New to San Antonio

[Carribean stud]

What's up with this scene? It seems so much more complicated than simply finding a good looking woman to fuck. Pay them, fuck them and leave them was the only way I ever knew till I got here.

I'm speaking in reference to things like gfe, hot tubs and special requests people are asking for.

[mirandalee]

What kind of special requests? Every girl is different

[Carribean stud]

Originally Posted by mirandalee

What kind of special requests? Every girl is different

Mirandalee, I just realized while reading the posts in my first thread in ISO that it's none of my damn business what other people do. I have absolutely no reason to be a small minded drama queen.

[mirandalee]

Huh? lol.. Now I'm lost just wondering maybe you have fetishes or something since you mentioned about special requests, but whatever anyhoo good luck

[SA Angel]

To be perfectly honest Texas guys are a bit spoiled.

A 250 girl in this town is a 500/600 girl on the east coast.

Hell at 300 they expect:

Always Mani/pedi’Ed, lingerie and clothing requests, reasonably fit and pretty, an incall that is safe and clean, the girl to have her shit together (not showing up drunk/high and on time), her to actually LIKE her work, her to have supplies (lube,condoms, toys), etc.

None of that is unreasonable at that price point for this market. It’s just funny how travelers from the east coast see me and lose thier minds because they are used to poor service. Many of the providers I talk to report similar experiences. I don’t think I’m exceptional at all. I think this just shows the level of service that Texas offers.

Enjoy yourself and try not to fall in love. Most SA girls have insane IOP (illusion of passion) and don’t treat you like a number.

[DocHolyday]

Originally Posted by mirandalee

Huh? lol.. Now I'm lost

Don't feel like the Lone Rangerett!!!'

[mirandalee]

Right SA Angel lol..

[OldYeller]

Originally Posted by SA Angel

I don’t think I’m exceptional at all.

Angel, your fan club disagrees with ya - you are truly exceptional both mentally and physically! Your comments are always very intelligent and concise, and BCD - OMFG!

[Carribean stud]

Originally Posted by OldYeller

Angel, your fan club disagrees with ya - you are truly exceptional both mentally and physically! Your comments are always very intelligent and concise, and BCD - OMFG!

I don't doubt any of your statement old yeller. Simply based on what she has written I can say she is very knowledgeable and intelligent which obviously leads me to believe she conducts her business well.

[Dr Grey]

Originally Posted by Carribean stud

What's up with this scene? It seems so much more complicated than simply finding a good looking woman to fuck. Pay them, fuck them and leave them was the only way I ever knew till I got here.

I'm speaking in reference to things like gfe, hot tubs and special requests people are asking for.

On this site, you can literally almost find anything you want. It's the purpose of having a community and a board. You can request a gfe or pse session. Add things like fetish. Take a vacation to Grecian islands. Partake in bondage, bdsm and dominatrix if you want. Lots of forums to explore here and ladies willing to do as you desire within a particular time frame if they are that type for a session you want. And lastly, you can share your experiences in a review and read others adventures as well. Helps make your selection for what you want. If a quick session is all you desire, many women offer that too.

As for market, our rates are consistent with most of the world. And do appreciate those who can be within a working salary and budget. Even Europe, and most places are less expensive. Only in NY and LA have rates rose to astronomical amounts for an hour of time. Saw porn stars in London going for 350 an hour. Fkk girls are much less. Most of northern Europe is 200 to 300 as is most states. Just seems to be the going rate. So no, not spoiled by price points. Girls are welcome to charge what they want though. However, we are spoiled by women with amazing attitudes and IOP time to time. Have heard the art of providing a bit better here than most places.

[Carribean stud]

On the subject of price points, that's something that's hard to compare between people who are operating in area that legally allows them and an area where a prostitute might be prosecuted by the law. The cost of living also becomes an interesting factor.

Generally speaking The cost of living for a prostitute is different than most peoples. The majority were raised in dysfunctional homes and were victims of abuse and often multiple types of abuse. Their coping mechanisms failed them they typically have bad lifestyle choices and Habits and significant others (who typically have bad habits) and children who depend on them. They have no money management skills and virtually live client to client. They burn cash at alarming rates.

Let's try some hooker math:

Let's say a hooker works 5 days a week bringing in 900 per day.
900 x 5 = 4500 a week
Let's say this hooker never has a slow week and is able to work 40 weaks a year (figuring 12 weaks for menstrual cycle)
4500 x 40 = 180,000 per year
Yes they have expenses but It's not common that they report all or at least some of their income to the IRS.

How many manage to save even 10% of their income? Do you think many first year hookers have 10% of 180,000 which is 18,000? What about one that's worked 5 years do you think she has 90,000 in cash or invested somewhere?

The type of person who is willing to prostitute cannot be compared to that of an ordinary functional person and by us partaking in their services we must realize that for her to at least resemble some type of normal for an hour and perform her services we must financially enable her level of crazy in the real world.

[Carribean stud]

The 18,000 per year I was speaking of indicates that they are trapped most even if they go to night school simply will not be able to live on the wages that real world job brings I'm sure many have tried to leave but lacked the life skills and were forced to at the very least return to prostitution on a part time basis if not full time and at some point for any number of reasons they may no longer be able to work as a prostitute.

[LyssandraAsh]

Originally Posted by Carribean stud

The 18,000 per year I was speaking of indicates that they are trapped most even if they go to night school simply will not be able to live on the wages that real world job brings I'm sure many have tried to leave but lacked the life skills and were forced to at the very least return to prostitution on a part time basis if not full time and at some point for any number of reasons they may no longer be able to work as a prostitute.

Wow. Just wow. The ultimate stereotype huh? I've only been a provider for about two months and I have met several ladies that live comfortably, have retirement accounts, investments, and also real world jobs and skills outside of the hobby. They do this because they enjoy it. Yes, of course it's also for money but that's only part of it. Not every provider is on here because they're down on their luck and have no other option to support themselves. Personally, I have a BA, MA, and I am currently working on an additional post-baccalaureate degree. I have 10 years of managerial office skills and an IQ of 157. I grew up lower middle class and was always encouraged by my parents that I could be whatever I wanted to be in life. They were extremely supportive of everything I did and they even know that I am a provider and are fully accepting. My household was always sex-positive and open-minded in general. Yes, of course I do this to make money but it's also because I truly enjoy sex and I am constantly horny so I provide this service (not to mention I am just really good at what I do). Not all women have a sex drive like I do so why shouldn't I use it to my advantage? No one forced me into this. This was completely my choice and I love my job.

[mitch p]

Originally Posted by LyssandraAsh

Wow. Just wow. The ultimate stereotype huh? I've only been a provider for about two months and I have met several ladies that live comfortably, have retirement accounts, investments, and also real world jobs and skills outside of the hobby. They do this because they enjoy it. Yes, of course it's also for money but that's only part of it. Not every provider is on here because they're down on their luck and have no other option to support themselves. Personally, I have a BA, MA, and I am currently working on an additional post-baccalaureate degree. I have 10 years of managerial office skills and an IQ of 157. I grew up lower middle class and was always encouraged by my parents that I could be whatever I wanted to be in life. They were extremely supportive of everything I did and they even know that I am a provider and are fully accepting. My household was always sex-positive and open-minded in general. Yes, of course I do this to make money but it's also because I truly enjoy sex and I am constantly horny so I provide this service (not to mention I am just really good at what I do). Not all women have a sex drive like I do so why shouldn't I use it to my advantage? No one forced me into this. This was completely my choice and I love my job.

You go girl!!!

[LyssandraAsh]

Originally Posted by Carribean stud

Let's say a hooker works 5 days a week bringing in 900 per day.
900 x 5 = 4500 a week
Let's say this hooker never has a slow week and is able to work 40 weaks a year (figuring 12 weaks for menstrual cycle)
4500 x 40 = 180,000 per year

Also, you are way overestimating how much we make in a week, at least speaking from my own personal experience. There are more slow weeks than busy weeks. Granted, I am still new so I haven't fully made a name for myself just yet but I'm lucky if I make even a quarter of the amount you stated.

You also mentioned expenses, just in the two months that I have started I have spent about 1000 on lingerie, 300 on toys, 500 on makeup and hair products, 300 on mani/pedis, and 900-1000 on incall locations.