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Kelly TNT · 10-17-2009, 12:20 AM

Or, do you just prefer to stick what you know? What tends to work for you?

I think for some of us we have a gauge. A sexual Meter of sorts. We kind of know what we like, what we don't, and what tends to work for us...in the normal sense.

Like we may know we can have an orgasm easily with oral, or we can climax multiple times with doggy, or being on top.

Are you ever able to let go of your usual things to experience something different? Sometimes new positions, new techniques, new rhythm, new style etc., can bring Amazing pleasure you never knew existed. You have to come out of your comfort zone to find it....

When you have no idea what's next, the guess work is gone. You surrender. You let someone else take control over you...
(Having said that, it's not easy finding the person that gets you on that level, Someone who understands you and knows where to draw the line in the sand.....)

Have you ever let yourself be Surprised by someone else? Did it go well? How did it feel stepping out of your "What Tends to Work" box? How would you rate your experience? High or Low on your Sexual Meter?

Have you ever surrendered sexually to a Provider?? Was she able to show you any Good Lovin you hadn't experienced before her??? Was it Hot? Or Not so Much?

~Kelly TNT

guest021411 · 10-19-2009, 02:07 AM

Love your topic!

I always want to see just how far we can go on the pleasure meter. IS there a "limit"?
Still looking myself.

At that point , of course I have surrendered and been surrendered to for the reasons you stated.

And yes it IS difficult to find someone that "takes you there" but not to far at a stretch.
But when you do ...wow!!

Bestman200600 · 10-19-2009, 04:17 AM

Kelly:

When you trust your provider almost anything goes. Your are open to new ideas. Whatever works best for the both of you.

Bubba · 10-19-2009, 07:30 AM

I have always thought it would be fasinating to try Kelly. There are a couple of ladies I would trust enough to see where we could go.

Since you are one of them we will have to see what we can come up with the next time I'm in Dallas!!

guest040711-1 · 10-19-2009, 10:32 AM

I Surrender

OFF · 10-19-2009, 10:56 AM

I also like the topic ...

I consider myself reasonably experimental ... I like a lot of things along with variety. I do enjoy meeting a lady who steps outside of the script. For a while I would seek out ladies for certain experiences, then I realized something. Many of the ladies sessions unless you change it are very scripted. I don't say it as a condemnation, simply as an observation.

But then occasionally, I would meet a lady who would make me wonder what we were going to do ... each time I went to see her. These ladies always seemed to do something different, some twist. It made me want to come back. It's not that the whole session changed it was just a subtle twist or approach.

We all do some form of script like kiss, bbbj, daty, CG, mish, doggie ... okay times up, clean-up and go. But their added subtleties such as a BBBJ with tic-tacs, blindfolds, ice cubes, whip creams, hosiery, showering together, giving a bath to each other, tie each other up ... just something different set their sessions apart from the others. Was it planned or spontaneous ... I don't know but it did provide a touch of variety.

I like that but, as Kelly mentioned, you have to trust the provider and be willing to go with the flow.

OFF :-)

Guest012510-4 · 10-19-2009, 11:42 AM

Kelly, I long for and go in search of this sort of sexual surrender. I think when it can be obtained it is a beautiful thing.

PoppyToyota · 10-19-2009, 05:45 PM

Not Yet.....There may be a few providers who I would consider though.

5150 · 10-20-2009, 08:33 AM

My second GF ruined me for life. She loved to experiment, surprise me with everything from different techniques, role playing, fetishes, public and private locations nothing was off limits. To answer your question I enjoy being surprised by someone else. Going outside of the “What Tends to Work” box can be very exhilarating.

I use to see a provider in Vegas frequently that I did surrender to sexually and literally (blind folded me). She showed me fantastic lovin, however due to the GF that had ruined me some what knew what to expect. Was it still hot well I am still remembering it every detail of that moment 10 years later and will when I am an old man

elpocitopolloloco · 10-24-2009, 12:48 AM

[QUOTE=Kelly TNT;13719]Have you ever surrendered sexually to a Provider?? Was she able to show you any Good Lovin you hadn't experienced before her??? Was it Hot? Or Not so Much?

You are right, Kelly. Few people connect so well. Sometimes the connection can be a complete surprise with a total stranger or a new experience with a close acquaintance.

I've had a the pleasure of taking the uncharted path many times. All I can say, it's the real reason I like hobby. If I wanted the same ole thang...I could stay at home!

There are the things I know I haven't done...then there are the things I don't know at all. I would love to learn more about what I don't know.