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Bellalovesamore · 01-29-2018, 10:13 AM

I just curious if other providers think about this.... personally I like seeing how I've made someone else feel.... I thoroughly enjoy playing.I understand why reviews are done but does it affect some providers self worth?

SxySpanishMia · 01-29-2018, 01:50 PM

My self-worth has nothing to do with the hobby world.

Since we are discussing self-worth through the hobby, my answer is that reviews can be positive or negative towards the provider and the reviewer, but reviews should not discourage someone's character or self-esteem.

If a provider can learn from a review by constructive criticism, she should look into that. Many times, reviews have comments that put down a provider, saying we sometimes have GPS. There are even comments that put down a client's choices on how they spend their money. It shouldn't concern anyone except the adult deciding to visit with someone they enjoy regardless of cost or activities.

In closing, the amount of reviews do not affect my self-esteem. What matters to me in this hobby are the gentleman that take the time to be with me and those are the people that matter. Everyone else is just a spectator, until they decide to CUM into my world.

All the best,
Mia

HoustonRiley · 01-29-2018, 02:05 PM

Any part of this lifestyle can effect your feelings of self worth.
You have to learn ways for you that keep you confident and sane.

Never let your abundance of reviews or lack of make you feel less of a woman.

thatdarlingone · 01-29-2018, 02:14 PM

I think if the provider lets the review affect her self worth then yes. I also love seeing how I made a client feel. It makes me love what I do even more.

Gotyour6 · 01-29-2018, 02:31 PM

I think you are confused with a business and a personal life.

Most I have met know how to separate them

I had a client melt down on me one minute and then we went to lunch the next minute.

It's just business
Reviews are just that as well.

Business worth on the other hand...

femalehobbyist · 01-29-2018, 04:41 PM

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Originally Posted by SxySpanishMia

My self-worth has nothing to do with the hobby world.

Since we are discussing self-worth through the hobby, my answer is that reviews can be positive or negative towards the provider and the reviewer, but reviews should not discourage someone's character or self-esteem.

If a provider can learn from a review by constructive criticism, she should look into that. Many times, reviews have comments that put down a provider, saying we sometimes have GPS. There are even comments that put down a client's choices on how they spend their money. It shouldn't concern anyone except the adult deciding to visit with someone they enjoy regardless of cost or activities.

In closing, the amount of reviews do not affect my self-esteem. What matters to me in this hobby are the gentleman that take the time to be with me and those are the people that matter. Everyone else is just a spectator, until they decide to CUM into my world.

All the best,
Mia

Perfect response! Self worth should never be based on this part of your life. Having a very full and happy life outside of this is paramount.

I appreciate my reviews on all the various boards and learn so much from all of them to help make me a better provider. I do not allow negativity of those that are not in my personal life to impact how I see or feel about myself.

pyramider · 01-29-2018, 05:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Bellalovesamore

I just curious if other providers think about this.... personally I like seeing how I've made someone else feel.... I thoroughly enjoy playing.I understand why reviews are done but does it affect some providers self worth?

You, and other posting providers, would make me feel warm and fuzzy if taint photos were posted.

Thanck the baby tebow no one's self worth is predicated on a review.

Bellalovesamore · 01-29-2018, 06:43 PM

Thank you ladies for the insightful input...

JohnnyYanks · 01-29-2018, 06:45 PM

I guess the gents don't count?

Ed Highlight · 01-30-2018, 07:01 AM

I think you may be a little confused (naive or have low self-esteem....duh!) - For the most part, the world's oldest profession is what you do, not, who you are!!

Or, maybe I'm confused (naive and/or just old!)....

sashabenjamin · 01-30-2018, 12:22 PM

Self worth and reviews are two different playing fields. If we were to equate self worth to reviews then we'd only be worth what each client thinks. Not even just clients because many men will choose not to see us based off our reviews. Equating self worth to reviews also means we're as good as a nut. LITERALLY.

This business calls for tough skin to make it. One MUST have an overflow of self confidence. We're literally selling companionship. Something that's given for free every second of every day.

Do not equate your self worth to reviews. I hope no one does. Reviews are for the sole purpose of letting clients know what's offered, the quality of service given and proof of legitimacy.

Even if a negative review is left. SHIT HAPPENS. There are men who don't read reviews, care for review boards nor write them. Don't put all your apples into one basket. For every bad/false review... there's A lot more positive ones.

Yes this is just business. But it's ok to feel under the weather, if you're not doing as well as you think you should.It's great to have a network of other SW's for advice, venting, etc..

You can follow me on twitter or instagram (:

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Originally Posted by Bellalovesamore

I just curious if other providers think about this.... personally I like seeing how I've made someone else feel.... I thoroughly enjoy playing.I understand why reviews are done but does it affect some providers self worth?

pyramider · 01-30-2018, 04:05 PM

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Originally Posted by JohnnyYanks

I guess the gents don't count?

The ladies know that my 1.3" of dangling death hardly counts.

yitzchak · 01-30-2018, 04:14 PM

I am literally a faggot

SxySpanishMia · 01-30-2018, 05:03 PM

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Originally Posted by pyramider

The ladies know that my 1.3" of dangling death hardly counts.

LMAO ...I don't know you, but your comments on taint photos, 1.3 Dangling Death, and your reviews are hilarious.

Glad to see some keep things light around here.

Cougarlicious · 01-30-2018, 08:57 PM

Based on how many reviews I get, Not really, But based on My Reviews on my self worth in this business,Absolutely. The reason why I say this is that reviews outlines and shines who I am in personality, appearence, cleanliness, performance and atmosphere , I take it seriously.
I was a waitress and worked for Corporate and I would get reviewed and evaluated all the time by customers and management team same things they look for is the same things hobby looks for, lol, appearence,performance,on time,hygeine, personality lol.....So yes self worth on my work lol I just like being a hot hooker rather than a server... lol better Tits I mean Tips!!