"Hef" is probably the best example. The combination of charm and being loaded goes a long way.
Don't overthink it, and don't get all self-righteous about it LOL
I think about what I'd do for money all the time. Like, would I date/marry this or that old-ass-chick, just because she was rich?
There would have to be a mutual agreement that, no matter how I felt about her personally (and SOME feelings would surely develop over time), this would not be happening otherwise.
It's just like "the hobby." In the interest of "GFE," we all agree to politely ignore the fact that this is a business