I Post On NCNS's

[looiecypher]

All the ladies that have met me know that I am always punctual and try to be a gentleman.
That being said I do post about it when I am NCNS'ed. So please don't do it.
I do not enjoy my time and gas being wasted. Neither do I enjoy looking forward to meeting someone then needing a cold shower because the event didn't happen . This has been stated by many others before me by clients and providers alike . If you make an appointment and for some reason cannot keep it have the common courtesy to at least call the other person and let them know.
This was my first venture out in over a month or two and it immediately brought back some of the reasons why I have distanced myself from the hobby of late.
When it becomes as difficult as trying to have an SO, why bother ?
Sorry about the mini-rant but this is my biggest pet peeve in the hobby.

[ithyphallicus]

So who are you talking about?

[looiecypher]

already posted it in the reviews ,you can find it there. This post is more of a general one.
I do my part and show up on time , I expect the lady to do so as well or at least give me a heads up.

[Lana Warren]

LOOIE,
This wouldn't have happened if you weren't such a stud muffin!

Sorry this happened to you, sweetie!

[TheWanderer]

I feel your pain.
It's a bad joke with no punchline.
Hey, things come up, life happens, we all get sick, sometimes we are just suddenly not in the mood. But the NO CALL part of that is inexcusable.

[pmdelites]

deleted as thought eccie lost a post.

[pmdelites]

looie, sorry for your misfortune.

unless it was a dire emergency, i would like to think that the woman would contact me in some way to let me know that she cant make it or why she didnt make it. but i'm not going to hold my breath if it happens.

there are enough other ways for a person to contact someone that not doing so means something. careless, forgetful, unorganized, weirded out, overbooked, who knows.

if it happened to me, i would give someone 12-24 hrs to contact me or respond to my calls before i write/post about it. and i would only post what happened, not much more than that.

[Guest011512]

The lady who recently NC/NS-ed you is ill. She is also inexperienced. Hopefully, this will be a learning experience for her.

[lisa.lisa0302]

You didn't call me loouie :-(

I joke, sorry that happen to you.

Hopefully the next one will show up for you.

[Guest012612-4]

Thats my #1. My #2 is the "running a little late".

[elgato111]

Things happen that cause problems with appointments, however, I don't post anything about it unless it happens more than once with the same provider.

[looiecypher]

Things do happen but I do not live in Dallas. I am South of Ft Worth so when I do drive to Dallas and get NCNS'ed its a minimum of three hours drive time.
Not to mention the money spent on gas,and my personal time. If I charged what I make per hour it would be very expensive. So in reality it is more than just a little inconvienence.
Even if someone isn't feeling well a phone or comp is not out of reach. Take a few seconds to let the other person know.

[TinMan]

Originally Posted by looiecypher

Things do happen but I do not live in Dallas. I am South of Ft Worth so when I do drive to Dallas and get NCNS'ed its a minimum of three hours drive time.
Not to mention the money spent on gas,and my personal time. If I charged what I make per hour it would be very expensive. So in reality it is more than just a little inconvienence.
Even if someone isn't feeling well a phone or comp is not out of reach. Take a few seconds to let the other person know.

If I was inconvenienced to this extent, I'd do the exact same thing.

[Guest030911]

Originally Posted by TinMan

If I was inconvenienced to this extent, I'd do the exact same thing.

I'd sell the house and move closer in and settle for a longer commute to work.

[Down with Crown]

As simple as a phone call...

No show, no call, no excuse, no exception.

Common courtesy, where has it gone.