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[PaytonJeanette]

Considering how slow the hobby is here in Jacksonville I will probably faint if more than one person reads this, much less PMs me a response...but I need to get a few things off my chest!

1. Why do 99 percent of the guys who contact me only want a qv and also want to haggle for 30 minutes to try and tip me such a low donation that it's insulting? I mean, that happens EVERYWHERE but not to this extent. I have ONE regular who always books an hour but everyone else just wants to do a '30 minute or less' appointment. Guys, I do enjoy what I do but it is very insulting and aggravating to be offered such a low amount for the amazing skills I know I have!

2. I find it hard to believe that almost everyone who tries to book with me has never seen any other providers and it is your first time! But if all of you really ARE newbies than please provide the screening info I ask for. Don't treat me like I'm crazy for asking a few questions...it's for my SAFETY!

3. I understand there are other boards out there but why does NO one participate on the discussion forums here? They can be fun and you get to know potential new providers/clients!

I'm not trying to sound rude or anything...just venting slightly. I know how much my time is worth and have lowered my rates considerably! I wouldn't walk into your place of employment and ask for a huge discount....it's just RUDE!

Ok, I'm going to bed now!

[rrabbit6926]

Sounds like you Jacksonville Hobbyist going to be loosing a provider who is doing her best to try and get better clients. Seems like too many lurkers out there that need to steep up to the plate.

[Drew Park]

You have mail, Payton...

[stevejones1969]

Since moving here from Texas, (where there were so many choices and never used back page) I have found the pics and info on providers less than honest. Her the big option is backpage which leaves much to be desired. Therefore I find myself doing short visits because I am usually disappointed upon arrival. The vast majority of gals frankly have not been worth the time or money I have spent. Go to Eccie in any major city in Texas and you will find it a very active board. This makes it easy to know before you go. Same with P411. A very good board there but rather poor here. And I will be very honest, I find the gals here to be way overpriced compared to what I came from. Some gals really have a high opinion of themselves. Now if they backed it up with good service then i am all in. Unfortunately it is not typically the case.

[potus]

This thread got me thinking about the hobby. The hobby is different here in the southeast compared to other areas of the country. The number of ad posts per week on this board is a lot less than daily ad post on other regional boards in other areas of the country. I fell your pain Payton, my experience here in Florida has been slow going too.

[stevejones1969]

Originally Posted by PaytonJeanette

Considering how slow the hobby is here in Jacksonville I will probably faint if more than one person reads this, much less PMs me a response...but I need to get a few things off my chest!

1. Why do 99 percent of the guys who contact me only want a qv and also want to haggle for 30 minutes to try and tip me such a low donation that it's insulting? I mean, that happens EVERYWHERE but not to this extent. I have ONE regular who always books an hour but everyone else just wants to do a '30 minute or less' appointment. Guys, I do enjoy what I do but it is very insulting and aggravating to be offered such a low amount for the amazing skills I know I have!

2. I find it hard to believe that almost everyone who tries to book with me has never seen any other providers and it is your first time! But if all of you really ARE newbies than please provide the screening info I ask for. Don't treat me like I'm crazy for asking a few questions...it's for my SAFETY!

3. I understand there are other boards out there but why does NO one participate on the discussion forums here? They can be fun and you get to know potential new providers/clients!

I'm not trying to sound rude or anything...just venting slightly. I know how much my time is worth and have lowered my rates considerably! I wouldn't walk into your place of employment and ask for a huge discount....it's just RUDE!

Ok, I'm going to bed now!

Maybe because when I book for an hour and tell you that I might want to go for 90 mins you cancel at the last minute.

[rrabbit6926]

She might already have something lined up and can't adjust her schedule. It does sux to get cancelled last minute but sure beats a NCNS.

[stevejones1969]

I agree with the NCNS but I spoke with her two hours before hand and nothing was a problem at that time. Hey, tell me you will make it up to me. Ask me if later that night would be better. Something.......

[AubreyTate]

Hey, Steve!

I sent you a PM

xoxo,
Aubrey

[stevejones1969]

Thank you Aubrey I may take you up on that. I have been looking for a regular or two and have been rather disappointed in this town so maybe you are in my future.

Chances are I will still give Peyton another chance. I am from the second chance school but she will have some explaining to do and will need to show me she is sorry the next time.

[TheSpark]

I can testify to Payton being one of the best Jacksonville has to offer and worth a second chance. Heard only good things about Aubrey as well. A bit out of my normal range; but I'm sure I'll get there.

[luv2redfish247]

I've met with Payton and had a great time . And I've also been told I should give Aubrey a try. So I'm savin my lunch money for an extended visit next time I get down to Jax. What a beauty !

[George Spelvin]

I'm sorry you are having such a tough time Payton. I don't wish ill will on you and would like you to succeed as it would help the health of the Hobby in Jacksonville. Since I live a couple hours away I frequently come there for my fun.

After my initial contact with you started to blow up my phone with texts which was a big turnoff. After explaining that I could only come on my day off because working a 12 hour day wasn't conducive to a 4-hour round trip to see you yet you still would contact me to ask me to come over at midnight after work. When you didn't have an incall in Jax you offered to come to Gainesville and have your Gainesville friend join us but I had to pay your travel too. The $$$ were adding up for the both of you considering it was an incall to your friend's place. And all I really wanted was a date with you.

While you have some very nice reviews and are a good looking young woman my attraction waned when you pressed me so. So it goes both ways. I know guys can be such jerks & flakes and give you the runaround and I'm sorry for that. However, maybe because you weren't doing well as you had hoped in Jax you saw a glimmer of light with me but your actions turned me off.

I wish you luck, hope that business picks up for you and that both Providers and Hobbyists will learn from this thread to respect one another.

[fishguy717]

Originally Posted by PaytonJeanette

Considering how slow the hobby is here in Jacksonville I will probably faint if more than one person reads this, much less PMs me a response...but I need to get a few things off my chest!

1. Why do 99 percent of the guys who contact me only want a qv and also want to haggle for 30 minutes to try and tip me such a low donation that it's insulting? I mean, that happens EVERYWHERE but not to this extent. I have ONE regular who always books an hour but everyone else just wants to do a '30 minute or less' appointment. Guys, I do enjoy what I do but it is very insulting and aggravating to be offered such a low amount for the amazing skills I know I have!

2. I find it hard to believe that almost everyone who tries to book with me has never seen any other providers and it is your first time! But if all of you really ARE newbies than please provide the screening info I ask for. Don't treat me like I'm crazy for asking a few questions...it's for my SAFETY!

3. I understand there are other boards out there but why does NO one participate on the discussion forums here? They can be fun and you get to know potential new providers/clients!

I'm not trying to sound rude or anything...just venting slightly. I know how much my time is worth and have lowered my rates considerably! I wouldn't walk into your place of employment and ask for a huge discount....it's just RUDE!

Ok, I'm going to bed now!

You have mail. :-)

[fishguy717]

Originally Posted by fishguy717

You have mail. :-)

I see she read her mail, but I guess she didn't like it. :-(