuity!