Multi-hour/overnight sessions

[rxram03]

I was going to post this in the Men's Lounge but decided to do it here to get both points of view. How often do you partake in this? I've thought about doing it before but stop myself because, well, I'd run out of things to talk about....then the remaining hours would probably be awkward silence (between the sex that is). I'm a quiet guy, even among friends I don't talk very much. I think I got all of my talking done when I was a child because I used to get in trouble at school for talking too much. Guys - do you like multi-hour sessions? Ladies - do you enjoy taking them or is it something that comes with the job but really it's not something you care to do?

[AbbyNicole]

Good questions! I've done both multiple hour dates and overnights. The few overnights I have done are with gentlemen I have seen for 1-3 hour dates several times before planning an overnight date. We had the opportunity to get to know each others likes and dislikes and genuinely enjoyed spending time together (not just part of the job). I did one overnight that it was our first time to meet. We met in chat and got to know each other there and then exchanged numbers and started texting and talking on the phone. I think we both would have preferred meeting for an hour or two first, but we live several hours apart, and in different states. It worked out well because we took the time to learn about each other for several weeks before our overnight date. It worked out wonderfully for us. With that said, it's not a bad idea to get to know someone and build up to that point to see if it's worth requesting multiple hours or an overnight. My point of view... I could not agree to an overnight if it would not be enjoyable for both of us. I hope that helps...

XOXO,
AbbyNicole

[TexTushHog]

Overnight, no. Multihour, absolutely. My favorite. As for what to do between rounds, two thoughts. First, I'm not a big talker in sessions. I talk for a living. A session is a time to relax, so I'm not one to engage in a lot if chit chat. But, having an intelligent provider IS an advantage for a muktihoir session. You will inevitably talk some, and the conversation is much more interesting. So if you want the conversation to be a cut above, "So did you see the football game on Sunday . . . .", that's a big help.

Second, and this is my number one piece of advice, BACKRUB! I'm not 18 any more and my recovery time isn't three minutes any more. And frankly, at my age, the backrub is just as welcome, if not more so, than the sex. Find a girl that gives a good back rub and doesn't feel compelled to rattle on about her problems with child support, her worthless new man, her car trouble, etc.

[Alysonjones]

^^^^ (: yesss. I always give back rubs to break the ice. It helps both of us relax!(:

[oldbutstillgoing]

Number one thing. Always do a regular session before a long one, especially overnight. For an overnight, plan. You don't have to do everything you plan but have some non-bcd activities planned in case you need to fill some time.

[Hercules]

Just finished a great overnight with a lady I've known for a long time. Watched some vids together. Shared some favorite foods. And there's nothing better then waking up at 3am and fucking.

Tried overnighters as a 1st visit twice. Both were disasters. Never again.

[Gentlemen Rendezvous]

Multi hour is great. Yet to do overnight ....

[oleguy]

Honestly, it depends on the lady, the chemistry, the surroundings and overall what your expectations are.

[Guest020720]

I stopped doing overnights and multi-hour due to having guys pumped with viagra or something. I'm not a sex robot.

I'm not opposed to them with a client I am familiar with. I just don't advertise them anymore.

I would just have to know I'm going to "click" with that person and that we have things to do and or discuss between playing, and that I'm not expected to play five times during the night. Part of the fun of an overnight is actually dozing off with the person you are staying with. Not seeing how many times you can fuck in a row. Unfortunately, I've had the latter many of the times I've done overnights.

I also need recovery time. Many of us do. I'm no spring chicken.

[pfmtony]

I like multi hour sessions. Bath play, wash each other. Take oil and lotion, rub each other down. Music.... Dance or just have her dance for you. Champagne, licking champagne off a hot body is imcredible. Spooning and talking, priceless. One hour is now my minimum and I prefer 90 minutes to two hours.

My so wont allow for overnights.

The only rule I now have is never waste a full on greek hard erection. No guarantees it will come back before time is up. once its that hard have her finish it somehow. I wasted an opportunity recently fir some bath play in a multi hour. Don't do that.

Outside of that enjoying a woman's body without intercourse can be a lot of fun.

[Guest062316]

Lol!!! But pfm Tony you smell so good now!!

[bored@home]

Originally Posted by pfmtony

I like multi hour sessions. Bath play, wash each other. Take oil and lotion, rub each other down. Music.... Dance or just have her dance for you. Champagne, licking champagne off a hot body is imcredible. Spooning and talking, priceless. One hour is now my minimum and I prefer 90 minutes to two hours.

My so wont allow for overnights.

The only rule I now have is never waste a full on greek hard erection. No guarantees it will come back before time is up. once its that hard have her finish it somehow. I wasted an opportunity recently fir some bath play in a multi hour. Don't do that.

Outside of that enjoying a woman's body without intercourse can be a lot of fun.

Originally Posted by Lolabrea01

Lol!!! But pfm Tony you smell so good now!!

I still can't help but imagine the "it puts the lotion on the skin" voice killing the moment.

[harry]

I've done many overnights and multi hour sessions and they are my favorites. But I've never done an extended session as a first time visit nor would I recommend anyone doing so. IMO there needs to be a "click" between the two of you for a long session to be successful and worthwhile. As TnT said, you can't fuck nonstop for hours on end. At least I can't anymore and so I need to be able get along and enjoy the conversation and company of the lady I'm with. Now that I think about it, there was one lady I saw for a multi hour session for the first time. It was with The CreoleLady down in Houston. But we exchanged a lot of emails and chatted on messenger enough that it was like meeting an old friend when I first saw her. It's been a couple of years since I've seen TCL and I sure miss her.

[gimme_that]

Originally Posted by tntangie

I stopped doing overnights and multi-hour due to having guys pumped with viagra or something. I'm not a sex robot.

I guess this is where the age limit some ladies have for certain client is immaterial. Lol

Originally Posted by tntangie

Part of the fun of an overnight is actually dozing off with the person you are staying with.

Yes cuddling and sleep would be cool from time to time. But dozing off with preset sleep "no touchie" "no fucky" times ain't exactly my idea of fun on an overnight either.

I myself would consider this comment coupled with other quotes you have as a lazy lay. Not saying you are lazy......its just an expensive $$$$$ nap. You want to be paid very well on an overnight to sleep. And that's cool. You figure if he's paid......he should be ok as he just wants to get laid. Nope I pay that big loot because I wanna knock boots. If I'm not sleep, exhausted, and sucking my thumb with empty balls........she's not talented and motivated enough for an overnight. At least your honest before hand on your service limitations......

Originally Posted by tntangie

I'm not expected to play five times during the night..........Not seeing how many times you can fuck in a row.

Different strokes for different folks. I don't like limitations when it comes to overnights. Luckily I have run into the right females for the most part who were accommodating and chameleon to what I wanted to do. That's why the cost is so much for the time as we are seeking a top notch pro. 3 to 5 bells MSOG is the normal amount of sessions I have on an overnight. Even if we got to dinner and going out......I still want 12 hours in the bedroom. 7 hours active (cuddling, massage, sex...all intermittently) 5 hours sleep (intermittently). Most times I book late and just do outcall with drinks and food in hotel though. I don't always wanna expose myself on dinner dates.....and its not always some ladies strengths.

If I'm erect and in the mood and I notice she has fallen asleep.......I don't want to have to think twice about whether a provider will accommodate my request for late night sex if I nudge her awake. That's cranky wife sex, or a real Girlfriend "not tonight" experience. If that was the case id just book different ladies at different times throughout the night. The allure of why I picked a particular provider is her dependability, stamina, creativity, and motivation toward sex and mutual pleasure......but most importantly my pleasure. I wanna feel overwhelmed. Some ladies have it....some don't. I guarantee you when your time is up....and she has slept through 3 to 4 hours of it.....she will leave timely when you time is complete. Might as well make the most of it as a client. Your worth it, so should she be......

[Guest100514]

If it's someone I enjoy spending time with then yes. That's the great thing about being compatible with someone... Comfortable silence!