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Sistine Chapel · 07-20-2019, 08:12 AM

Question.

How do you handle getting odd and weird looks from people when on dates with providers or younger women. Specifically when its obvious yall are not a couple and shouldn't be together. When its obvious you could be her dad or grandpa....how do you deal with such a stigma from society. What do you say to put the lady at ease. I ask because I was at Pappisitoes last weekend and I saw this chubby fat guy he looked lame as fuck walking hand in hand with this beautiful ~24 yr old. I also saw her constantly checking me out and he noticed too. He was clearly her sugar daddy and I was hoping that she went to the restroom so I could holla. But he grabbed her hand paid the bill and rushed out of there. She looked like she didnt want to be with him and wanted to have some real fun. It was awkward but I wonder how that's typically handled by some.

Serious responders only.

Guest090819-3 · 07-20-2019, 10:21 AM

Px, I can only imagine how difficult it is to keep your several eccie handle personas sounding completely different and in some cases actually at odds with one another, but please do better.

Sistine is the race-baiting social station instigator while shine is the delusional self-loving megalomaniac. Please keep them straight when posting.

tbone2u · 07-20-2019, 12:02 PM

He can't help it E

Same as px.....chest beating all the time.

This is why most here wonder

bb1961 · 07-20-2019, 01:39 PM

The mouse that roared...

ICU 812 · 07-21-2019, 02:13 PM

Multiple personalities aside for the moment:

My thought would be . .I avoid being seen with a provider in public.

Besides, I am probably in the Short-Fat-Whiteboy category myself. Like many here, I have to pay dearly and in cash to be naked in the same room with a hottie 1/2 to 1/3 my age.

Had a close call once and try not to get in that position any more.

tbone2u · 07-21-2019, 03:10 PM

I could care less who sees me.

Guest072519 · 07-21-2019, 04:02 PM

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Originally Posted by tbone2u

I could care less who sees me.

Me neither !! I have great facial expressions so I am great for giving whomever is staring at me a quick "What are you looking at glance" and keep it moving. LOL. When I out & about with my "friends" Im more concerned about enjoying myself...

BLM69 · 07-21-2019, 04:08 PM

I've seen some old guys with young hot chicks, guys looked like tricks with $ and the women looked like GPS whores, match made in heaven $

The one I seen a few days ago took the cake, old man on a wheelchair about late 80s with a hot young Latina, I first thought she was a care taker dressed hot but then he layed one on her. Big props to the old fart living his best life

tbone2u · 07-21-2019, 05:09 PM

That's what it's all about blm
I've never seen a Brinks truck behind a hearse

Guest072519 · 07-21-2019, 05:30 PM

One of my friends had a guy she met in the hobby 15-17 yrs ago. The old man was a hoot. I mean a red blooded good ole boy that anything at any point in time would fly out his mouth LOL. At 87 years old!
With all that being said, he didn't want to be stuck in a nursing home. His kids were just waiting on him to die to get his house.

So, He paid her 4k a month plus did much more for her kids ect… When he died 6 months ago he died a happy man with his dignity. It was crazy because just the week before he passed we went out for steak at Long Horn (he insisted). We would go anywhere with him. We were never embarrassed. We just made sure when we went me told the staff how he wanted everything at the table LOL and sat where nobody could hear him, incase he made a "not so politically correct" remark LOL.

When we went out to eat & do things it was always a good time because he was funny as hell.All he wanted to do was make sure we ate and drank whatever we wanted. And Its better had been the way we ordered it!

It made him happy.

Before he died He gave me a few things & I cherish them wont get rid of them because we loved that old man! You never know when you may meet someone (in the hobby ect) and they because more than "Leave it on the dresser" to you. Just yesterday my friend & I were in Walmart & I said "Hell if J** was here we wouldn't have to do any of this shit! " The old man always fixed any problems from car, to pluming ect… Then my friend said " I miss my old man".
You younger dudes could take some notes from older gents !! Usually, younger gents are the ones that do embarrassing shit in public. Make me scoot over and pretend like I am not even with you.

BLM69 · 07-22-2019, 04:51 PM

I'm curious if the old man still got his freak on?

Guest072519 · 07-22-2019, 05:11 PM

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Originally Posted by BLM69

I'm curious if the old man still got his freak on?

Haha.. at that point my friend was taking care of him and his accidents. I think he may have looked at some boobs here and there. He still had a lot of porn ect around. At that point he wanted her to be situated so she wouldn't struggle when he was gone. He was more worried about the lady who had been there for him thru the years!

At the time I was pregnant ( so my boobs were even bigger than they are now so the old man just stared and talked to my boobs LOL) and here is my friend... handling all of his biz. It was classic trying to explain to the med staff who we were. LOL. Meanwhile, His kids had access to his bank account at that and saw the checks and that she was on payroll. It was a one last "F you from J** to those kids who were just waiting on him to die. Oh and with out their knowledge sold his house & moved LOL. He had liquidated everything and really honestly If you knew that old man was telling them F you (waiting on me to die to get my house-money) ... because my friend was there every day taking care of him till the end- 10 yrs easy !!

While he was in hospital we went and did a courtesy sweep of the house of all pics ect… he had old agency print outs of ladies/ad's ect…. Hell he had been around way before the yellow pages just like me & my friend LOL. It was crazy trying to make sure we had all his hobby related things removed so the family wouldn't see them.... !!!!

My point in sharing this is to shed light on the fact that sometimes there are bonds between ladies & gents via the hobby that create long lasting friendships. I would never be embarrassed to go anywhere with a older gent like our J**.

tbone2u · 07-22-2019, 06:22 PM

Good story Jess

Sistine Chapel · 07-23-2019, 08:53 AM

@TJ I done heard plenty of "my friend" stories. Ummhmm. Your friend story sounds like its actually you. *plot twist*

Guest083119 · 07-23-2019, 09:24 AM

I've dated plenty of guys in real life that were 30 plus years my senior. Never thought once about people looking or wondering.

It's pretty much the norm in my neighborhood and the most people usually think is "that guy must be rich."