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Eva Damita · 07-20-2014, 09:17 AM

We all know it's rare to find that provider that REALLY, REALLY knows how to suck a cock - I'm talking having everything such as charisma, creativity, endurance, breathing, suction, saliva, pace, etc. all rolled up in ONE. I'm talking even knowing the structure of a penis to execute an excellent BJ. I'm talking experience with "training" endurance sessions ( shoutout to Rhino) at hours at a time.

We also know that a lot of providers focus on just Deep Throating, a great ability within itself, while others focus on Technique ( which includes all the italicized) ...some do both (ahem)...

Which one is most important to you and makes or breaks a session if you had to choose one over the other? Some guys get off on gagging a lady, others enjoy the thoughtfulness to sucking a cock good.

Ladies, which category do you fall in or enjoy the most ( I expect to hear a lot of "boths", but even if hearty at both, there is surely a strength at one more than the other)?

Thoughts Please ( we'll assume there is simultaneous ball play, licking and sucking)

Cockalatte...ya hear me?

no glove no love · 07-20-2014, 09:46 AM

Good suction at a fast pace, and don't stop til it's done

Y0yoY0 · 07-20-2014, 09:50 AM

I had an SO that is still my best BBBJ to date, but she couldn't DT. Given a choice, however, I'll take a well executed and very loving/purposeful sucking!

One thing that happens a lot with civilians and high volume girls is that it's obvious that they don't like it and/or are just checking it off the list. It sucks when you can't just relax and enjoy it without worrying about her suddenly stopping or "getting tired" right when you're about to blast! .... and I know you girls can understand how terrible that is when a guy is going down on you as well

Eva Damita · 07-20-2014, 09:53 AM

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Originally Posted by Y0yoY0

I had an SO that is still my best BBBJ to date, but she couldn't DT. Given a choice, however, I'll take a well executed and very loving/purposeful sucking!

One thing that happens a lot with civilians and high volume girls is that it's obvious that they don't like it and/or are just checking it off the list. It sucks when you can't just relax and enjoy it without worrying about her suddenly stopping or "getting tired" right when you're about to blast! .... and I know you girls can understand how terrible that is when a guy is going down on you as well

No bueno...the checking off the list attitude!

During DATY, I tend to cum fast the first round, so the second DATY round, I need my Lover to relax, and savor me

MrKlean · 07-20-2014, 11:09 AM

NEVER stop the BBBJ until told!
The little head should exit the mouth limp!

A lady's hands should only be used to cup and caress his ass or to play with her kitty!

NO HANDS, just mouth and lip service!

Eva Damita · 07-20-2014, 11:15 AM

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Originally Posted by KRiggins

NEVER stop the BBBJ until told!
The little head should exit the mouth limp!

A lady's hands should only be used to cup and caress his ass and or balls or to play with her kitty!

NO HANDS, just mouth and lip service!

Taking notes for when I suck your cock again

TexasDave555 · 07-20-2014, 12:09 PM

Good suction and a steady pace with lots of tongue massage on the shaft and head, especially the bottom side. Nothing quite like the feeling of a full engulf with the entire tongue on it from bottom to top with a full swirl on the tip then back down again. Do that with a PM and tonguing of the sack and I'd be in heaven.

Sir Lancehernot · 07-20-2014, 12:49 PM

Just a few random thoughts that I'm too lazy to string into a coherent essay:

I've had very few truly memorable blowjobs. Most providers do seem to look upon them as a necessary prelude to an FS encounter. They check the box and move on. There's nothing particularly wrong with that, as long as there's a certain skill level and attention to detail involved, but it also suggests that most providers think that putting your dick in their mouths is good enough, and that few will make the effort to improve that part of their service.

Some notes from those memorable blowjobs:

My first hobby CIM came from a woman who was one of a rare breed, a swallower in the late 90s. One of the reasons I engaged her services was because of that, so I knew what to expect. Still, as the time approached, with me kneeling on the bed and her lying on her stomach facing me, I was warning her of what was about to happen. She didn't stop. At that point in my life, I was 40 years old and had had one CIM, that being one spurt when I forgot to tell the wife what was about to happen. I kept thinking, "She's gonna let me do it, she's really gonna let me do it," and, enhanced by those thoughts, the ensuing orgasm remains one of the most memorable. That same feeling has informed just about every subsequent CIM (still fewer than 10). Those of you who've gotten it all your lives and who regularly get it now probably won't understand how special the experience is for me.

Ten of 15 years ago, there was a woman who visited Dallas pretty regularly from either Oklahoma or Pensacola -- I never did get the story straight. She had a unique technique that absolutely drove me up the wall. While running her tongue along one side of my shaft, she traced the same path on the other side, using approximately the same amount of fairly light pressure, with a wet finger. Oh, my.

I'm not into gagging, and I can't recall ever having had a DT. Is that something I should remember? I'll thrust lightly if she doesn't seem to mind, but I generally fear that if I'm overly aggressive she'll stop.

Another memorable orgasm (er) came fairly recently. I was lying on a massage table, and she was kneeling, her rear just far enough away that, as she intended, I could not reciprocate and was forced to lie there and just enjoy. Her lips were ever so lightly wrapped around me, and she had the remarkable good sense to notice that my hips started moving, first slowly, then faster, and the even more remarkable good sense to keep doing exactly what she was doing, with no change. (Too many girls seem to thik that that change is good. Early on, yes; but as I get read to cum, I'm counting on the sensations remaining exactly the same. This was incredible.)

I go nuts when I'm watching a porn video where a girl starts with her tongue at the bottom of the scrotum and traces a path up to the tip, then repeats, then repeats, then repeats .....

I go nuts when I'm watching a porn video and the girl keeps lavishing some oral attention on a guy after he's cum. Post-cum head, especially with lots of eye contact, remains on my bucket list. Post-cum play, emphasis on play, or maybe substituting the word "eroticism," also looks like it might be fun.

There's one particular facial in porn that sticks in my mind. It was by Cris Taliana, in a video I'd sure like to find again. Most facials involve the girl acting like she wants the guy to cum on her face. I find that literally incredible. In this scene, however, Cris was telling the guy to cum on her face because she knew he wanted to; she was doing it for him, not him for her. I think that's something that facial-friendly providers could pick up on.

gimme_that · 07-20-2014, 01:08 PM

Yep just don't stop the flow (secure yet not to tight lips going past the tip)or the suction on the way up. If your neck is getting tired you are doing it wrong. When ladies say there neck and jaw is tired I always have a well placed pillow at the ready for them to lay on. That way while she sucks......she can rest a lil bit between her techniques.

Most though sadly just use it as an appetizer for sex. 15 minutes tops. Then theres the excuses.......

Good head to me feels like good pussy.......with a very active and controlled kegal with wetness.

I definitely agree with little to no hands except to cup the balls or caress them. Its stiff.....no need to hold it up for me.......I got this..........

pyramider · 07-20-2014, 02:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Eva Damita

No bueno...the checking off the list attitude!

During DATY, I tend to cum fast the first round, so the second DATY round, I need my Lover to relax, and savor me

They should always chew.

Phrodo · 07-20-2014, 03:01 PM

Don't really remember having ever had a bad blow job, although some have been better than others. Most importantly, I love it deep with no hands, except for some ball caressing, of course, and no quitting until the job is finished. Then I will be a happy camper.

sticknrudder1 · 07-20-2014, 04:02 PM

Slow, deep, some tongue play; come up for air every few minutes and give me sloppy DFK. Hands are ok as a sideshow, not the main event. Best used to caress the balls & taint or the abdomen. When I cum is when you need to get serious about sucking my cock. Stay with it then. Post-cum oral attention is the best!!!.

And do I even need to SAY this? The only indication I should EVER have that your mouth has teeth in it is when you look up and smile contentedly with a mouthful of my cum!!! When you've milked absolutely every bit of pleasure out of me and it is finally ok to stop, you are of course invited back up to deliver lots of sloppy, cum-flavored DFK.....

peevee0931 · 07-20-2014, 04:09 PM

a lot of head licking

Zhivago52 · 07-20-2014, 08:56 PM

Many good techniques; what I look for is someone who loses herself in the act and forgets I'm on the other end.

John Q. · 07-21-2014, 03:25 AM

I've found some women really enjoy sucking cock, it's almost like a fetish with them. Others won't do it for all the love and/or money in the world.

As far as receiving, I prefer it if a lady can use her hands. As long as it's wet and slippery, her hands give her better control, so then I can just relax and pump - literally fuck her mouth - and I don't have to worry so much about potentially hurting her.

I'm not into gagging or vomit. Please don't puke on me!

If she can go balls deep without gagging, that's what I call talent... But deep throat isn't necessary. If she knows how to use her hands, she can create the same sensation without it having to go so deep. Of course, if she can do both, that's wonderful...

As far as position, I like to lay on my back, and have her lay on her side, with her head on my stomach. In that position, she can grab my cock with one hand, and my balls with the other, maybe stick a finger in my ass if she's up for it. At the same time, I can hold her head with one hand, and reach behind her with the other to make sticky fingers. It can be fun to hold a vibrator on her clit while she sucks too.

It's very submissive... She gives me all three holes at the same time.

Of course, don't stop until lil' Johnny is completely drained, and if she really wants to impress me, she'll thank me and tell me she wants to eat like that everyday...