We all say we know but..

[Fangotosand]

I recently looked on Tryst and saw a providers profile that I was familiar with. I was surprised to see her rate was not only now lower, but she also now wanted a deposit. She was really a sweet heart so I reached out to her as I was curious. In discussing with her she checked and found out she was hacked and locked out.. The phone and email addresses are now different in the ad too. The deposit request is clearly a scam to take our funds.

Eyes open and research.

[TheHolySong]

It would help people more if you posted the link of the scam ads

[xperienced1]

Would that be Nora by any chance? See her rate dropped 25 percent and asking for a 30 percent deposit? Haven't seen her in a while but no deposit was ever requested, especially one that high.

[Expresso Jim]

Same thing happened last week on the Tryst account of one of the premier providers in our area…Kalamazoo, Mi. In fact she fixed it after a local hobbyist discovered it and she was again hacked a day later. Not much security going on at Tryst or maybe an inside job. Sucks.

[Fangotosand]

Experienced 1 you are correct. I must have edited out the info when I posted. Expresso Jim in the house. I am pretty sure it would occur nationally. Likely many attacks come internationally looking for a quick buck. I see a familiar face and can get comfortable knowing they are legit and respected. Easy to forget some con is depending on us to take something for granted and leap without looking. It was just a reminder to me and I shared, Holy one, to encourage doing diligence even on the well known providers. It can happen to any of them.

[joyote]

the last time I saw Nora, she asked me
“why do you find it necessary
to stay so engaged on eccie?”

I told her
“it’s not much, but it’s all we’ve got”

you often see, on these pages…
“Research!”
“Do your research!”

well, you can easily spend
way more time than is reasonable
doing endless research

I think a p411 account is
more difficult to hack than most
Here is Nora’s…

https://preferred411.com/P96011

…I have not verified it, recently, but
if I wanted to contact her,
I would use that number

I could go looking
for her hacked Tryst account
but I don’t feel like it

[chloeblue83]

This happened to me on there and private delights and escort alligator they got me all at once I'm having ads put up for me in Las Vegas right now. Private delights got mad and said I can't have access to my account for 3 weeks. Tryst helped me get back on but they sent my email a special code my email rejected it and I can't find the code tryst can't help me and I'm stuck in limbo with that site. I'm lm trying so hard to not stress out but can't do much about it. Don't do deposits though is ny best advice!!

[chloeblue83]

We get spam all day literally in our emails and text a third of my messages and emails are spam from these sites trying to hack us it's all day everyday they don't stop

[Grimmy23]

It should go without saying on here, but we can never be too careful.

- Don't do deposits, ever. Even with an old reliable, I've seen cases of someone ripping off her ads and using them to collect deposits.

- Verification: I won't ever do anything other than a selfie or live video chat ever again. The one time I verified by exposing my identity (she wanted a pic of my drivers license) it came back to haunt me later. She was safe and it was a great session, but several months later she tracked me down and tried to blackmail me. Long story, she didn't get anything, and I found a way of shutting it down basically by threatening criminal charges for blackmail which is a felony in most states, but that's a risk I'll never take again.

- Always use a burner phone or at very least a burner text app.

- If it's an outcall, park a little distance away and take only what you need into the appointment and nothing else. Just the cash that you intend to pay her. Leave your wallet, ID, and if possible your phone safely locked up in your car. My last time I left my wallet in my hotel room and only had the cash, my ID, and my phone on me. I left my ID hidden in my rental car and parked about 2 blocks away in a busy strip mall.

- If it's an incall, presumably in a hotel room, lock away all of your valuables in the room safe. If there's no room safe, put everything in a hard to reach location, like the back of the top shelf of the closet. Don't leave anything accessible other than the cash for the services.

I know there are plenty of providers lurking on these forums who are great providers and trustworthy, but there are just as many if not more bad apples, and people who aren't even providers who pose as providers to rip people off. You can never be too careful.

[SweetNikki505]

I haven't had any issues with tryst or private delights. I do have the extra login security measures set on tryst and private delights does second measure of sending code to your email to login. Luckily, I haven't fallen victim to any of the phishing emails and texts Chloe mentioned. They love to pretend the are the site trying to redirect you to a site resembling the authentic site where they snatch login info & your password as you try to log on. Sometimes it's very hard to tell but I always check the senders email addy to make sure it's correct and they never are. As for texts I just block any coming in that claim they are the sites. Chloe I highly recommend that if you get back on tryst to activate the extra security measure. Basically you have to do a second verification to log in. I use the finger print so nobody can sign in to my account without my print. Well that's the idea anyway and so far so good. Also never respond to an email from the site unless it's from the site's domain. As for texts I don't believe any site will contact you that way but if so just go to the site and login to check, never follow any links. Just my two cents...

[Agent_69_NM]

Hello Chloe! I really want to try you but you never return my texts!

[joyote]

Originally Posted by Agent_69_NM

Hello Chloe! I really want to try you but you never return my texts!

instead of addressing the whole group…

maybe try a private message?

[SweetNikki505]

Grimmy you have outcall and incall transposed on your post. Outcall is where the provider comes to you and incall is where you go to the provider.
Also your session might have been great but that provider shouldn't be called 'safe' if she tried to blackmail you later. She was very unsafe if you ask me.

[Grimmy23]

Originally Posted by SweetNikki505

Grimmy you have outcall and incall transposed on your post. Outcall is where the provider comes to you and incall is where you go to the provider.
Also your session might have been great but that provider shouldn't be called 'safe' if she tried to blackmail you later. She was very unsafe if you ask me.

Yes, I don't know why I transposed incall and outcall. I know the difference well. I just didn't catch it in my own post. Thanks for pointing that out.

To clarify, the outcall escort I referenced seemed very safe at the time. She had a great personality during the session and I had a very nice time with her. Everything went flawlessly. I don't know what got into her, but several months later she went sort of wacko on me, texted me saying she had tracked me down and would post a bunch of damaging stuff about me on local social media. She actually did post a yelp review of my business saying the owner visits call girls. Of course I was able to contact yelp and have that taken down very quickly. I basically ended up having my attorney contact her and tell her to knock that crap off or we'd pursue criminal blackmail charges, and btw that is punishable by 5 years in state prison in her state for a first time offender. And since she posted on yelp, we could very easily subpoena yelp's records to get her IP address and track down her identity. It scared her enough that I never heard from her again. Yes, that makes her not safe, but it also highlights the reason why I will never go through any verification process that exposes my identity again.