Mutual Respect

[Guest062616-1]

I'm not understanding the lack of manners here on ECCIE. Not all of you men, but a good majority of you are literally ruining the hobby.

I had a client from ECCIE contact me for an appointment. I set it up with him earlier in the week and thought we were good to meet at 10am. I get on my phone at 9am to text this guy and confirm only to see that he has already texted me.

My last message between us was confirming and being good for our appointment. In addition to that, he also randomly sent me a text yesterday afternoon trying to see If I could see him then instead of this morning at 10am... I never responded because I don't have my hobby phone on me 24/7. I didn't see this or any other messages until this morning.

Instead of a "Good Morning, Are we still on for today?" like I usually get from clients, I got a very rude message not asking if we were still confirmed but instead asking if I always do this to clients, just make appointments and stop responding..... um wtf?? Then went on to accuse me giving away his appointment time to a regular....

This is an hour before our appointment. Note, he hasn't even given me the chance to show up, perform, or even confirm our appointment before making these hurtful allegations.

So I'm assuming that because I didn't respond to something at the moment he needed me to, that makes me a horrible person who your going to assume gave your appointment to one of my regulars??! That makes no sense.

I'm so offended. I'm not even going to respond to him anymore and YES I told him this, didn't just stop responding. I told him to kindly take his business elsewhere.

Screenshots available.


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I just think it Is really sad that you guys get light of one mistake a provider has made and consistently hold it over her head and try to talk about the matter when you have never met me and have no idea the kind of person that I am. Either way, this disrespect and verbal abuse will not be tolerated. I may be a provider, but I'm still a human being. I don't deserve the name calling, false allegations and assumptions you guys create and have thrown at me all the time. I furthermore won't entertain, respond or even read negative responses.

Same goes for messages that don't contain the simple screening requirements I ask for: if you can't take the time to read my requirements and send me what I ask for the first time, I'm not going to take the time to tell you what you need to do. If you want to see me, you will take the time to comply. I don't see why anyone should get upset about this though? It's a business. I experience the same shit every time I try to get a reference request and don't hear back from providers sometimes for days/weeks and sometimes not at all. It's annoying and frustrating, but it's something out of our control. We can't control if and when someone responds to us and we shouldn't care to. Just move on to the next. Don't blame me for your misfortunes.

Mutual respect is key. I respect my clients, I have gotten much better in all areas previously reported as unsatisfactory and my clients who have actually seen me and spent time with me know this to be true. This includes communication issues, tardiness, enthusiasm, and preparedness. So no need to bring up PAST problems anymore.

If I have wronged you, I've offered a discount to make it right. If I've denied you, that's your own problem and you should ask yourself and our references why. If you refuse my offers and want to continually troll my posts with hate, that's your problem and your wasted time. It doesn't affect me in any way and regardless of all the hate, bashing, etc. I've received, I'm still in business.

[boardman]

I respect you...
For that reason I'm telling you to let this end or it will not end well.
Well, that and I like your ass.

[tbone77494]

Don't take anything personally - in my time here I have discovered that both ladies and dudes can be total ass hats at times. Venting is fine but I'm guessing in time you will just ignore and move on. I'm also guessing that since you are young and hot that before long you will have a list of regulars that will take good care of you if you choose. Don't take any of this too seriously and you will be fine.

[mr666]

I'll admit I get impatient at times but I won't send rude messages.

[Guest062217]

EE - what you see is nothing compared to the previous antics by a handful of real A-hole troll tards who chased off providers over the past two years....what you see is the remnants of of the Houston eccie board which is now filled with a ton of girls who are barely a step up from BP...

The assholes are still around...they're just swimming around various parts of Eccie that you don't have visibility to...your thread may bring them to the surface...we'll see...

[WolfWhistle]

I think you are posting way too many complaints. Chill out a bit and serve the guys that really would like to see you. Get pass your past blunders by moving forward positively and eventually the guys will stop getting on your case.

[WolfWhistle]

Originally Posted by SNL9933

EE - what you see is nothing compared to the previous antics by a handful of real A-hole troll tards who chased off providers over the past two years....what you see is the remnants of of the Houston eccie board which is now filled with a ton of girls who are barely a step up from BP...

The assholes are still around...they're just swimming around various parts of Eccie that you don't have visibility to...your thread may bring them to the surface...we'll see...

I agree. Plenty of the best girls would rather work in P411 than deal with some of the bs that goes on eccie. The guys on eccie can be absolutely brutal even when they are spot on in their criticisms.

[ape8banana]

Well all of this is under the category of what we (clients) refer to as tcb.

You have to understand that it's still like trying to arrange a date in some clients' minds (think puppy wagging its tail) and not hearing back for long periods of time really bothers some people (being ignored). Makes them think that they're not important enough for you to take the time to respond in a timely manner, regardless of the reasons why.

Good tcb, i.e. timely responses in this instance are generally taken as a sign of mutual respect.

[Don T. Lukbak]

Originally Posted by Enchanting Elizabeth

I'm not understanding the lack of manners here on ECCIE. Not all of you men, but a few of you are literally ruining the hobby.

I hope this revision of your assertion is the more accurate one.

But it's easy to understand the way one turd in a box of chocolates makes all the rest taste like shit.

The message I'm taking from your post is that when you make a commitment, you keep it. That shows a level of respect for your customers that should be returned in kind.

Trouble is, a few escorts make commitments they intend to keep only if it is perfectly convenient for them. And just as one hysterical john has jaundiced your view of the john-community, it's normal human psychology for him to get wound up too damn tight after a flaky hooktard experience.

That, and he could be one of the younger fools coddled in the baseless self-esteem curriculum?

[cabletex7]

Gentle critique of your threAD: More pics less words.

[FoxyNC]

You have protested (and well, I may add) you have bitched....
Now the boys would like a cookie....


Ijs... lol

[explorer317]

There is a reason people call these kind of guys fucktards

I never liked that term, but I'm starting to get it

[zerodahero]

That's an eccietard for ya Elizabeth

[Guest123018-4]

Even though I have not contacted you via text or any other fashion and have never been NCNS by you, I would happily accept your offer of a 100$ discount on a session that one of the guys that you did NCNS decides not to take. Of course I cannot accept a discount that is not offered to others so I am more than willing to step up to the plate and fill the shoes of somebody you are trying to make amends with via your offer of a discount and they have refused......My references are impeccable but I tend to be an UTR type of guy. My time is fairly flexible but my body is not. In addition, I wont tell if you wont.......

[MOTOXMAN]

Don't you know with some of these fucktards it's all about them ???
This isn't the board from the past and before that. Not sure how much mutual respect exist anymore. Sad, I know.
Put them on do not see list and move on.