Being a good appointment

[Guest082718]

Ok gents. Our eccie ladies take good care of us and we should strive to take care of them. For some of us vets, we know what to, but it's always good to remind some, and to help our new members.

We want the ladies to repeat with us. Imagine finding a lady who gives you the best time and then you can't ever rebook because you made some mistakes.

I may miss things so guys and girls chime in PLEASE.

First grooming:

Ok this isn't a date with your future SO, but still you should be clean and presentable.

1. Just because you work in an office or don't do a lot of physical activity, don't assume you're "clean enough" down there. When you arrive excuse yourself to the restroom and give it a quick wipe with a baby wipe if she provides, or a washcloth if in a hotel. Maybe worth picking some up hell a small pack can be like $1 to $2.

It's quick, easy and a nice gesture.

2. Would you want to kiss after you guzzled lukewarm coffee or smoked 2 packs of camels? She doesn't either. However, brushing your teeth or strong mouthwash may be just as bad, especially right before. If you can I recommend, if you can, brushing your teeth an hour before the appointment, only drinking water till the time, and popping a mild mint right before arriving.

3. FINGERNAILS. Ok a lot of guys love a good finger bang. But you should keep your nails trimmed, and for goodness sake after you trim them check for sharp "edges or points" and rough skin at the edge of the finger and nail. Saw a provider 1 time who wouldn't let me FIV because some guy had scratched her good and another time a small sharp spot hit a lady's clit and put a damper on things. She still had a good O from my oral, but didn't squirt like I had made her do before.

3. Shave it or grow it. Stubble is scratchy.

RATES and SERVICES

1. If you don't have $200 (or whatever her rate is) in hand that you can flush down the toliet, don't schedule. Now, if it's prior to your payday and you know you can pay that's fine. But if just "think you may have extra money" be courteous and don't tie her time up and then have to cancel because your "money didn't show up".

2. Don't haggle. Pay what's asked and don't complain. Now, if you see a lady traveling through that doesn't stop often or it's her first visit to your area, feel free to ask. If it's someone who lives in your area or visits often, just wait till you have her requested amount.

If you do ask in an effort not to miss a great lady, politely offer what you have, but I would recommend keeping it within $25 to $50 of her rate. Don't expect a $200 an hour lady to see you for $100. If she says "no" thank her for her time and move on. But when hotel rooms are $100 or so a night and no one has scheduled, you might get a surprise and she agrees. But if she charges $200 and takes $175, don't say well how about $150.

3. If extras are extra don't force it. If a girl will do CIM or Greek for additional donation and you can't or don't want to pay for it, take the services offered, enjoy and move on. And for goodness sake if a girl doesn't CIM don't try and sneak one in!

4. Do your homework. Sometimes you have to pick between looks and services. If girl A looks like the hot girl in your apartment complex, but doesn't do GFE, but girl B does GFE but doesn't fulfill any kind of fantasy, ask yourself "what do I really want". Do you want the fantasy or the service. Think about it, make an informed decision, and enjoy. But if girl A doesn't kiss, don't expect her to change that.

5. Be nice. Ok let's face it, this is a business deal. But just because it is, still treat these ladies like ladies and with courtesy and respect. Be kind and considerate. They are ladies with emotions, feelings, and they can feel physical pain. They are not a sex toy for you to use, abuse and throw away. By all means enjoy the session, but if she gives an indication you may be hurting her, pause for a second. Now if you're going rough and she indicates that's ok, fine. Also, don't degrade them, call them names, demand they do what they are already doing, unless you and her have agreed to before hand.

6. Afterwards, if you enjoyed yourself write a good review. Also send a text or PM letting you know you enjoyed yourself and can't wait to see her again.

7. Respect her time. If your appointment is over leave. Now sometimes you may be having fun or going for a second (or third) shot. But listen to her cues, if your time is close and you know it and it ain't happening don't force it. And if you know round 2 is going to take 45 minutes and you only have 20, it may be best to save it for a rainy day.

Also, if you are just hanging out after the activities, each of you may be having fun talking and visiting. If the lady is ok and doesn't have anyone scheduled for a while she may let you hang out. However, after the scheduled time is up over get dressed and ready to leave and offer to do so. If she says you can stay and visit that's a decision between the two of you, but don't expect any additional fun. But if she wants to discuss the hobby, places to eat or visit in town, the football game or last night's episode of Game of Thrones for all means enjoy the other side of the hobby.

8. If you can afford it and she did great by all means TIP.

9. If you call on the way over ask if she needs you to bring her anything. Our ladies or professionals and should have the "tools of the trade", but saving them a trip for something to drink or a snack would always be appreciated.

10. If you want something special, ask. But read reviews and if the lady doesn't do it, choose someone else or don't seek such activities. If it's not clear what services a lady provides ask her before booking. Now make sure you and her have established reputations as new ladies are scared of cops and cops may be the new lady.

11. Communicate. If running late, a cancellation looks like it may happen, or something else let her know as soon as you can, not 5 minutes before you're scheduled to show up.

This isn't a complete list I know, and I don't pretend to be an expert, but sometimes it's just good to commit common sense to writing so we can all learn.

[aNameinGulfport]

looks like a pretty good list.

[Road Lizard]

He missed one: Wash your damn ass!!! There is no way to nice say your ass and balls stink! Scrub those damn thangs!

[Guest082718]

Thanks RL. Was trying to find a nice way to say that lol.

[Madpress]

What's a good tip in your opinion?

[Guest082718]

It varies Mad. Just remember even if it's only an extra $20 it's $20 she didn't have and that's a tank of gas a nice meal etc. But using the waitress scale 10% to 20% at a $200 an hour rate is $20-$40. If I can I always try and do at least $25. It wasn't required as the rate was agreed to, but any extra I gave has never been looked at as not good enough.

Keep in mind a tip is a tip. Extra services are extra costs.

[Guest082718]

As an addendum, had a very insightful provider PMed me and said to make sure the lady is ok with you posting a review before doing so. Some may have a no review policy, but not list on their showcase.

To the provider who politely PMed and pointed this out thank you!!!!! This is how our community should work.

[JustaGuyinMS]

ECCIE guidelines specifically state that no review policies are not allowed if the provider creates a showcase or advertises on ECCIE. Here's the specific wording:

#29 - Verified Providers who use the Showcase feature or advertise in our forums are not entitled to a no-review policy. Should circumstances arise which require or prompt you to request a no-review policy on ECCIE, please understand that enforcement of this policy also results in revoking of your showcase or ad-posting privileges. Ladies who have chosen a no-review policy on ECCIE may still post and create threads in any of the non-advertising forums on the board and will still have access to the girls-only areas of the board.

So, if a lady says she has a no review policy, please suggest that she read the guidelines so she doesn't get in trouble.

JaG

[Cassie107]

Originally Posted by Road Lizard

He missed one: Wash your damn ass!!! There is no way to nice say your ass and balls stink! Scrub those damn thangs!

Wash,rinse and repeat. Then repeat one more time. Especially if you love for a lady to really get in there and enjoy herself. I have a VERY sensitive nose and I'm not going to be able to enjoy myself if there's even a slight odor and trust me when I say you should prefer us ladies enjoy being there LMAO.

[Cassie107]

Very good list Mr lickher. Hygiene, manicure and manners are of utmost importance. I would definitely say though is DON'T TEST A LADIES BOUNDARIES. If she says no about something don't keep pushing.

[gentlemantoo]

Who needs a list of how to act? How childish is this? Maybe some of the ladies need a list too, lol? One guy leaving as I walk up. Men's boxers laying around the room, fix your make up last dick you sucked smudged your lipstick.

This is ridiculous, a grown person does not need a list of how to act. When a lady has those problems I listed, I just do not see her again or even the first time, I leave. Women have that right as well, he stinks, ask politely for him to shower or leave. No one has to put up with nasty ass people. Question is how bad does she need the money?

She makes real good money and she has to put up with some dilemmas, who doesn't? I meet stupid people, unkept people, etc. in my line of work. Question is how bad do I need the money? Posting a list does nothing to help, unless you are kissing ass to the ladies or trying to get brown nose points, which with women who will do sex acts for money seems kind of pointless. Just my humble opinion.

[AdamBomB]

Originally Posted by gentlemantoo

. Just my humble opinion.

^^^ What he said ^^ Good etiquette should come naturally and for most it does , common sense , not quite as common unfortunately . I just don't need a handbook for stuff that comes naturally along with a lick of sense .

[Cravinhead69]

I have a question regarding donations: Let's say you make an appointment for an hour, but you finish in 30 minutes, and you have pre donated the $$$ as some ladies wants the donation up front so you don't skip out on her. Should you expect a refund difference for the time difference?
Have any of you had this experience or have the ladies you seen, wait until afterwards for the donation?
If not, do you just leave and feel cheated?

[Guest082718]

Ok Craven good question. In my opinion, it depends on the nature of the time difference. To avoid police stings, you are paying a lady for her time. What happens after that is between the 2 of you. But we all know why this board is here.

So if you pay for an hour and the lady advertises MSOG (multiple shots on goal), you should expect your time to consist of the entire time agreed upon and to be filled with whatever activities you and her agree to.

If she says MSOG are extra and you didn't pay consider a lesser amount of time when you book.

Now if you pay for an hour, and are done in let's say 15 minutes, and she starts getting dressed and saying you need to leave, then this is where a bad review could be considered.

As I have gotten older round 2 has been more difficult to no pun intended come by. So I usually book a half if it's an option. However, if she offers is 1 hour, and I pay for it, then I don't think the balance of your time is an unreasonable request even if it's just talking.

The big point is be considerate and my experience has been with our lovely ladies on here that they will be the same. Sometimes some cuddling and good conversation is a welcome change especially if you click with a lady.

[barrythawne]

As someone with experience with that exact scenario CH here's my opinion.

As Mr said, you are only paying the lady for her time. Anything that happens because you both just happen to be totally in to each other and you can't stop yourselves has nothing to do with the donation. If you book an hour, she has scheduled an hour out of her day for you. What is done with that time is irrelevant. Spend some time chatting, getting to know each other, etc. There is NO rush. At least with a good provider there isn't. If you "finish" in less time, take that time to relax and chat some more. The ladies are used to this. It happens. We're not all porn stars. They'll appreciate it and you'll start to build a connection. Your next visit will be better. Be a gentleman!

In the end if you book an hour, you pay for an hour. If you choose not to use the whole hour, that's not her fault. To expect a refund would be wrong. If you would have only booked the half to start she could have scheduled another client and made more money.

There have been numerous times I have left before my time was up. I was done, and didn't need to stay longer. On the other hand there have been times I've booked an hour and stayed longer without her asking for additional. It balances out.

On the other hand if she rushes you out and your time isn't up regardless, she's not a good provider and doesn't respect YOUR time. Yep. Give her an appropriate review and move on. Don't argue with her. It's a waste of your time and could be dangerous if she has a pimp/bf, etc around. Just chalk it up to a lesson.

Hope any of that made sense. Even as I typed it it seemed like rambling. lol!