What's the real cost of a Female Escort?

[wildcat4fun]

This is why I think female escorts are the best value in the world for intimate adult companionship.

A typical date with a woman, that is as attractive as most escorts usually are, consists of some very expensive components.


The Average Cost of a Normal Date
Cleaning Your Car
$15.00
Tank of Gas
$30.00
Flowers
$35.00
Dinner w/ Wine or Drinks
$100.00
Comedy Club w/ 2 Drink Minimum
$80.00
TOTAL COST =
*$260.00

*Result = You get a HUG at the end of the evening, maybe a good night KISS and you may still have to play the game for 2-3 weeks (with how many more dates at the above cost) before you get in her pants!



You make the call....

Conclusion: Female Escorts are a tremendous value!

[aNameinGulfport]

don't need the tank of gas, 'cause if Mr. Happy isn't happy, the date person is going to need to walk home.

[pyramider]

Originally Posted by wildcat4fun

This is why I think female escorts are the best value in the world for intimate adult companionship.

A typical date with a woman, that is as attractive as most escorts usually are, consists of some very expensive components.


The Average Cost of a Normal Date
Cleaning Your Car
$15.00 $0 just open two doors and let the wind blow the car out
Tank of Gas
$30.00 $0 let her drive
Flowers
$35.00 $9ish buy flowers at Walmart or grocery store
Dinner w/ Wine or Drinks
$100.00 $24 drive thru at Whataburger and a box of Franzia
Comedy Club w/ 2 Drink Minimum
$80.00 $0 free tickets
TOTAL COST =
*$260.00 $33

*Result = You get a HUG at the end of the evening, maybe a good night KISS and you may still have to play the game for 2-3 weeks (with how many more dates at the above cost) before you get in her pants!



You make the call....

Conclusion: Female Escorts are a tremendous value!

Dang, you must be high maintenance. Clean the car? Gas? Flowers? Dinner and wine?

[kiki2012]

[Awesome41]

Sounds like a expensive date. My date night is a movie and waffle house. Sometimes i get lucky but most time i don't lol

[Road Lizard]

Originally Posted by Awesome41

Sounds like a expensive date. My date night is a movie and waffle house. Sometimes i get lucky but most time i don't lol

A movie?? You must be rich, especially if you buy a drink there.

[Pmon]

Even if you're married, intimacy isn't free. I don't know one guy who can sit on his ass, be a slug, contribute nothing financially to the relationship, and still get laid. No matter what your situation is, it's going to cost something to keep your wife/gf/so connected enough to want intimacy.

I agree with the lovely wildcat...the luxury of enjoying the company of women who (for the most part) know how to please a man and enjoy doing so is hard to beat, especially when to a large degree it's on your terms.

[Awesome41]

Originally Posted by Road Lizard

A movie?? You must be rich, especially if you buy a drink there.

lol no drink. get that at Waffle House.

[Melissa Madyson]

On the flip side of things...lol:

Date with client: hair salon @ least $45.00+
Nail Salon $25.00 +nails. $30.00+ toes, eyebrow wax $8.00

New outfit and shoes/heels $100.00 + depending on occasion/venue
Hotel room $100+

Total cost: $-308.00

Now if you see a provider who is "out there", lol here is HER COST:

Hair and nails $0.00 ( she doesn't care)
NOTELL ROOM: $35.00 night or hourly rate
Make- up $0.00
outfit: $0.00

total cost:$35.00

See the difference guys??: Good providers who care about themselves and you, go out of their way to impress you, and they always keep their appearance up because to them it is a lifestyle, or their way of living.

So the next time you guys choose to see a lady whether it is in real life or in a provider/client setting just remember to value her at the time she took to value herself.

Not all ladies value themselves enough to fix up themselves or care enough about you to try to impress you.

Just my .02 cents.
M.M.

[gentlemantoo]

A date and a session are two different occasions. Money spent for very different goals. A date is to have a good time in a non sexual manner. Dinner with good conversation, a few laughs, good meal. Comedy club, the fun continues,aughter, talk, friendship. And it is money well spent, good times. Men that date expecting sex as a reward have to see providers cuz they rarely get laid with their bad attitude and singleness of mind. Sex is not the goal if a date. Sex happens after dates when things flow well. Sex happens usually because I am a gentleman, fun, and do not expect nor do I push for it. She always gives me signals when she is ready for naked fun. I go on dates for a differebt type of fun from sexual. I see providers because I want a blow job and thats all. Two different types of fun, both types serve a purpose. But to compare is not an even playing field. If you like true intimacy and genuine and truthful fun go on a date, you will know for sure if the woman likes you and is into you. If you are looking for sexual relief see a prostitute, does not matter if she likes you or not, still get your fun.

[Road Lizard]

Gentlemantoo, I can't figure you out as in I have no idea why you are here. You look down your nose at the ladies but you still hang around. What do you want? Serious question.

Now as far these ladies, I'm going to let you and the whole damn world in on a secret...I've made actual friends with some of the ladies here. And, I've spent time with them that I didn't pay for, didn't have sex with and still had a better time than I would on a date. We've had meals together, they call me, I call them, we trade jokes, we help each other at different times, etc... and you seem to think they aren't capable of human emotions or contact. They are humans first, women second and providers somewhere way after that. Kind of like any other job. And that's what they do, a job. And as with any job, you excel by giving your best and even personalizing it, they are no different in that respect.

You are entitled to your opinion, no question there, but I do question what is your purpose here? To me it seems that somehow you don't believe that they are women, that they are only lowly 'whores' not capable of human emotions and compassion. And you are wrong. Before I was a moderator, I knew a number of these women as friends and we conducted ourselves as that. I have gone out with some as a date, others as a friend and it pisses me off that you think all they are capable of is 'sexual relief'. Some of helped me in ways you can't imagine, more than just sex, some ladies have helped me thru some rough damn times recently and they have done more for me than some of my life-long male & female friends.

Call me a 'White Night', call me an 'Ass-Kisser', call me whatever gets your rocks off but I stand by the women and the men I have met thru this hobby and I appreciate them as much as I do any other friends. Don't believe me? Don't give a shit.

[gentlemantoo]

Appreciate your response RL, I am here for the same reason most men are here to have sex and be entertained. Does that answer your question? I just do not lie or bullshit about it. I am honest and upfront. How is that offensive? Seriously, I would like to know. Only reason you and many others get angry with my comments is that they shatter the bubble of bullshit around this hobby. This thread speaks of why a man should see a prostitute instead of a real date. My response implies that it should not be one or the other. Where do you get that I do not think providers are not humans with emotions? Why is it a bad thing to say I pay for sex with providers? I research women to have sex with them, I do not know these ladies, not looking for a friend, but neither is she. So why is it offensive for me to say this truth? Why is that bad? Why do you contact prostitutes? To increase your list for sending out Christmas cards? Seriously. I think they are women, humans with all emotions and personalities, I just do not think they have emotions for clients including me and you. If you have more non sexial fun with providers than on real dates you might want to analyze that and figure out why, are you dating the wrong women? Or maybe you been seeing too many providers and you are thinking only way to have fun? That is for you to think about. I do not know. It is fun to go on real life dates for me and it is fun to get blow jobs from providers, why is that a bad thing?

[Pmon]

Gentlemantoo, I get what you're saying, but Road Lizard makes some excellent points that are too often overlooked in this hobby. Those of us who date do so for our own reasons. You have yours. We see providers for our own reasons, and you have yours. We don't need you to shatter any bubble of bullshit...we know what's going on. If you look at a provider as nothing more than a mouth for rent, then you're probably the ideal client for some ladies because you're right, some of them don't care about anything other than what lies in the folds of your wallet. But I've met too many ladies here who I consider to be wonderful human beings. They do care about their clients. None of us want any strings attached. We're not here to fall in love. That's why the financial aspect of this hobby is so important. But I can assure you that many of these ladies care a great deal about the men they see. That's why you'll NEVER hear me refer to any of them as hookers, whores, or any other pejorative.

[Road Lizard]

First, I've got to get this topic back on track and at the same time, answer something GM2 said and they are tied together.

This statement from him:"Only reason you and many others get angry with my comments is that they shatter the bubble of bullshit around this hobby." No, it does not shatter anything. It's your attitude that gets me going. For instance, I saw Angeleyez86 Saturday night and she dressed up for me(not her outfits, a real dress), wore high heels, clean and made me welcome and we had a good time together. Did I pay her? Of course I did but she gave me her best. I've had dates where they had to bring their kids because the babysitter didn't show up... not fun. and the "real" date costs about as much but with no reassurance of even a mildly good time.

The point is she put time and her own money into looking the best she could for me Saturday night and I appreciate her efforts. I appreciate all the ladies efforts here. Each one has to spend money on us before we ever spend a dime with them. Think about that part. You can say 'oh that's for every man she will see' if you want to be cynical. I look at the effort the lady puts in for each guy, that is the true value. And that's ones I prefer to see, the ones that care enough to present themselves in the best light possible. And they don't bring their kids along...that's worth at least $100 to me.

[BassCat]

I see both sides of this also. I have made and remained friends with many providers over the years. There are a few I have known for almost 20 years now. I have asked them what they really think of guys that pay for it and have been told countless times that we are looked at like pathetic losers. I can see it from their perspective. Then again I am not searching backpage looking for a wife of gf either so it kind of goes both ways. The hobby means different things to different people and thats fine. I dont look at or treat providers any different than any other woman. If your getting more areas of your life fulfilled in the hobby then good for you.