Will try again

[heidilynnla]

Try again

[April Cox]

I don't know any provider that can lift 400 pounds and is stacked like fabio!!!

He's a great writer also. And you nailed it Heidi, he does have more respect for the ladies than most. The rest of these guys may could learn a lil something.

[jl11]

I didn't even drink last night but am feeling the sudden urge to vomit.

[chellachella]

Heidi sheesh, wtf is up with the emotional roller coaster? I thought you had balls, and now worried about respectful or the lack there of. What would you expect out of men who cheat on their wives or girlfriends with hookers? If they had any respect for anyone at all then you would be broke. Just do the deed and remember they are only a dollar sign, not a potential mate.

[heidilynnla]

Why are you mother fuckers all up so early? J-feeling is mutual, go play. April, EEG shush cause he's your cheerleader, Chella Stfu.

[chellachella]

Heidi chick seriously, step away....or is this Heidi, its out of the norm for you. Has your account been hacked?

[jl11]

By the way, for anyone that missed out on the op's original title of this thread, it was, "Is Arverni a provider".

[mriley000]

@jl11. Link?? Cause I am waaaayy out of the loop on this one. I have no idea what the heck this thread is about and dont seem to see a thread by that titlle.

[jl11]

That was the original, well really subject. The thread title was "poll". The subject from the op was to poll if Arverni is really a provider.

[Arverni]

Originally Posted by jl11

By the way, for anyone that missed out on the op's original title of this thread, it was, "Is Arverni a provider".

No I'm not a provider! LOL

I've been working every single day for the last two weeks and haven't had a whole lot of time to read up on ECCIE. I have no clue what this thread was about.

If it's about respect for providers though - well, I don't know if I have more than most other guys - but I DO have a lot of respect for them.

Yeah I know that SOME providers look at us guys as commodities ... I think I can usually sense that though, and I just don't go back to see them.

The "universe" of escorting encompasses a whole spectrum of girls - some of them not so nice. However, i try to keep myself limited to the spectrum of ECCIE ladies who are doing it for the right reasons.

I know people call me a "White Knight" ... but my opinions are honestly mine and I don't fabricate them in order to get the girls to like me and give me good deals or freebies. In fact, I have never taken a freebie from a girl (non was ever offered) and I've never taken a "special" - and I always tip. I would rather hobby a bit less and pay more - because I genuinely believe, with few exceptions, that you get what you pay for.

When I show up for a date I just want the girl to make me feel like I'm her man for a few hours (and I always do multi-hour appointments because I don't like feeling constrained by the clock). There's more to sex involved in that - it's the talk, the way she looks at you or rubs your back when she's listening to your problems.

I believe that providers are the most liberated women in the world - and the smartest because they understand men and the whole male/female dynamic.

There's a girl that comes into the bar that I work in - she is not an escort but she wants my ass with a passion. However, she knows that, due to my circumstances, I can't commit to her and what she really needs is a man in her life - she'd be wasting time with me and I'm not about to take advantage of her. She's a single mom and she's running low on money because she's unemployed. I'd gladly PAY her to spend time with her - something I KNOW she'd like to do anyway - and it would help her with her house note and other bills.

But I'm not offering her money to do that because she'd get offended - and I think that is just plain silly. Women are a prize ... men are supposed to sacrifice something to be with them. If you can't offer them commitment - then monetary compensation for something that is really easy for them to do just seems completely logical to me and I don't know why "straight" girls have such a hangup about accepting this.

This is why I am so thankful for the enlightened women on ECCIE. They UNDERSTAND the lay of the land between men and women. Additionally, I just LOVE women and I love when they spend time with me - and I'm thankful there are girls that will do it with me. I don't think I'm that hot - I routinely see girls I think are way out of my league ... so I'm pretty lucky.

If this is what I believe ... then what's wrong with me SAYING it? I know for a fact that I'm not the only guy who feels this way - because I have spoken to providers who constantly talk about the wonderful guys they have as clients. Something about male egos though ... I guess a lot of us have a hard time expressing a "softness" here ... we have to, instead, say macho things like "find 'em, fuck 'em, forget 'em". I am not a smart guy ... but I am a big guy and when I walk into a room people know I OWN it. Because of this - I've just never felt that I needed to act really macho. Just ask April Cox - half the time I visit her I'm wearing a pink shirt with lime green crocs! LMAO!!

Add to that - the fact that the ECCIE ladies provide this service under the constant threat of LE - or abusive or violent clients. Add to that - the fact that any violence committed against a sex worker will be ignored by LE. These women do not enjoy equal protection under the law like the rest of us do - AND THAT IS FUCKING WRONG!!!!

So yeah, ECCIE ladies are SPECIAL and I'm thankful for that - and I want them to know their efforts are understood AND APPRECIATED.

MORE OF US GUYS SHOULD DO THIS. Yes, we thank them with the donation envelope - but it's still nice to let them hear it come from our lips or keyboards.

[heidilynnla]

I was gonna post a poll..is Averni a provider? I went to delete it and start over because I couldn't find the poll option from my phone. Before I fixed it, I already had responses.
Welcome to my train wreck of a thread.

Originally Posted by jl11

That was the original, well really subject. The thread title was "poll". The subject from the op was to poll if Arverni is really a provider.

[heidilynnla]

I don't really think he is a provider, btw

[April Cox]

I've always been nice to u Heidi. Who pissed in your cornflakes? I know it wasn't me, so I'd appreciate you not being an ass to me!

[April Cox]

Well said Arverni!!!

[keri2114]

+111 Arverni.. I'm one of the providers who's met some really great guys doing this & for that I'm grateful but it would be nice if more men thought the way you do.