Well, firstly, as a rule ECCIE does not remove reviews since they are fanciful prose written for entertainment purposes.
Secondly, the moderators cannot always be sure that someone claiming to be the lady actually is the lady in question. It is possible a competing entertainer is simply trying to limit competition and is impersonating the subject of the review. Impersonation has happened many times before.
You can directly communicate with the moderator (
vicinms) for explanation of rules and options, and to determine whether your request can be accommodated in some way.