Does being asked this offend you guys?? And if so, what's the best way to ask??

[seximisslexi]

I always request my clients to uh "wash up" in the restroom before beginning. Some guys have seemingly taken offense to this but it's for my own peace of mind even if you did shower at home haha... Is there a POLITE and non offensive way to ask?!?! Lol

Xoxo
Lexi

[Guest030816]

There's really no polite way to ask a guy to clean up if he's already showered within the hour. Kammye said awhile back it's just her "policy". Knowing that going in takes the awkwardness out of the situation.
Counter question, how can you pre-assume a gent is not clean just because you didn't witness the shower? And how can we assume you are clean not having witnessed yours?
Rather sticky wicket wouldn't you say?
And... when does the clock start? Walking in the door or out of the shower? The concept raises a lot of questions.

[pyramider]

Sounds high maintenance. Some fucktards even dip themselves in stinckum and ca shower would wash the top layer of cologne off.

[Oralist]

If you insist on a shower for the guy, you should shower with him to assure him you are clean, as well. It's not a one way street.

[seximisslexi]

i don't insist on shower, just a rinse is fine if he's showered and yes I take the time to do the same. And as far as the clock, my visits are usually laid back, ie no clock watching. But for conversation purposes I would say after, when the fun begins haha. And you'd be surprised... A lot of guys come in straight from work..... And I don't pick of choose who I ask to do it..... Like you mentioned, just policy

[Houston.Epicurean]

I bet if you just say I like to start our meeting with a quick mutual rinse in the shower off the clock you will get zero objections and a chance to ensure what ever you want washed is just as washed as you want it. As you enter the bathroom you could even pour two small paper cups of scope and say cheers and then everything would be clean and fresh. Generally I take care of these things before but I wouldn't object or be offended by such a request and if it was made clear it was off the clock with nice fluffy towels I'd totally enjoy it.

[hawkman]

I always shower before coming to an appointment, hair still damp. So if asked I would probably note the time, and make sure that was not being used against the time I'm paying for.

[tbone77494]

Yep, just tell them it's a policy, be sure to hand them a clean towel, have non scented soap, and I also like the two cups of mouthwash. I doubt they will mind. If they do, send them on their way.

[citizen44]

Do not in the slightest feel bad for asking this. Just put it on your ads and say a 3 minute wash up of all the obvious parts is required for everyone on arrival.

After 3 instances of "pre-lubing" and one provider with lube and white froth all over her kitty, I no longer ask for providers to be in lingerie. I ask them to have wet hair and a towel on when I arrive.

[pootie tang79]

I don't find it offensive I think we all should be up to par with our hygiene. Sometimes I read reviews where guys say she a light kisser and some say she DFK and then they wonder why. If you want a good session be clean it might help.

[bbkid]

I all but INSIST on taking a shower before.....

[jonfor4]

Originally Posted by bbkid

I all but INSIST on taking a shower before.....

This. I don't feel right unless I'm freshly showered.

[ChantalStoneNYC]

Originally Posted by Houston.Epicurean

I bet if you just say I like to start our meeting with a quick mutual rinse in the shower off the clock you will get zero objections and a chance to ensure what ever you want washed is just as washed as you want it. As you enter the bathroom you could even pour two small paper cups of scope and say cheers and then everything would be clean and fresh. Generally I take care of these things before but I wouldn't object or be offended by such a request and if it was made clear it was off the clock with nice fluffy towels I'd totally enjoy it.

Love that.

[kerwil62]

One can never be too clean. If she joins it's all better!

Play in the shower can be fun!

[boardman]

You should post a threAD in the threAD threAD and offer me a blow job...ijs