Thoughts?

[vman4tgirl]

I had been seeing a CL girl most of the spring and summer. I told her I was taking a month off for vacation.Now a few weeks after I got back ,I got a text asking how things were and asking if I wanted to hang out? I couldn't at that time. But I tried to chat like we used to and the answers came back short and vague. Then no answer at all.
Now I know I wasn't the only guy she "hung" out with. And she wasn't the most careful person as far as check to see if they were LE.
I am wondering if she got busted and that LE is going through her phone contacting guys asking to hang out? I haven't heard anything since. Should I try to contact her or just drop it and move on?
Any thoughts or insight would be appreciated.

[eyecu2]

Move on. Pussy is like a bus, another one is coming down the road in a cpl minutes

[berryberry]

She may have just moved on to another one or two herself

No big deal, there always are more out there

[cabot]

True, they come and go. If she hasn't disappeared this time, she will at some point in the future anyways.

That being said - a girl not getting back to you promptly after you've disappeared for a few months isn't really uncommon. It definitely doesn't necessarily mean that they're L.E. It might mean - she's got other priorities going on right now (other guys, a 'real' BF, work, ...who knows? who cares?).

Try giving her a call and setting up something soon and specific. Let her see that you're back in the mode to spend some cash, asap. Don't forget - this isn't a girlfriend, this is a CL girl who wants money. You put yourself into category of 'window shopper' for a few months. Show her that you're back into 'sugar daddy' category, and then see how she responds.

If she's moved on, you've lost nothing - now you know. If she responds well, then you've gained something - and now you know you're back in the game.

[blkstocking]

Good advice.

[sexymaid_69]

Cabot has some good advice.

Perhaps she thought you were just chatting her up and have no intention of booking? There are quite a few gentlemen who do just that and perhaps she's just gotten a bit tired of that game.

Next time you try chatting ask about getting together soon and see if her attitude changes..