Fetish vs. GFE
Well I have finally decided to answer some long standing questions about the difference between fetish and GFE.
I have been in the BDSM and fetish play arena long before I was a provider and I get a lot of questions asking this:
1. Why are fetish rates different than GFE?
There are several reasons. 1) A girl doesn't need a lot of training to be a GFE provider. But any Dominatrix worth her salt has been trained by someone who knows what they are doing. You cannot read a book or watch a video on the internet and instantly know what you are doing. In fetish play, there are risks. As the dominant, you must be aware of the risks, and be able to minimize them for the safety of the sub. At any given moment, I am watching the breathing, heart rate, sweat, facial expressions, and body language ... no matter what I am doing. BDSM can consist of intense sessions that can seriously damage someone if the Dominant does not know what he/she is doing. Do you really want to see someone that doesn't have the experience but their rates are lower ?
Next.... in the GFE world, you really have little needs as far as equipment. A bed.. some condoms, maybe some lube and be clean and pretty. In the fetish world in order to be successful and prepared... you must have a large array of toys and tools. And for quality stuff, it is expensive. I have toys in my dungeon that is more than any one session or more. I have roughly 5 grand worth of stuff to ensure I offer a one of a kind experience. This is not including the small things like makeup, condoms, or bed. This is a niche. And not every girl out there can offer it and know how to do it. It costs a fetish provider more, so therefore... rates are not the same.
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