The urge, that lasts only a few hours :(

[Echeck]

Almost always the most fun sessions happens when I am super horny and other times honestly I am so-so on sex.

Perfect example was today at lunch time I started to feel urge and thought about at least going to a strip club. But I was work and couldn't just disappear...

So later in the afternoon, I tried make a few contacts to meet up in evening tediously on cell phone looking at P411 & Eccie. Alas, when I finally left work and headed to a strip club for Happy Hour my urge was fizzling.

At club staring at naked girls wasn't doing as much. By this time I got some pre-screening done. I noticed at this point I had get home in 2 hrs and all my interest just fell apart.

Back home now and just not feeling it to schedule something for tomorrow or later in week...

[LustyBustyGina38FF]

Ok

[Guest113018-1]

OP, don’t know your age but I’m 62 and the scenario you just described only gets worse as you get older. Many times I will have the urge but no time or plenty of time but the urge isn’t there. Getting old sucks.

[cage196]

Testosterone may help ya there . Go see a Doc and get tested. Then you can be horny and frustrated all day , like me LOL

[TinMan]

Or, the ladies could come up with some innovative ways to make us aware of their availability, including time and location. I was searching Friday afternoon, but couldn’t get a serious bite from someone close by that I was interested in. Same for Saturday morning. Even reached out to a HDH that used to work the neighborhood, and she ignored me completely.

[Guest113018-1]

TinMan, at the risk of being an idiot I’m going to say this anyway, you are aware of P411’s available now forum, no? I’ve used it in the past and it works fairly well. Not perfect but better than not having one.

[TinMan]

Yep. It didn’t work that day, or the next. Keep in mind that I was west of 360 and wasn’t interested in the few women that always make themselves available. I dunno...maybe that’s all there is on short notice on this side of town.

[rexdutchman]

Yup get old sucks, and sometime the issues with setting up just kills it .

[Sir Lancehernot]

Originally Posted by TinMan

Or, the ladies could come up with some innovative ways to make us aware of their availability, including time and location.

There are two immutable truths about the hobby: ECCIE will never change, and women will never break out of the mindset of, "If I post an ad, they will come." Pun not intended but unavoidable. That's pretty much the extent of their marketing.

I know some girls have their favorites, and that those guys sometimes get, "Hey, why don't you come see me" texts. Consider those the provider equivalent of Plan A. Now, after you've seen a girl a time or two, it's possible, maybe likely, that she'll know a few things about you, such as the general area you work in, what roads you take on your commute, and the general area where you live. If either your office or home are fairly near to her, or if you drive by her incall on your way too or from work, while you may not make the cut to be a Plan A guy, if she can at least tolerate you and your dick for 30 minutes or an hour, you're a prime candidate to be a Plan B or C during the lunchtime or commuting window.

That's just one scenario. More broadly, I'll bet a lot of guys would respond positively to a provider who sent a PM or text (gotta know whether texts are okay though) asking them to stop by. Even if it doesn't work that day, it'll plant the seed in the guy's mind and might get him to visit again before he had planned to. I think a lot of women underestimate the effect that a genuine-sounding indication of interest from a woman can have on a man's psyche and their business.

Just my 1/50th of $1, and worth what you paid for it.

[Teagenluv]

I have found that the best aphrodisiac is sucking on a man's cock and worshipping his balls while he plays with my large tits and responsive nipples and tells me about his hottest desires and fantasies. I think that makes all his hormones go way up and all he can then think about is fucking me into total exhaustion as his cum is dripping into my mouth and running down my chin on to my tits))))

[KingCobra36]

Originally Posted by Teagenluv

I have found that the best aphrodisiac is sucking on a man's cock and worshipping his balls while he plays with my large tits and responsive nipples and tells me about his hottest desires and fantasies. I think that makes all his hormones go way up and all he can then think about is fucking me into total exhaustion as his cum is dripping into my mouth and running down my chin on to my tits))))

I'm pretty sure I love you. At least I love what you say on the boards.

[pretty_mia]

I think its best to have some local ATF's numbers saved just for this reason. Maybe find girls that are local in your area and have them pre-screen you in advance and see if they are ok with last min appts. then if you are in this situation again you have some go-to girls ready to hit up and with luck timing will be great. I always have regulars hit me up same day!

[BLM69]

Originally Posted by pretty_mia

I think its best to have some local ATF's numbers saved just for this reason. Maybe find girls that are local in your area and have them pre-screen you in advance and see if they are ok with last min appts. then if you are in this situation again you have some go-to girls ready to hit up and with luck timing will be great. I always have regulars hit me up same day!

Yes!

Regulars are the best for last minute and services, I had to search and filter out the lazy hurry up and nut providers and keep a great line up.

[goodolboy]

Originally Posted by Teagenluv

I have found that the best aphrodisiac is sucking on a man's cock and worshipping his balls while he plays with my large tits and responsive nipples and tells me about his hottest desires and fantasies. I think that makes all his hormones go way up and all he can then think about is fucking me into total exhaustion as his cum is dripping into my mouth and running down my chin on to my tits))))

You always know just what to say.

And yes, waiting a hour between text responses during a "conversation" can be a real mood and deal breaker when trying to set a appointment..

[DFW_Ladies_Man]

I feel your pain. When im horny, I can't find shit. When I don't have time to do anything, my phone is blowing up. I've had a bad streak lately. I've had 7 straight last minute cancellations or NC/NS' that's right 7. One or 2 is bad enough...but 7! My dick probably thinks I'm fucking with him.