You can always try
The Samaritan Experience. It is defined by walking in, leaving a donation, and asking her to take an hour for herself. Then, give her a hug and walk out.
The Pulp Fiction Experience (it kind of works out since you are AA). Have someone take your wife out on a date (letting her get carried away with candy is optional) while two white guys tie you up on a barrel. Wait! The fun doesn't start until someone commands, "Bring out the gimp".
Let me think of a few more for you. These are just a couple off the top of my head.
JJ