I am a ProDomme that travels between several states. I do not advertise much on this site as a ProDomme (but yes for fetish friendly) bc I don't want to confuse my GFE clients and I certainly don't want my submissive clients to get the wrong impression. To me, it is best to keep the two worlds separate and since I can't have two handles here, I do it by keeping the advertising separate. I know many ProDommes in FL, NY, TX, and NJ (the areas I travel) who feel the same way. One put it to me this way "I'm not a prostidomme, i'm a prodomme so why would I advertise on an escort board?". I understand where she is coming from but also completely understand why ProDommes find eccie to be a valuable resource.
There are quite a few resources outside of this board for ProDommes to advertise and eccie has their biggest markets in and around TX so I think that's why you find these areas more saturated with ProDommes.
It's also difficult on this board to pin down those that live the kink lifestyle fulltime and those that are just (excuse the phrase) a hooker with a paddle. ProDommes have to advertise along with the escorts as individual cities do not have a specific kink advertising forum and another realm does not allow advertising.
I have lived the kink lifestyle for 12 years and only in the past couple of years allowing those on the board to know this.
I guess one final note is that in my ProDomme business, there is NOTHING illegal that happens and so "clandestine" boards are not necessary. I know one lovely ProDomme that has a giant window decal on the back of her car advertising her services and another that buys advertising in major mainstream magazines.
In markets that kink is well accepted and out in the open, many of the prodommes are known through their classes and seminars. They are well known in their community and often work solely on referrals.
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