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Old 12-13-2017, 04:03 PM   #1
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Default Are these little things worth it or make it or break it matter? Or do I just need to loosen up?

I love to have the mood set everytime I set up time with someone. I was noticing that...of course not everyone thinks that the little things matter. I have been noticing that if these things arent done I fall behind on time rather to let it go.
SO IS IT WORTH IT REALLY?
Examples of my things that ill be late for and do they matter? I know you all got things that you have...lol
1. I have to make sure that my bathroom is clean and especially toilet nust incase they use the restroom.
2. I have to have my candles lit and a nice aroma.
3. I must be showered and dressed ..make up on ect before I see them.
4. No sign of garbage or clothes and misc things out. ( I will throw it all in my closet to the point it will collide if opened but not the garbage ...)
5. Music must be on.
6. Towels and bodywash must be ready...
7.My nailsmust be painted perfect.
My list is much longer. Im starting to wonder if need to loosen up.
What things are the the things that matter?
I know that these are normal but i feel like if im missing on something id rather be late. Then again he may not care so wouldthe little things be worth it?
I feel like maybe I'm to anal when it comes to presenting myself. I have much more of a list.
So I just though Id see what other ladies do and find out if its even of importance to my visitor.

SEE I like when a client is right on time. Not a min early cause i use up my last sec and still dont feel readyy!!
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Old 12-13-2017, 06:27 PM   #2
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I do all of those things.
It an easy concept ... Time Management. .
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Old 12-13-2017, 06:48 PM   #3
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Be clean.
Be naked.
Have a good attitude.
Have fun.

Clean house helps. Messy is not as bad as dirty.
Clean towels or washcloths are good.

I don't like smokey places.
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Old 12-13-2017, 06:55 PM   #4
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Well appearance and the scene set the mood, so I am totally with you on preparation. I like to ask my gents what type of music do they like, so I don't run them off with some Billy Joel if thats' not their thing. P411 profiles help alot when it comes to me choosing my outfit, as well as makeup and perfume. My gents can make requests as well..so "knowing a little about them always helps"

I like lights semi-dim, music on, a candle or warmer going and of course dressed to impress. I put alot of effort into each date I have because ..after all It's just part of the hobby.

I think your doing fine, just don't let it stress you, guys can pick up on that.(as I am sure you know)
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Old 12-13-2017, 06:56 PM   #5
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As a guy, it would totally matter to me. I do like a feeling of a mood set with a woman who has got all done up for my enjoyment. As if i have a lady come to my house for an outcall, i try to clean up my house as much as possible, as im renovating, and doing it myself so its a slow process, but ill dim the lights, burn candles, vacuum, shower, trim, shave, haircut. Treat my time as im actually brining a date home. Cant say for other fellas, but thats how i roll.
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Old 12-13-2017, 07:29 PM   #6
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I love to have the mood set everytime I set up time with someone. I was noticing that...of course not everyone thinks that the little things matter. I have been noticing that if these things arent done I fall behind on time rather to let it go.
SO IS IT WORTH IT REALLY?
Examples of my things that ill be late for and do they matter? I know you all got things that you have...lol
1. I have to make sure that my bathroom is clean and especially toilet nust incase they use the restroom.
2. I have to have my candles lit and a nice aroma.
3. I must be showered and dressed ..make up on ect before I see them.
4. No sign of garbage or clothes and misc things out. ( I will throw it all in my closet to the point it will collide if opened but not the garbage ...)
5. Music must be on.
6. Towels and bodywash must be ready...
7.My nailsmust be painted perfect.
My list is much longer. Im starting to wonder if need to loosen up.
What things are the the things that matter?
I know that these are normal but i feel like if im missing on something id rather be late. Then again he may not care so wouldthe little things be worth it?
I feel like maybe I'm to anal when it comes to presenting myself. I have much more of a list.
So I just though Id see what other ladies do and find out if its even of importance to my visitor.

SEE I like when a client is right on time. Not a min early cause i use up my last sec and still dont feel readyy!!
Holly, you are the kind of escort l like meeting.
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Old 12-13-2017, 10:41 PM   #7
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I love to have the mood set everytime I set up time with someone. I was noticing that...of course not everyone thinks that the little things matter. I have been noticing that if these things arent done I fall behind on time rather to let it go.
SO IS IT WORTH IT REALLY?
Examples of my things that ill be late for and do they matter? I know you all got things that you have...lol
1. I have to make sure that my bathroom is clean and especially toilet nust incase they use the restroom.
2. I have to have my candles lit and a nice aroma.
3. I must be showered and dressed ..make up on ect before I see them.
4. No sign of garbage or clothes and misc things out. ( I will throw it all in my closet to the point it will collide if opened but not the garbage ...)
5. Music must be on.
6. Towels and bodywash must be ready...
7.My nailsmust be painted perfect.
My list is much longer. Im starting to wonder if need to loosen up.
What things are the the things that matter?
I know that these are normal but i feel like if im missing on something id rather be late. Then again he may not care so wouldthe little things be worth it?
I feel like maybe I'm to anal when it comes to presenting myself. I have much more of a list.
So I just though Id see what other ladies do and find out if its even of importance to my visitor.

SEE I like when a client is right on time. Not a min early cause i use up my last sec and still dont feel readyy!!
You sound like a lady that really truly enjoys what you do and that you make sure you are presenting yourself in a sexy pleasant manner. As a guy and a long time hobbiest I like when a lady enjoys and has fun with what we are doing and if all the steps you take make you comfortable and satisfied with your appearance then I say don’t change a thing.
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Old 12-14-2017, 07:01 AM   #8
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While the replies have complimented you on your preparation, only one addressed your issue. Time management. Is your preparation causing appts. to be delayed? That should be the determining factor.
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Old 12-14-2017, 07:47 AM   #9
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# 3 would be most important to me and a good attitude.is to. I am not into candles and music all that much.

Just my thoughts.
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Old 12-14-2017, 08:28 AM   #10
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Music, candles, TV, all that doesn't matter to me.
I prefer it quiet, so I can concentrate on the noise coming from her mouth, sucking noises, moaning noises, squealing noises, slurping noises, squishing noises from my cock going in and out of her tunnel of love.

If there are candles, I probably wouldn't notice. If they make her happy, light them up.

I just like my ladies clean. Where ever we lay or sit clean...
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Old 12-14-2017, 03:49 PM   #11
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Well id love to meet those who would like to meet. And papadee i dont think im ever prepared. Theres always in my mind improvement needed to me. The best could always be better.
And um latelyi hung w some other providers here and there and the waysome of them allow a client to see there mess and yet he keeps going back was just why ithought maybe i over do it... Not that i would change. I just wanted to start a thread and let some gents know how i am... Its a lick sir. But thank you.
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Old 12-14-2017, 05:07 PM   #12
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Well id love to meet those who would like to meet. And papadee i dont think im ever prepared. Theres always in my mind improvement needed to me. The best could always be better.
And um latelyi hung w some other providers here and there and the waysome of them allow a client to see there mess and yet he keeps going back was just why ithought maybe i over do it... Not that i would change. I just wanted to start a thread and let some gents know how i am... Its a lick sir. But thank you.
All good, but are you on time for the appt?
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Old 12-14-2017, 08:32 PM   #13
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Well some say I am the Queen of atmosphere"..lol
(Rspecially at my private incall in Springfield)
Music
Candles
Dim lighting
Extra towels n washclothes
Refreshments..RC cola,water,liquor,candy and moonpies for refreshment
Irish spring and Axe for shower time
Special soap for Bubblebath and Rubber duckies for the bath
And I even put up a disco type light and have a table set with festive decor



I put great effort into my decor..it makes my hotel feel homier and cozier and matters to me even if it doesnt to a gent! But I have had guys tell me that they read things about my incall atmosphere that intrigued them and they were happy to see it when they visited....hell I even had one gent get upset with me cause I didnt have Irish Spring for his shower!!
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Old 12-15-2017, 06:21 AM   #14
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Ilove the fact that you gonto so much effort to prepare. Yes the little things count. Hats off and kudos. The last thing i wanna see is a mess when im on avfantasy journey! If it is causing your appts to be delayed, just start a bit earlier. Once you have you place tidy, get yourself ready, then use the time left doing the piddly things. Seems to me it might be as much nervous energy as anything.
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Old 12-15-2017, 06:57 AM   #15
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Those little things are definitely missing from the hobby lately. Seems to me that class level has dropped and we could use more classy providers
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