Verification Alternatives

[Bsmith39402]

I am sure this may have been addressed before, but since I read about Gloria's bad expereince in Memphis on a reference. What are some alternative ways for a lady to verify you other than P411 and others? If I felt comfortable enough with a well know provider I would be willing to do the work call in verification, but only as a last resort. However, my company has a website and my name is listed along with my biogrophy. Would this be acceptable to ladies as opposed to a call?

Just always looking for options as safety is the name of the game for the providers and us men that love them.

[coven]

I would much rather put my info on P411 than to give my work info as well as my biography to a provider I do not yet know. Keep your private life private, use P411 or another service for verification. If a lady has a problem with LE and her computer is seized, she may have your info on her system. Now, LE knows about you.

P411's servers are hosted in Canada. There is no way for US Law Enforcement to compel a foreign company to provide information to them without the assistance of the Canadian government. The Canadian government is not likely to respond positively to a request of that sort since escorting in Canada is legal.

Just my 2 cents.

[fd150]

ASPD was compromised in Houston...they did a meet and greet and busted 12 ppl.......go to the search engines and find that info....thats why meet and greets dont have addresses written anywhere on posting boards due to that event that happened..A provider gave me this info thats been in this game alot LONGER than I.....so I go by what she says or does...so I would ONLY give vital info by PHONE....
let her verify it by PHONE....no paper trails....

[BIG C]

I'd say pay attention to wha coventricity posted and take heed.....

[fd150]

I understand what he wrote BIG C but I would not write any personal info anywhere other than a phone number that cant be traced ...they have cell phones like that with no contract...
the girl can do verbal confirmation with another provider (not meaning all his info being given to a new provider he doesn't knw..I completely understand that) if one of the providers gives me the ok then I AM OK with seeing him......there is one main provider in the MS area that I trust with my life and if she says he is ok then I am good to go....
just saying that one site was comprised and another can be done the same way....just a point..but eveyone is different at doing their own screening...so what do u think is the best way BIG C...u very intelligent..I am sure we are all open to learning a more effective method.......

[BIG C]

Originally Posted by fd150

so what do u think is the best way BIG C...u very intelligent..I am sure we are all open to learning a more effective method.......

As OP alluded to, this issue has been brought up before (not sure if on here, but many, many, many times on the "P") and there really isn't any "BEST" way to do this.....Check that.....I guess the best way to handle screening is doing whatever works best for the provider and hobbyist.....The provider absolutely HAS to screen clients using a method that SHE feels comfortable enough with that will make her accept an appointment with a client.....OTOH, the client absolutely HAS to decide what amount of his personal information he's willing to reveal to someone he doesn't know just to spend an hour with a provider and then risk having that come back to bite him in the ass at a later date.....As you can see, these interests of the provider and hobbyist can be, and often are, polar opposites of each other.....

There are many different alternatives from which one can choose when going through the screening process.....Register for one of these referral services (or most providers and hobbyists are on several of them), use provider referrals, or request (and provide) real world personal info.....Each one of these procedures has pros and cons, and there is no right or wrong choice for either of them.....Choose whatever method you're comfortable with using and then be damn determined to NOT deviate from it (but we always get in trouble when we say NEVER) and always be prepared to accept the consequences of your choice(s).....Pretty much all I can say about it.....