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Originally Posted by Hailey Starr
My opinion may not be the best but since I advertise on several sites that are at different levels, I tend to shy away from the "dinner and drinks" approach. I would suggest joining a site like P411 or datecheck as not all ladies shy away from a newbie if they've passed the checks. Also, some ladies are comfortable with doing employer checks, although I've never done that myself. I offer to newer hobbyists that I can see them in their homes if they have no references, of course I proceed with caution.
This is difficult to engage in if not interested in those who are willing to ignore references, I wish you the best of luck in finding, and engaging, with your first exciting endeavor.
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Hailey, I'm just wondering why you might shy away from the dinner and drinks approach. If that's not too nosey, I'm just curious.