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Originally Posted by Wulf_Princess
not at all, i'm technically not doing anything wrong
i'm doing what everyone else does consistantly. i am stating my opinion about something i don't like. I'm just not being a pussy and posting it in a private area. It's called being honest and not being afraid of cowards
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But why get all worked up about it? Is it worth it? You've started over 5 'discussion' threads in 2 weeks, most of them bashing members on here and stirring up the shitty drama pot.
There's a difference between being
opinionated and being
bluntly disrespectful-- As a provider, I don't think it's worth having a reputation for being whiny, bitchy, and rude. Not saying you are, but all the "Look at me" threads followed by how terrible you think these guys are and naming everyone on your shit list isn't going to help get you where you want to be here. Newbie providers make mistakes but don't ever get careless about the image you are creating for yourself on here...
I don't know very much about you, or if you are doing this full-time, part-time, or what, but the #1 thing you should know about this place is that people really do TRY to push your buttons-- they WILL go out of their way to see how you will react to something and your reaction is what will give those people what they want most--- the SATISFACTION of getting under your skin!!
Usually if you have the ability to brush it off and be the bigger person sometimes and just let your haters talk their shit, things will die down quicker and won't even escalate to the point where you are naming people you are having issues with publicly--
that's a little extreme!
Is it really that serious that you have to individually call people out, constantly stir up shit.. or in your terms, provoke a discussion and you're just "stating your opinion"?
Every provider has their own way of conducting themselves and their business, and it is up to them how they want to present themselves on the board, if they choose to participate. Unless in some sick way it's fun for you to call guys out and be the center of (negative) attention, I think you should open up your eyes and see that there are a lot of different approaches you can take on here-- you don't have to be the brash, aggressive, in-your-face girl guys are intrigued by but don't want to take a chance on!
You can choose to act whatever way you like but I'm just speaking from experience when I say guys DO like an outspoken woman but not one that is going out of her way to insult, provoke and instigate others
Just my .02.. But I do respect you for speaking your mind and being yourself.
xo Savannah
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Give it a rest already
sorry i was taught if you lay to close to dogs you will end up with fleas, so when the mutts start barking i bite back
