fore, you asked "... am i wrong ? ..."
No.
as ketro stated, "Hobby life is about the fantasy of getting what you want when you want it."
i suggest/advise newbies to know what it is they want to experience during an encounter, be in handjob, footjob, oral sex (giving or receiving), analingus (giving or receiving), intercourse (vaginal or anal), fetish, kink, golden showers, etc. etc. etc.
cos, i believe, if you know what you want AND ask for it, you're more likely to get it and feel "satisfied" w/ the encounter. more like than if you just show up and hope/expect she knows what you want.
there are providers who specialize in L1, L2, and L3 as well as some combo of those. look for one who specializes in what you want.
good luck.
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