class & the hobby??

[DallasRain]

Where has the "class" gone in the hobby world??


I have had some "strange" instances come up this week with several other providers who I feel could use a class on class.

I may not be the smartest gal here or the most elegant..but dammit i do carry myself with some dignity and respect!

I refuse to stay at "ho" motels {Palace Inn is NOT a palace!}/ I don't take cellphone pics with trashed out rooms/I try to be helpful to everyone and not create drama/I show discretion by respecting my client's privacy/I dress to impress/I work hard to create an inviting and fun atmosphere for my sessions.

You have two choices in this hobby---you can be a provider/escort.or you can be a "ho".


There are so many resources out there for ANY new girl starting in the hobby! {way more than I had when I started}

[Texasquest]

+ 1000000

[ArisRose]

I love those ho-motel blankets in the showcases.

[DallasRain]

Originally Posted by RandomBlkChick

I love those ho-motel blankets in the showcases.

amen! You can always get a client to take your pics....and carry a nice sheet or blanket for the background!


I can stay in a 3 or 4 star hotel for the same price,and sometimes less,than those crackerbox hotels

{I just stayed in a 4 star hotel in Des Moines for 60 bucks a nite....and in Dallas I stayed in a 4 star for 49}

[ArisRose]

Originally Posted by DallasRain

Where has the "class" gone in the hobby world??

Ok, time for a more serious answer.

Class has never left the hobby. But the ho's are pouring in, lol.

Before the internet age, if you wanted to buy some high class companionship, lol, you picked up the Yellow Pages and called an escort service. These professional agencies did have a criteria of what a lady had to look like (no arm sleave full of tats, no missing teeth, no BBWs, no midgets).

If you didn't have high class money you went to a strip club and crossed your fingers that you would get lucky.

If you didn't have strip club money you just rolled down 1st Ave N and picked up a street walker for $10 BBBJ

If you wanted an UTR GFE multi-hour overnite date you just went down the street to the single mom on welfare after you cashed your check on friday.

If you needed a T-girl you had to go to the gay club.

If you needed a guy you had to go to the adult bookstore.

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Now since everyone and their dog can access the internet everyone with a hole who wants some money is now a courtesan. Instead of everyone being in their own place we are now all grouped together.
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[rcinokc]

Originally Posted by RandomBlkChick

Class has never left the hobby. But the ho's are pouring in, lol.

That pretty well sums it up.

[Guest032213]

I agrree to the fullest!!!! class has left, and ho's n pimps are taking over the site- I for one have came a long way in the last few years - and never ever did i live like a salvage in my down days- but for what its worth Ladies, lets just focus on us and not worry about the dowside of the hobby, we know who we are and lets set forth to sail for better days ahead- Dallasrain ur my lady! Huggs LEXUS

[cinderbella]

Dallas, I agree with you completely! For those who have not had the pleasure to speak with her, Dallas is by far in my opinion the most intelligent and provider friendly person I have encountered. I thought I was intelligent, she is MENSA intelligent. (yes there are other intelligent and helpful ladies here but she is my vote for #1).

I am older and have only 2 years experience providing. I have a very nice incall location and I am
an unusually attractive, intelligent and stable female as far as providers go. I don't advertise alot and I try to respect my clients privacy by not contacting them if I missed their call. My problem is I have trouble figuring out how to make a website. I have a domain name and host but cannot seem to figure out the logistics. Dallas Rain has a good one and I am jealous. I don't care for the free, one size fits all types of sites. I'm not willing to pay big bucks right now to have someone help me out.

I try to make my clients feel safe, comfortable and unrushed. I am a naturally classy person and have lead a good life. I am responsible, healthy and sane. Fortunately, most of my clients are too and they treat me as well as I treat them and I have made many friends. Unfortunately some guys think we providers are little more than doormats and they push their luck too hard. That's when I show them the door and have no trouble waiting for a better offer to come along. I am completely independent and only take clientelle of a certain age and character.

A provider has to be willing to say no until a client meets her standards. Sometimes it's feast and sometimes it's famine.

[EasyParcheesi]

"It's all the ho's pouring in" says it all.
$50 specials on backpage that end up with the guy getting robbed, craigslist ho's, social media ho's

[Tiffani Jameson]

Originally Posted by RandomBlkChick

Ok, time for a more serious answer.

Class has never left the hobby. But the ho's are pouring in, lol.

Now since everyone and their dog can access the internet everyone with a hole who wants some money is now a courtesan. Instead of everyone being in their own place we are now all grouped together.

And there you have it, people!

Like I say, those that know better do better.

[Tantalizing Tia]

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+1 million

I hear Back Page has been sold and the adult entertainment section is going away....I hope so...

[Guest071313-5]

Lol, she said everyone with a hole wants some money.

+1 RBC

[Gucci]

In the time that I've been on this site I've noticed more and more backpage girls trying to change over and call themselves " providers " and personally I've run across my share of fake picture, old picture using females. It's a waste of my time to go see someone who has used a picture that CLEARLY isn't them an if it is them the picture is old and they are about forty pounds heavier yet they are " working for reviews " ! If you're going to do something do It right, take the time to make the bed, get your girlfriend to take the pictures for you, because the bathroom photo taken with the cellphone with all your hair products on the counter went out with MySpace !

[Charlotte Carrington]

But true. Money cant buy you class.

It is earned and to be well respected in this business, is time and an honest reputation.

There are alot of Ladies and Gentlemen that will try and take that away from you, but honesty and perseverance will prevail.

Just be true to who you are.

[jaydalee]

+1 on what charlotte said money does not buy you class.
Some people that are in this business do not treat it as a business and that is the big difference.
Some are just in it for the quick buck or have someone behind the scenes pulling the strings.
I know some people who are well-off and their attitude stinks.
I know everyone has to start somewhere but the image you protect comes through to gents and everyone else in this hobby.A provider does not need to have ultra glammed up photos that cost a lot of money they can take some candid pics with a digital camera.Or ask a friend to take some pictures.

Whatever a provider's price point is her business but some of these people really need to stop.
I am a member of a site that is predominately used in the Bay Area even though they have other cities as well there and some of the ads are just poor taste.Then gents call these ads of course they have a bad experience or get robbed and still try the girl again!
That site is also famous for providers stealing pics ot other providers and using them as their own.
If you see a photo that you know is high end and a provider is advertising 80 specials that should be a red flag.